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The Dinner by Herman Koch

55 reviews

kailaelders's review against another edition

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dark mysterious tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.75

The first twenty chapters really dragged for me. They were full of Paul's exhausting condescension and judgement of everybody around him. He comes across as deeply insecure, misogynistic and violent from the start, although the extent of that violence is gradually revealed to be more and more literal and not just his intrusive thoughts. The central conflict, once it was finally revealed, did pique my interest, but I found the subsequent chapters to have another slow period before things started moving forward again. All the characters are insufferable and in some cases incorrigible, and by the end you're really rooting for their demise or at least some kind of justice. I think the story was intriguing but the way it was packaged just wasn't worth it for me.

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jennaz's review against another edition

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dark mysterious reflective tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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louisianasmith's review against another edition

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dark medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

A dark morality tale that will disturb some readers. Draws heavily on elements of Crime And Punishment in an updated setting and an expanded group of characters. The primary narration also made me instantly think of Camus and the Outsider. This book is definitely not for everyone but does provide the opportunity for much discussion on humanity and morality and related themes. 

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elisalasater's review against another edition

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adventurous challenging dark mysterious sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.25


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floorvm's review against another edition

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dark mysterious medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Plot
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Koch zn karakters vriend…. Hoe ze zo er van overtuigd zijn normaal te zijn, terwijl je langzamerhand gekke dingen begint op te merken… Sleept je helemaal mee. Ik had dit boek zo uit. Je zou wel kunnen zeggen dat dit een bijzondere familie is.
Ik had gehoopt dat de gerechten interessant zouden zijn vanwege het dure restaurant maar dat waren ze niet. Dat is niet Koch zn fout,  ik wilde het gewoon even zeggen.
Beetje jammer van t n-woord maar zou ook de bedoeling kunnen zijn(?)

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gibetal's review

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3.0


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beklovesbooks's review against another edition

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dark slow-paced

3.75

Well done. Dark, creepy, sometimes hard to relate to. I like that it all takes place over one long dinner with flashbacks.

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rosa96's review against another edition

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dark mysterious tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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juandb's review against another edition

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dark tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.25

A novel whose most enticing element is its plot: two couples meeting at a restaurant to discuss what to do about the horrible act their sons have committed. The complex relationship between the four characters makes the whole affair very entertaining, and it definitely made me want to keep reading till the end. But at the end of the day, I think that's what I'll remember the most from it: that it was entertaining.
Don't get me wrong: the book absolutely accomplishes what it sets out to do, which is to tell an entertaining story that mantains a tense atmosphere throughout. It's not a lifechanger, and it doesn't try to be one. I've read some other reviews that mention how it "makes you reconsider the sort of education we give to our children", and, while I see how one could get that impression, I just don't think the novel explores the subject enough to actually say anything about it. Sure, it describes how witnessing their father being violent could (what a surprise) make a child violent, but that's so obvious that it doesn't even feel like the book is actually saying anything. It feels like reading a book that describes how water freezes at 0°C: no one would call that a "comment on water mechanics"; it's just a fact. Maybe if it hadn't been so direct in how it describes the father's violence, it would have been more effective; but the episodes it narrates are so raw, so exaggeratedly violent, that it almost feels satirical. 
Something that I want to mention about the book is how every single character in it (it feels wrong to make such an absolute statement, but I honestly couldn't leave out anyone) is sickeningly immoral. The narrator, his wife, his brother and his sister-in-law. His son as well, and his brothers' two sons. Every single character that has some role in the story is either repugnant from the beginning, or is revealed to be later on. At first I actually thought the narrator's smugness toward his brother would stem from a genuine dislike of his lifestyle and worldview, but both he and his wife are later revealed to be just as crooked. I honestly don't have a problem with reading books with loathsome characters, and this isn't the exception, especially since I got a strong impression that the author was well aware of how horrid they were. I saw the book almost as a window into a world of people with repulsive ideologies, like it was telling me "See? See how awful these people are? The narrator thinks his brother is bad, but in reality he's just as bad as him!"
Overall, as I said, the book is definitely interesting, and I would recommend it to anyone searching for something to grab their attention for a while.

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tiny_artificer's review

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dark slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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