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Green Dot by Madeleine Gray

16 reviews

helixhedera's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Green Dot does an excellent job at portraying what it's like to lose yourself in an unhealthy and imbalanced relationship that never should have happened. In the beginning of the book, Hera's life feels like simply going through the motions of each day, waiting for something worth mentioning to happen – up until she meets Arthur. From there, it's an up-and-down rollercoaster of a secret affair, and we follow as Hera slowly loses herself in the process.

You may find yourself relating to Hera if you've ever been in a similar relationship – one in which you are going all in, and your partner is suppressing you, whether on purpose or not. The type of relationship where you find yourself unhealthily attached, even addicted to the person you're with, while to them, you are a second thought. The problem becomes greater when you believe that you are not, in fact, a second thought, but a priority. This is what happened to our main character.

We are also shown, in a beautifully tragic way, how this sort of relationship can consume you and take your life away from you. To me, the most heartbreaking scenes were the ones in which Hera neglected everything she'd ever known – her lonely dad, her dog, her friends – just for a chance to meet with Arthur, only to be discarded shortly afterward yet again; and it was even more heartbreaking that she was aware of how horrible it was getting and that she was delusional, yet she could not stop. The part that broke me the most was when Jude died, and instead of mourning with her dad, Hera chose to wait for Arthur yet again. It felt like she simply did not have a semblance of a real life anymore.

I'd also like to comment on this: the author showed the power imbalance between Hera and Arthur well, in my opinion. I particularly liked a line near the end of the book, during the New Years' scene, in which Arthur was sat on the couch, and Hera on the floor in front of him. After everything that had happened in the story thus far, this detail showed subtly, yet also quite obviously, the power that Arthur held over Hera throughout the story.

Even though Hera was hurting, I adored the ending of this book. I think it would've been entirely distasteful if they had ended up together, after everything; or if Hera had taken him back at the beach. I loved the symbolism of the ending scene, as Arthur slowly shrunk away, Hera finally letting go of the person who'd been destroying her personhood and mental wellbeing for so long, even if she still loved him. I was happy that she moved back in with her dad, too.

I also loved the fact that Hera was undebatably flawed, and she was aware of this. Not once did I get the impression that she was oblivious to how harmful their actions were. She was aware of her own role in all this and didn't downplay it, even expressing pain for Kate at times. Hera felt incredibly human throughout the story, with ups, downs and rock bottoms, just like everybody else.

As an ending note, I am so in love with the writing style of the author. I've highlighted so many quotes and paragraphs; Madeleine Gray has an artistic way with words. The pacing felt just right and Gray hit all the right beats in the story. I enjoyed the humour as well and the occasional fourth-wall-breaking. 

All in all, Green Dot is an all too familiar story well told.

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withlivjones's review against another edition

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emotional lighthearted reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

This book has a very slow start, but I’m very glad I stuck with it. I love the dry, casual narration style, there’s something very Fleabag-esque about it. All the characters are very well-written, particularly Hera, who is a very fun protagonist to read about, and Hera’s dad, who is trying his best and is just so precious. The ending is absolutely fantastic. 

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lmarck's review against another edition

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emotional funny fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This book gives “fuck around and find out” energy and if you are into hearing the gossip from your messy questionable friends lives then you will love this. I have never related so much to a writing style and the vibe of the book and 50% of a characters character traits while the other half has felt entirely foreign and unrelated. Overall though seriously enjoyed this book. 

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nicolaparty's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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nialiversuch's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0


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baielleebooks's review against another edition

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  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? N/A
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Hera as the central character dazzles with hilarity, tenderness and goes above and beyond in delivering an exploration into the human heart when it is locked in embattlement between its deepest desires and embodied circumstances.

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bellsdixon's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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kirstym25's review against another edition

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emotional funny medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75


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annaavian's review against another edition

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sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

A predictable affair with a predictable ending.
I don't have a problem with morally grey or flat out unlikable characters and their shitty behaviors as long as there is at least  some meaningful point at the end. I failed to find one here. 

What sounded like an intriguing narrative quickly revealed itself to be quite frustrating, centered around an unlikable protagonist whose actions lack purpose and depth. The novel begins with promising prose, infused with snarky slang and hot-headed attitude. However, this charm wears thin as the narrative progresses, becoming tiresome rather than engaging. Time passes ambiguously, emotions develop without explanation or depth, and the plot just stumbles along without clear direction.

What starts as a potentially compelling exploration of complex relationships descends into a hollow depiction of selfishness and indifference. The absence of any interior life or introspection from the protagonist results in a sense of detachment and I was soon questioning the purpose of the story as a whole. In the end "Green Dot" failed to deliver a meaningful point behind its characters' actions for me, leaving a sense of unfulfilled potential.

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bookishnanna's review against another edition

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  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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