merenr's review

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challenging dark emotional informative inspiring reflective slow-paced

4.75

 Took me a super long time to read because the content was challenging for me. Big trigger warnings for SH, s**cide, SA, racism/queerphobia/ableism and a bunch of other stuff. 

During my reading, I often felt like: FINALLY SOMEONE IS TALKING ABOUT THESE THINGS. So many painful things that I feel the community has not spoken up about. So many words unsaid that are fully realized in Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha’s words. Audiobook is highly recommended, read by the author. I can’t express enough how the author gave words to what I could never parse together coherently. 

Care Work made me realize so many of the questions I have are not answered by psychology and traditional mental health practices, but rather Disability Justice. Slowly, I’ve been coming to terms about my disabled identity too. Ahhhh so many thoughts. So much growth and development igniting in me. Uncomfortable too. 

If you’re in an alright headspace, give this book a try, and make sure you take care of yourself and give yourself lots of breaks if you’re sensitive to the material. 

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megbert581's review

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dark emotional funny hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

4.75

Such a good book that covers so many topics related to disability life, justice, intersectionality of queer and BIPOC experiences, boundaries, sustainability, grief, joy and more. 

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puttingwingsonwords's review

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hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

5.0


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abookwormspov's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective slow-paced

5.0

An absolutely stunning and incredibly informative collection of essays. 

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caprivoyant's review

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My heart! This book was so needed and so healing.

Personally, I especially appreciated the essay/chapter on ableism in the spiritual and energy-healing communities. It validated a lot about how I experienced that community and made me feel less alone or like less of a failure by not being able to change it.

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fruityfairy1312's review against another edition

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challenging hopeful inspiring tense

4.75


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crybabybea's review

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emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced

3.75

Opened my eyes to how I view myself and the people around me. Validated so many things for me.

Definitely made me realize how often disability gets overlooked in public spaces. 

Gave me hope that a care-centered community is possible.

Although a lot of the material talked about is sad (check TW), overall I felt the tone of the book was extremely hopeful, and I found the intimate look at care-centered communities beautiful and spiritual.

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kateellis00's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0


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teeclecticreads's review

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5.0

I feel like I was given a long, tight hug and told that things will be ok 🥹

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novella42's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring medium-paced

5.0

This book was too powerful for me to be able to give a coherent review right after finishing it. I will say that as a white disabled queer woman, I am immensely grateful to learn these stories, struggles, and wisdom from QTBIPOC disabled community leaders and visionaries. I think this is the most important book I have read in years.

The essay that made the biggest impact on me from this book is “Not Over It, Not Fixed, and Living a Life Worth Living: Towards an Anti-Ableist Vision of Survivorhood.” It gave me a glimpse of role models who were living and thriving beyond the basic cultural myth that we can be cured/fixed/reset to factory settings after trauma. Not an easy read, but so helpful. 

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