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I don’t particularly like this book but at the same time, I think it is well written and beautiful at times. I don’t usually give .5 in my reviews - 3 for books I don’t like and 4 for books I do. This one gets a 3.5.

This novel just isn’t for me. I’m not a mother and will never be in this lifetime. The story, at its core, is about motherhood. I understand the many themes of motherhood in the book and can sympathize with Grace. However, I can’t relate to her or empathize with her pain.

This novel is dark. Grace is in a lot of pain for most of the novel. I feel like I was baited and then switched. This is not a funny, light-hearted read like it is advertised to be. The story deals with some very heavy and serious topics. I didn’t laugh reading this book, I cried. It was heart-wrenching and I found it to be very depressing.

That being said, the novel is very well written. The plot device of flipping back and forth from the past and present worked really well. It felt like a mystery for 75% of the story. It was fun, I tried to figure out why people acted in certain ways and did certain things. The descriptive language throughout the book was beautiful at times and always made me feel like I was right there with Grace the entire time. It was like watching a movie.

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bootrat's review against another edition

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emotional reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

I enjoyed some parts of this book, but there were lots of aspects I didn't like. Firstly that it was far too slow, and poorly paced. We don't find out one of the major plot points about Grace's life until over 250 pages in, and it just seemed to come out of nowhere. The fact that the book jumped between three timelines just made me impatient to find out what the hell was going on (mainly with Lotte), so even as I was enjoying reading the other timelines I was wanting to skip them to get to Lotte.

Lotte's plotline was unfortunately very recognisable to me (and I predicted what was coming), which made it quite hard to read. I also detested the way it was handled by every adult in the book. As somebody who works with kids and in safeguarding I was screaming.

I think my biggest gripe with this book though is that from the blurb and the start of the book it seems fairly lighthearted, just a book struggling with getting older and with her relationship with her daughter, but then as a reader you're suddenly thrown into these quite dark situations without expecting it. It didn't fit the vibe.

I also hate that all of Graces problems are just blamed on ~hormones, when actually she's inches away from a mental breakdown (which imo is what the "current day" timeline documents). It felt quite misogynistic, even though it was written by a woman and presumably based somewhat on her own experience of peri-menopause. Grace really needs to see a therapist, instead of blaming all her actions and thoughts on the hormonal changes in her body.

If you want to read this book, absolutely check the trigger warnings first.

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prairieraven's review

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dark emotional funny sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

Wish this book came with reader warnings for trauma responses (which start to happen part way through the book) starts out a bit fun, but as time goes on the story becomes wildly unhinged, and switches from amusing to beyond heartbreaking.

Not sure of this story affected me more because I'm a parent of children/some now adults, or because I have my own traumas and mental health issues. The main characters are all flawed like real people and make the best and worst decisions like we all do.

I read this all in one sitting, started at 11pm and finished at 2 am. The storyline hooks start early with this one and pull all the way through. Heartbreaking all the way through to the end.

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franklola's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

You will cry and cry and cry and cry.

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lindsaylhunter's review against another edition

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emotional funny sad fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

The last hundred pages of this book really sealed the deal for me that this is a lovely, emotionally-charged novel. Some of the dialogue does not read well and you can absolutely tell that the teenage dialogue has been written by someone approaching middle age, but still a nice book!

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