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bella613's review against another edition
3.0
I won't say I liked it, though.
The last third or so was the best out of the book- tbh I would have rated the first half 2 stars. This might be because the beginning events take place before she could possibly remember them.
I know it's a memoir, and it's her perspective on her own life, but something I can't quite put into words to felt off about it. It reads very casually, in parts that are clearly not lighthearted. Some people described it as straightforward writing style but it felt more detached to me. I obviously dont know the facts of her life but I felt the distinct impression of someone exaggerating, not necessarily to gain sympathy or praise, but more because they actually see themselves as the main character of the world. The whole family is clearly very intelligent (even though both parents are extremely closed minded, selfish, and arguably psychotic) and the kids took a lot of initiative despite never being taught or shown any responsibility.
I think the biggest thing that made it difficult for me to relate and/or take something from this book is that the people in it don't feel real. Walls describes everyone in her life as very clear good vs bad characters- there are the evil ones and the victims, and no in between. And despite this, she shows almost no resentment and describes no clear forgiveness. Everything that was done to the children is swept away and they sort of just act like nothing happened once they are on their own. There's no boundaries set but there's also no reconciliation.
I listened to the audiobook, which the author reads herself. I would have preferred a different reader but I would say I'm glad I listened rather than reading it in physical copy.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Medical trauma, Car accident, Fire/Fire injury, Gaslighting, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
nooweljayy's review against another edition
4.0
*my full review on Goodreads (copy and paste the link): https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5089850686
Moderate: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Sexual assault, and Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Gun violence, Grief, and Sexual harassment
crystalsparkles's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Racial slurs, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Bullying, Chronic illness, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Rape, Blood, Trafficking, and Gaslighting
Minor: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Bullying, Child death, Infidelity, Forced institutionalization, and Death of parent
lngoldstein's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Gun violence, Mental illness, Pedophilia, Sexual assault, and Gaslighting
cheerstochels's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, and Violence
Moderate: Bullying, Confinement, Pedophilia, Racism, Gaslighting, and Abandonment
Minor: Body shaming, Confinement, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Blood, Stalking, Death of parent, and Pregnancy
majestictrilobite's review against another edition
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Animal cruelty, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Infidelity, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, Sexual harassment, and Classism
ozymandias_5's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, and Classism
Minor: Child abuse, Death, Drug use, Gun violence, Hate crime, Racism, Sexism, Blood, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
noareads415's review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Addiction, Animal cruelty, Animal death, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Gun violence, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, and Violence
lri_reads's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
Moderate: Gun violence, Pedophilia, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual assault, Violence, and Injury/Injury detail
erica_reads_things's review against another edition
5.0
The parental subject matters of this memoir are unlike anything I have ever read. The only way I can possibly describe Rose Mary and Rex are a cross between granola hippies and conservative hillbillies. This book had my emotions constantly at war - one second this family would be resilient and heartfelt, the next selfish and damaging. What a true, raw look at the complexities of humans, love, family, and growth. I highly recommend listening to Jeannette read this book as well.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Alcohol
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Sexual assault, Violence, Medical content, Trafficking, Fire/Fire injury, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism
Minor: Animal death, Body shaming, Terminal illness, Religious bigotry, and Death of parent