Reviews tagging 'Grief'

Finding Junie Kim by Ellen Oh

9 reviews

fkshg8465's review against another edition

emotional inspiring sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This was an easy read but hard to read. I needed to take my time with it because it was so emotional for me. The era Junie’s grandparents talk about, the Korean War right after the Japanese occupation, that’s when my parents were young as well. I used to beg my parents to tell me their stories so that I could pass them onto my niece and nephews. Thought it would be important for them to know their history. But my parents never wanted to talk about it other than to say hurt things about their oppressors and imperialists. This book gave me a peek into maybe why.

I’m still searching for a book to share with my niece. This could be it, but I fear racism might be too big a topic to tackle at a very innocent age nine. Then again, upon reflecting on my life, I can now recognize the racism my family faced at that age, even if I didn’t have the vocabulary for it then. Maybe it’s better that she’s equipped with it after all.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying, Death, Emotional abuse, Racism, Terminal illness, Torture, Xenophobia, Blood, Police brutality, Grief, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Colonisation, War, and Injury/Injury detail

rkstumblingbear's review

challenging emotional hopeful sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying, Death, Hate crime, Mental illness, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Police brutality, Grief, Murder, and War

caroreads22's review

challenging dark emotional informative inspiring sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

A painful but beautiful story. Oh does a great job of portraying complex histories and modern issues in an accessibly way for YA readers. I especially appreciated the family relationships, which showed a dynamic I don't often see in YA lit. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Blood, and Grief

Moderate: Violence, Xenophobia, and Abandonment

Minor: Hate crime, Mental illness, and Panic attacks/disorders

pika_chuu's review

emotional informative sad tense medium-paced

• Strong character development? Yes

5.0

Cried so much while reading. My heart really ached reading this. A must read.  Hits a lot of heavy topics in a great way <3 Such a great middle grade book.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, and War

Moderate: Death and Physical abuse

Minor: Hate crime and Torture

library_kb's review

challenging emotional informative sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

There is a lot going on in this story--a current day story dealing with racist incidents at a middle school and bullying, two different experiences of the Korean War, loss of a family member, grief, and depression--but each aspect is carefully and considerately done. I liked the framework of the family history project to tie the threads together. The one thing I wish had happened was that the grandparents' stories were told in first person rather than in third. However, this is minor in comparison with all of the important things this book portrays. I have not read many books which portray middle schoolers dealing with depression, even though there are many who do share that experience and need to see themselves on the page. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, Grief, and War

greenlivingaudioworm's review against another edition

adventurous challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Death, Hate crime, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, Xenophobia, Grief, Murder, Abandonment, Colonisation, and War

bronsonmh's review against another edition

challenging emotional hopeful informative sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I thought this was a very powerful middle grade novel. Junie is such a great main character. She is a young girl who loves her family, but also suffers from anxiety and depression privately for awhile until she gets help. It is all because of the bullying and racism she faces at school. When she gets an assignment for school to do an oral history project she decides to make a video interview with her grandparents who were both children in the Korean War and how each of them experienced something similar and something different. During this time she helps her friends put something together to teach their fellow students about racism and how it is bad. I like how the author intertwined Junie's story and her grandparents. I think this book is something both middle graders, young adults, and adults should read. If middle schoolers read this I think they should read it with their parents so that there can be an open discussion about everything that happens in the book. From racism,  mental health, to the Korean War. I listened this via audiobook and thought it was great. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Bullying

Moderate: Death, Hate crime, Mental illness, Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Grief, Suicide attempt, and War

sgt_ducky91's review

challenging emotional hopeful medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Mental illness, Racial slurs, Racism, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, and Grief

mezzarella's review

challenging emotional hopeful informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Many Americans are not taught about the Korean War and Korean-focused discrimination in our present or history. Finding Junie Kim by Ellen Oh is at its heart, a story of 12 year old Junie learning how to find her voice in a world that does not want her to speak. Within its pages, we also hear the harrowing stories of Junie's grandparents who survived the Korean War as children. As Junie Kim learns more about her family's past, she learns valuable lessons about herself and the importance of fighting for what's right.

This story is deeply woven with the importance of intersectionality, but never feels forced or preachy to the reader. In the present, Junie must deal with frequent bullying from white classmates amidst a school-wide investigation to find someone committing hate crimes on school grounds. The hate crime targets Junie and the rest of her friend group, which includes a Black and Jewish student. With the help of her grandfather's stories, Junie is able to figure out a way she can make a difference in a way she feels comfortable with. The book also discusses about mental illness, interracial discrimination, and how American racism looks different depending on what race you are. There is also a small blurb about LGBT acceptance (although no one is explicitly LGBT in the novel). I was deeply impressed by the amount of nuance packed in this story, and it's great to see books like this in a middle-grade fiction aisle.

Finding Junie Kim reminds me of other inter-generational stories such as Min Jin Lee's Pachinko and Amy Tan's The Joy Luck Club. There are heavy descriptions of trauma and wartime sacrifices made in order to keep family together. When reading this book, know that the grandparents' stories covers extreme violence, political unrest, and character deaths (some of whom are children). In Junie's story, racism, hate crimes, slurs, and mental illness are center stage. Despite all the hardships both Junie and her grandparents endure, it is their love for each other that keeps the family woven together. There is a part of the novel where the grandfather expresses how Koreans were able to endure hardship through their sense of community and resilience, which I would consider central themes to the overall novel. Junie thrives only after seeing the professional help she needs for her mental illness (major depressive disorder with suicidal idealization) and has the patient support of her family and friends.

Thank you NetGalley and HarperCollins for giving me an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review. My thoughts are my own. I would highly recommend any reader interested in this book to preorder Finding Junie Kim or pick it up at a local bookstore on May 4, 2021. Due to the severity of some of the content in this book, I would highly recommend reviewing the content warnings before reading the book. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Mental illness, Racism, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Violence, and Grief

Moderate: Child abuse, Child death, Police brutality, Antisemitism, and Medical content

Minor: Racial slurs, Torture, and Xenophobia

Suicidal thoughts, self harm, mental illness:

Junie attempts to swallow a bunch of pills after feeling isolated from her friendships. She does not swallow any pills, but drops them on the floor and goes to bed right afterwards. Her parents see the scene and think she has committed suicide. She seeks help from professionals, who diagnose her with depression, give her the medication she needs, and set her up with counseling.

. Racial slurs, Hate crime, Racism, Antisemitism:

At Junie Kim's school, a student and potentially another person outside of school grounds use graffiti to repeatedly threaten and show hate for Jewish, Black, and Asian students. Some slurs referring to Asians are stated directly in the book.

Racism, Death, Gun violence, Violence, Gore, Police brutality, Torture, Child death, Child abuse:

In the grandparents' stories, the war between the citizens of Korea and USSR/USA involvement lead to a civil war which indiscriminately killed people of all ages simply due to whether or not someone sided with the North or the South. Children are killed and questioned by policeman along with adults. In some cases, this lead to child abandonment and abuse. There are descriptions of murdered bodies on the ground and of people being buried alive.

. Medical content, death, grief:

The grandfather suffers two strokes, the second of which kills him while in the hospital. Junie and her family grieve the loss together.

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