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Friends and Dark Shapes, by Kavita Bedford

lauren_may_reads's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.75

fonkun's review against another edition

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4.0

“But lately I have been wondering about the constant demand for stories, for complex lives to be packaged into neatly crafted and comprehensible narratives, ideally with a triumphant overcoming. Everything—advertisements, corporate biographies, mission statements, juice boxes—is personal narrative now, but flattened, far removed from the reality of living in the face of loss. And I wonder if there is a place in our world for the delicate, the quiet, the contradictory, the messy part of being.”

Through stream of consciousness writing, FRIENDS & DARK SHAPES captures a year in the life of the unnamed narrator who is in the midst of forming her adult identity. Expect vignettes of a period of uncertainty and instability, a period where everything is up in the air.

The book begins with the unnamed narrator moving into a share house with three other people (two friends, one friend of a friend) following her father's death. Since the book is less concerned with romantic relationships, leaving room for other issues to be explored, it's my favorite millennial novel of the year.

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jerrylwei's review against another edition

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2.0

A pastiche of all the major millennial novel subjects. Overly-sentimental and scattered.

ella_gray's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful sad

4.25

jaimetiavale's review against another edition

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funny hopeful informative reflective tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.5

boundtwobooks's review against another edition

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5.0

Find my blog here: https://bound2books.co/2021/07/05/a-review-of-kavita-bedfords-friends-and-dark-shapes-sharehouses-the-gig-economy-and-millennial-living/

This is one of those times where I bought the book because the cover was just too beautiful. Despite the old saying about judging books, sometimes a good cover can work wonders on our buying habits – I am definitely not immune. The premise of the book – sharehouse living, figuring out adult life in the gig economy and casualisation and living in a big city, in this case, Sydney.

I find it comforting to see more and more books reflect what it is like to grow up in Australia in the 90s and 00s. In particular, the phenomenon of share houses alone offers a unique (shall we say) experience to everyone who has ever tried it or is still doing it. I thankfully only really did it while I lived abroad in Austria, but that was already enough. And why are people living in shared living environments? I don’t think it is because they love it, I think it comes out of necessity – people can rarely afford a place just for themselves. On top of that, the gig economy and casualisation of the workforce means that I know more people who are in their late 20s and 30s working casual, read no proper sick leave, holiday pay, benefits, than I know people who have a salaried income. For a long time, these kinds of experiences seemed to be happening to everyone all over Australia, and yet the literary world wasn’t really reflecting those experiences. Until now.

Kavita Bedford is a Sydney-based author which gives her a particular advantage when talking about the city. Each city has its own personality and Bedford captures Sydney, and Redfern well. The narrator of the novel is Indian-Anglo Australian and works as a journalist. The instability of income, rent, relationships, and the future, in general, are all central themes to the novel. But this is also a novel about grief. The protagonist’s father passes away and the gravity of that grief coupled with the general angst of a whole generation is captivated in the narrator’s prose. When my father died in my mid-20s, I felt very alone in my grief. All of my friends had stable families and lives in ways I had never known. To see some of my own grief from that time reflected back at me in Bedford’s writing was bittersweet.

None of the characters in the novel really have proper names, they are often just given nicknames that reflect their occupation or a hobby. This speaks to the kind of transient nature of sharehouse living and also the desire to keep a distance from the people around you. You don’t want to get too close. People come and go and keeping tabs is exhausting and painful when things don’t work out. This insecurity is just as much for intimate relationships as it is for friendships in these environments. Everyone is on the move, but not really sure where they are going.

Bedford reminds me of an Australian Sally Rooney, where she is just able to capture the worries and hopes of a generation in her writing. The novel was published in March 2021 so is fairly new, but I am excited to see what Bedford has up her sleeve for her next novel.

taurusgf's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes

3.0

carlytenille's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

sarziebear's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No

2.5

Boring

parisakamali's review against another edition

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4.0

i didn't know how sensitive of a person i was until i read this. it was so tender and delicate that it made me feel so fucking devastated. i swear something shifted in me when i read the last words of the book. i felt this too deeply that i legitimately sensed the change in my brain chemistry.

i try not to compare books to each other but this felt like Jhumpa Lahiri's Whereabouts, Sarah Jackson's A Bit Much, and Jackie Polzin's Brood — all of which i really liked.