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Een klein leven by Hanya Yanagihara

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rachel_emily22's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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cturn's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Characters - 9
Atmosphere - 6
Writing - 9
Plot - 9
Intrigue - 7
Logic - 8
Enjoyment - 7
CAWPILE score - 7.9

Sad is an understatement for this book. Its hard to rate such a sad book for enjoyment lol. I see what people mean when they call it trauma porn but I don't see it as quite that. However I found that as a reader, the effect of each revelation of Jude's past was less and less each reveal, as if I was desensitised to it as more was revealed. I particularly enjoyed when characters were introspective and reflecting on their actions and both positives and negatives of their own personality, when they knew they were being irrational, etc - I think those were my favourite parts to read about. I didn't sob over this book like you see a lot of people on tiktok doing, but I did cry at the end and I will think about this story, these characters that we got to know so well, for a long time. 

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emilyg433's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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ojmoores's review against another edition

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The story seemed to really harp on Jude’s pain. It got to a point where so many horrible awful things were happening to him, and I just didn’t want to read about it anymore. I actually got kind of mad at the author for making me read such horrific things.

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miasativa13's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

I enjoyed the experience of reading this book because of the expressiveness, eloquence, and insightfulness of the prose. The writing was truly engaging and was pleasurable to read. The author also did a great job of fleshing out the characters, painting them vividly for the reader so that, despite how many there are, it’s easy to imagine each one distinct from the other. 

The novel steps into “trauma porn” territory, however, somewhere just past the middle of the book; this is also the point where passages about the protagonist’s misery and self-hatred become rather repetitive. It is still a rather beautifully written book, but the plot points are what begin to ruin it gradually so that a 5-star book is steadily whittled down to 3.75 (at least, in my opinion).

I myself did not cry reading this book, but I know dozens of others have—and I believe it’s a sign of a skilled writer that they have been able to weave something so emotionally provocative. I disagree with others who say that this book should not have been written at all because its main purpose is to “manipulate” its readers—I believe the author’s intention to emotionally “destroy” readers from the get-go is a legitimate artistic experiment that explores the ways words and stories can be formed to resonate strongly with their audience. If you are someone who appreciates the skill and technique involved in writing literary fiction, then you could find this an interesting, enjoyable book to read. 

Reading this book personally reminded me of my experience reading Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides and The World According to Garp by John Irving. If you enjoyed these 2 books, you may just enjoy A Little Life.

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ammonsmp's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

NOT for the faint of heart, but powerful and beautifully written. This shit is so tough and real, like life is. 

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mercimarci's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

 Overview 📚

While this is not a book you pick up entirely willingly; it is one you read and becomes a part of you—literally it’s been months and my heart still hurts for Jude. I mainly picked up Hanya Yanagihara’s “A Little Life” simply for the controversy that took place some years ago when it started gaining popularity on TikTok. Honestly, I had no idea what to expect except that many considered it nothing but senseless “trauma-porn,” but that isn’t really the case at all. A Little Life follows the lives of four college friends Willem, JB, Malcolm, and with a primary focus on Jude St. Francis, an attorney with a tragic past, with a narrative that delves into the significance of friendships, the effects of trauma, and the search for identity and purpose in the face of immense suffering. This book set out what was promised. It was intense, unvarnished, horrifying, and devastating in the best possible ways. It took me a while to finish this book because of the triggering content, but I still really enjoyed it. I did not anticipate experiencing this much agony or ugly sobbing. Even the characters I detested, I adored for how ravishingly raw they were portrayed.


Plot 🎬

The plot, I wouldn’t say was anything unique. It’s about college friends trying to make it in the big city with an insane amount of trauma, but Yanagihara’s writing, her way of describing the utter pain of these characters, has a gorgeous charm to it. For the most part, being human, we have an innate morbid curiosity seeking out the broken, the deepest darkest evils this world could conjure. No matter how difficult it was for me to read through all of that or how harsh the narrative got, I was drawn in and didn’t want to stop until I was one with the words. It is in itself another experience to live through, that one cannot simply back away.


Dialogue, Pacing, and Structure 💬

Overall, I had no issue with the pacing, dialogue, or structure from a technical point of view. The dialogue was nothing particularly grand but I partially read this through an audio book and the narrator had done such a wonderful job and portrayed Jude so delicately. I loved it. If anyone is interested here is the link to her channel; http://www.youtube.com/@celinabastida.... I know some people criticize this book for its extremely long paragraphs but I believe that is the point to draw out these events and it doesn’t necessarily have to break off to be able to show the present and the past. It is a sheer reflection of personhood where time doesn’t pause; everything can and may occur all at once, calamitous or harmless. There are no page breaks in life, and sometimes it takes an effort to hit head-on and hold up.


Personal Impact & Final thoughts… 🤔💭💀

I really have connected with these characters, particularly Jude and his story. It is such a tragedy. And even though this is a work of fiction, the ideas are not. This is a reality for many and no matter how scary, utterly appalling, and painful, stories like this, fiction or not, should be told.
This is not a read just for anyone though, it is a lot of heavy themes and topics regarding around the trauma of child abuse, sexual abuse/assault, self harm and much much more that are written in great detail. So please, if you find topics sensitive I wouldn’t really recommend this book. But if you believe you are strong enough I would really recommend checking this out. It is beautifully crafted and will stay with you whether you want it to or not. 

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madaspleen's review against another edition

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emotional tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75

Traumatic and intense, beautifully written.


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elys_exe's review against another edition

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dark emotional sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A beautiful, tragic and haunting story that stays with you long after you’ve finished the last page and closed it’s covers for good.

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karkei's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Where does one start with this book? 

I can hardly conceive that life can be so harsh to one person. My heart goes out to Jude. He’s a character that you constantly want to protect. How privileged we are that most of us may never truly understand the full depths of what Jude has gone through. 

I will not pretend to be an angel though. There were many points that I got frustrated at Jude, like “Can’t you see how you are hurting the people you love? Can’t you see how much they are doing for you?” But then, I come back to myself and I feel guilty - I’m no better than JB, all self centered and discounting Jude in his entirety. Or maybe worse, because JB doesn’t actually know what happened to Jude and I do 🥲

I like to think that just with the people who love him though, loving someone is taking all of them. I love Jude and I care for him and hence, I wanted him to see himself as worthy and I wanted him to survive and be happy. 

What I originally thought was a story about Jude, however, ends up being a story about Willem. And where do I start with this? 

Willem, you are the most patient, kind, loving character.
I did not see that accident coming and I truly mourned for you.
You gave Jude so much love and were so understanding. Most people couldn’t have done what you did. 

To Harold and Andy, you also have a special place in my heart. 

A Little Life was a book I was scared to pick up because all I heard about it was that it was highly traumatic. While there was trauma, however, this book went way beyond that for me. It is a reminder of how unforgiving but beautiful life can be and how fortunate we should all be for our little lives ❤️ 

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