kenna14's review against another edition
5.0
AUDIOBOOK
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Sexual harassment, Racism, Medical content, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Self harm, Rape, Injury/Injury detail, Fatphobia, and Eating disorder
marissasa's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, and Rape
muchadoaboutliz's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Ableism, Body shaming, Bullying, Cursing, Sexual assault, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Gaslighting, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, Medical trauma, Racism, and Sexism
Moderate: Medical content, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, and Domestic abuse
Minor: Homophobia and Xenophobia
gibetal's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Rape, Eating disorder, Vomit, Sexual assault, Medical trauma, Injury/Injury detail, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Racism
jettaparadis's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Eating disorder, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Fatphobia, and Body shaming
Moderate: Mental illness, Racism, Sexual violence, Self harm, Physical abuse, and Suicidal thoughts
Minor: Injury/Injury detail, Emotional abuse, and Ableism
siobhanward's review
4.0
This is a really heavy book - it's worth checking out other reviews and trigger warnings before jumping in because there were definitely times that I had to put it down for a bit before continuing. Still a great read and I look forward to reading more.
Graphic: Eating disorder, Vomit, Sexual assault, Rape, Racism, Medical content, Fatphobia, and Injury/Injury detail
biblioghoul's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Rape, Toxic relationship, Body shaming, Sexual violence, Fatphobia, and Eating disorder
Moderate: Racism, Medical content, Medical trauma, Injury/Injury detail, and Homophobia
careinthelibrary's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Rape, Sexual assault, Vomit, Dysphoria, Medical trauma, Toxic relationship, Chronic illness, Addiction, Body shaming, Bullying, Eating disorder, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Ableism, Emotional abuse, and Fatphobia
Moderate: Injury/Injury detail
chris_reads's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Rape, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Ableism, Body shaming, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Medical content and Vomit
Minor: Forced institutionalization, Injury/Injury detail, Racism, and Sexual harassment
j_m_alexander's review against another edition
4.5
This is one of those memoirs that I don't think anyone can say they particularly "enjoyed", but anyone with an ounce of humanity and empathy should be able to relate to, appreciate, and be thankful for it.
At once painfully detailed and sparsely written. This is an author telling their truth (of her body), exploring their feelings about those truths (of her body), their parts in creating their own pain (regarding her body), being honest about those that created the wounds that will never fully heal and those that insist on rubbing salt in those wounds, as well as a society that dehumanizes, disgenders, and disrespects the bearer of these wounds (because of their views of her body). I have heard some characterize this book and the author as self-pitying or all-blaming, but I wonder whether they actually read the book (or lived a life). Gay does share her sadness, self-loathing, and anger - who can find fault in that? Who can't relate at least in some way to it? It's honest. It's relieving in some ways to hear so much hard truth revealed. It's simple (or it's extremely complicated). Roxane Gay does not ask for your pity in these pages. She explains what she's been through, her experiences, takes blame for what's hers to take and places blame on those that it be should placed on. If anything Roxane Gay is extremely self-critical, but she also demonstrates the characteristics of a sensitive, loving, intelligent mind, an admirable resilience, and wry sense of humor even when things seem bleak. We all hunger, we all strive to satisfy desires, we all adapt and develop defenses - this is so much of what it is to be human. This book is powerful and I am thankful for it.
Graphic: Rape, Body shaming, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Injury/Injury detail, and Sexual violence