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colinlievens's review against another edition
Graphic: Ableism, Death, Genocide, Mental illness, Misogyny, Sexism, and Mass/school shootings
Minor: Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Hate crime, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Torture, Violence, Murder, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
itszosia's review against another edition
3.25
Graphic: Transphobia
Moderate: Genocide, Misogyny, Sexual content, Violence, and Murder
Minor: Suicide
miss_hva's review against another edition
2.5
Graphic: Bullying, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Sexism, Sexual violence, Violence, and Murder
Moderate: Homophobia and Transphobia
gagne's review against another edition
Graphic: Genocide, Violence, and War
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Misogyny, and Murder
Minor: Ableism and Transphobia
suggestion of elimination of males (likely male sex), call to violence and murderemmariana97's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Cursing, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Sexism, Violence, Murder, Gaslighting, Dysphoria, and Classism
astridrv's review against another edition
I laughed almost every page - because it was irreverent, it spared no punches, because it is not allowed to say things like that or to laugh at sentences like hers. And that alone felt like a catalyst. It made me a bit emotional about how easy it is to find this book now (internet!) and how underground it must have been at the time.
This is not a nuanced and thoughtful critique of a misogynistic world. It is carefully constructed, in its own way, and I resent anyone seeing it as a delirious rant by a traumatized woman. Yes she was traumatized, and yes she is not polite - does that mean her voice and her tone have no value?
It's definitely not a book for everyone, but if it's for you, you'll know by page 1. (CW on murder, ableism and eugenics. Although I know plenty of trans women loved this book, it can be very triggering, including for transmasc people) I wanted to add some quotes here, but I highlighted almost all of the book. Lemme try nonetheless, to give you an idea of the tone of the book:
"In actual fact, the female function is to relate, groove, love and be herself, irreplaceable by anyone else; the male function is to produce sperm. We now have sperm banks."
"Although the male, being ashamed of what he is and almost of everything he does, insists on privacy and secrecy in all aspects of his life, he has no real regard for privacy. Being empty, not being a complete, separate being, having no self to groove on and needing to be constantly in female company, he sees nothing at all wrong in intruding himself on any woman's thoughts, even a total stranger's, anywhere at any time, but rather feels indignant and insulted when put down for doing so, as well as confused - he can't, for the life of him, understand why anyone would prefer so much as one minute of solitude to the company of any creep around. Wanting to become a woman, he strives to be constantly around females, which is the closest he can get to becoming one, so he created a 'society' based upon the family - a male-female couple and their kids (the excuse for the family's existence), who live virtually on top of one another, unscrupulously violating the female's rights, privacy and sanity."
"The male's inability to relate to anybody or anything makes his life pointless and meaningless (the ultimate male insight is that life is absurd), so he invented philosophy and religion. Being empty, he looks outward, not only for guidance and control, but for salvation and for the meaning of life. Happiness being for him impossible on this earth, he invented Heaven. (...) Most men, utterly cowardly, project their inherent weaknesses onto women, label them female weaknesses and believe themselves to have female strengths; most philosophers, not quite so cowardly, face the fact that male lacks exist in men, but still can't face the fact that they exist in men only. So they label the male condition the Human Condition, posit their nothingness problem, which horrifies them, as a philosophical dilemma, thereby giving stature to their animalism, grandiloquently label their nothingness their "Identity Problem" and proceed to prattle on pompously about the "Crisis of the Individual", the "Essence of Being" etc. A woman not only takes her identity and individuality for granted, but knows instinctively that the only wrong is to hurt others, and that the meaning of life is love."
Moderate: Ableism, Transphobia, Violence, and Murder