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Een klein leven by Hanya Yanagihara

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emilyg433's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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ojmoores's review against another edition

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The story seemed to really harp on Jude’s pain. It got to a point where so many horrible awful things were happening to him, and I just didn’t want to read about it anymore. I actually got kind of mad at the author for making me read such horrific things.

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miasativa13's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

I enjoyed the experience of reading this book because of the expressiveness, eloquence, and insightfulness of the prose. The writing was truly engaging and was pleasurable to read. The author also did a great job of fleshing out the characters, painting them vividly for the reader so that, despite how many there are, it’s easy to imagine each one distinct from the other. 

The novel steps into “trauma porn” territory, however, somewhere just past the middle of the book; this is also the point where passages about the protagonist’s misery and self-hatred become rather repetitive. It is still a rather beautifully written book, but the plot points are what begin to ruin it gradually so that a 5-star book is steadily whittled down to 3.75 (at least, in my opinion).

I myself did not cry reading this book, but I know dozens of others have—and I believe it’s a sign of a skilled writer that they have been able to weave something so emotionally provocative. I disagree with others who say that this book should not have been written at all because its main purpose is to “manipulate” its readers—I believe the author’s intention to emotionally “destroy” readers from the get-go is a legitimate artistic experiment that explores the ways words and stories can be formed to resonate strongly with their audience. If you are someone who appreciates the skill and technique involved in writing literary fiction, then you could find this an interesting, enjoyable book to read. 

Reading this book personally reminded me of my experience reading Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides and The World According to Garp by John Irving. If you enjoyed these 2 books, you may just enjoy A Little Life.

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ammonsmp's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

NOT for the faint of heart, but powerful and beautifully written. This shit is so tough and real, like life is. 

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esme1903's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional inspiring sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I would die to read this book for the first time again 

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mercimarci's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

 Overview 📚

While this is not a book you pick up entirely willingly; it is one you read and becomes a part of you—literally it’s been months and my heart still hurts for Jude. I mainly picked up Hanya Yanagihara’s “A Little Life” simply for the controversy that took place some years ago when it started gaining popularity on TikTok. Honestly, I had no idea what to expect except that many considered it nothing but senseless “trauma-porn,” but that isn’t really the case at all. A Little Life follows the lives of four college friends Willem, JB, Malcolm, and with a primary focus on Jude St. Francis, an attorney with a tragic past, with a narrative that delves into the significance of friendships, the effects of trauma, and the search for identity and purpose in the face of immense suffering. This book set out what was promised. It was intense, unvarnished, horrifying, and devastating in the best possible ways. It took me a while to finish this book because of the triggering content, but I still really enjoyed it. I did not anticipate experiencing this much agony or ugly sobbing. Even the characters I detested, I adored for how ravishingly raw they were portrayed.


Plot 🎬

The plot, I wouldn’t say was anything unique. It’s about college friends trying to make it in the big city with an insane amount of trauma, but Yanagihara’s writing, her way of describing the utter pain of these characters, has a gorgeous charm to it. For the most part, being human, we have an innate morbid curiosity seeking out the broken, the deepest darkest evils this world could conjure. No matter how difficult it was for me to read through all of that or how harsh the narrative got, I was drawn in and didn’t want to stop until I was one with the words. It is in itself another experience to live through, that one cannot simply back away.


Dialogue, Pacing, and Structure 💬

Overall, I had no issue with the pacing, dialogue, or structure from a technical point of view. The dialogue was nothing particularly grand but I partially read this through an audio book and the narrator had done such a wonderful job and portrayed Jude so delicately. I loved it. If anyone is interested here is the link to her channel; http://www.youtube.com/@celinabastida.... I know some people criticize this book for its extremely long paragraphs but I believe that is the point to draw out these events and it doesn’t necessarily have to break off to be able to show the present and the past. It is a sheer reflection of personhood where time doesn’t pause; everything can and may occur all at once, calamitous or harmless. There are no page breaks in life, and sometimes it takes an effort to hit head-on and hold up.


Personal Impact & Final thoughts… 🤔💭💀

I really have connected with these characters, particularly Jude and his story. It is such a tragedy. And even though this is a work of fiction, the ideas are not. This is a reality for many and no matter how scary, utterly appalling, and painful, stories like this, fiction or not, should be told.
This is not a read just for anyone though, it is a lot of heavy themes and topics regarding around the trauma of child abuse, sexual abuse/assault, self harm and much much more that are written in great detail. So please, if you find topics sensitive I wouldn’t really recommend this book. But if you believe you are strong enough I would really recommend checking this out. It is beautifully crafted and will stay with you whether you want it to or not. 

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lois_w's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book turned me into an emotional wreck.
Yanagihara's writing means the reader grows with the characters and the tragic past of Jude provokes very high emotions.
I felt myself morally conflicted over Jude's decisions and choices. The darkness of the book reflects the huge struggles within Jude.
There is really no criticism I can give this book the present glances combined with the flashbacks truly made the reader FEEL.

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aoibheann_2003's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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team_worm's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
I was warned. Beautifully written, couldn’t put it down. I don’t regret reading it per se but I will not be recommending it to anyone. I found the characters intensely real, however I feel the author breaks the covenant between reader and writer.

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elys_exe's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A beautiful, tragic and haunting story that stays with you long after you’ve finished the last page and closed it’s covers for good.

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