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The Unfortunate Side Effects of Heartbreak and Magic by Breanne Randall
7 reviews
simsplayer30's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Grief and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Cancer and Gaslighting
Minor: Pregnancy
wordwitching's review
While I'm relieved to see that many readers do, and I'm grateful to them for calling out the obvious and glaring misogyny, the reinforcement of traditional gender roles, the underhanded promoting of MLM essential oils, the disdain for witchcraft, the insensitive handling of serious and triggering subjects like SA, r@pe, m7rder, and suiçide, which are dropped into the plot like stink bombs only to be brushed off like they don't matter or worse: jokes.
It pains me, however, to see so many positive reviews for this book. I honestly do not understand how it became so popular or indeed how it was published in the first place.
The editing is non existent, the writing shows promise at times, but as with the subject matter, the author does not know when less is more. Instead she threw everything at it, like a cook using every single ingredient in their pantry to make a simple cake. Enough with the overcooked baking metaphors already!
The characters were either stereotypes, purely added to show diversity for diversity's sake, or shallow, childish and infuriating. I love an unlikable female character but Sadie behaves like a teenager. The author is constantly telling us how wonderful she is but everything she SHOWS about her contradicts it. She kidnaps the MMC's dog and it's played for laughs, she uses truth serums on unsuspecting victims and again, this is played off as if it's normal, acceptable behaviour. I have never wanted to shake a heroine more.
There's a completely unnecessary fake pregnancy plotline added just excuse the hero and to demonise another woman. And don't even get me started on everything else the male characters do and say. They are the WORST but everything they do is either excused by other characters or the plot. The internalised misogyny is very loud.
I gather from reading other reviews that
It feels like the author took a bunch of toxic positivity quotes and platitudes from social media influencer accounts and just strung them together like flimsy paper doily garlands in a Instagram reel. Pretty to look at but ultimately weightlessly fragile and tissue thin.
Hashtag "Witches Of Instagram"; Hashtag "Trad Wife"; Hashtag "So Blessed".
I'm sorry I cannot find anything positive to say about this book. The recipes might be good, but I cannot bring myself to try them.
I've included cultural appropriation in my content warnings because I truly believe this author is appropriating witchcraft due to her religious beliefs. It is a travesty for this book to be positively compared with Practical Magic.
And on that note, I'll leave this review with a final word from Aunt Jet Owens:
“And this is what comes from dabbling; I mean you can't practice witchcraft while you look down your nose at it.”
Moderate: Cancer, Death, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Rape, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Grief, Suicide attempt, Murder, Pregnancy, Cultural appropriation, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
fancyjess_party's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.5
Moderate: Ableism, Body shaming, Bullying, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Gore, Infidelity, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Sexual harassment
ehoustonmyatt's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.5
It’s sold as a “cozy” read that feels like Gilmore Girls meets Practical Magic but it didn’t deliver any of that.
Graphic: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Cancer, Chronic illness, Death, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, and Abandonment
Minor: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Drug abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Infertility, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Murder, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Abandonment, and Sexual harassment
Hey, no dogs or cats die so I guess that’s one win!littlelizzieborden's review against another edition
Moderate: Cancer, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Toxic relationship, Grief, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
Minor: Cursing, Sexual assault, and Suicide attempt
sarinaslibrary's review
- Plot- or character-driven? N/A
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.75
I really really wanted to enjoy this book, it's marketing on TikTok was crazy and I was super excited when I got approved to read a proof. Sadly it didn't hit right for me.
I didn't find myself liking any of the characters, the grandmother was a bit mean to me, the FMC was a bit of a pushover & people pleaser, also a bit dumb and annoying. The rest of the characters were also quite annoying as well, the only one I really liked was Seth, the FMC brother who went away and came back after a couple of years.
The FMC just didn't sit right for me, especially when she came to find that the dog she found and took in was her ex's and refused to give it back to him because at first she's petty, then she wanted a part of him with her when all the drama was going on. He kept asking for it back and she kept refusing, and as a dog owner myself it really made me angry.
Seth's story was just more interesting to me because there was a bit of mystery and he didn't want magic because it was hurting him and making him depressed, but in the end of the book the FMC gives up her magic so he can keep his - why not have Seth give up the magic he doesn't want to his sister that does want it?? Everytime he said he didn't want magic his family (even the FMC) just dismissed his feelings and saying that he can't run away from it. That's not a good message.
There's a strong message of family in this book that doesn't hit right, there's a line basically saying that family will hurt you but you have to forgive and love them in the end because that's what family is all about - I'm sorry but no. Families can hurt you and you have every right to cut them out and keep it that way, some things families do are unforgivable and it remains that way. It left a bad taste in my mouth for personal reasons and I almost gave up the book around this time, but I kept going.
The romance in this wasn't good either, FMC's ex comes back into the town (the one she refuses to give the dog back too), turns out he's engaged which he tried to tell her (which by the way comes not far from the end of the book) but she kept dismissing him, turns out the woman he's engaged to fakes her pregnancy - all of this was really unnecessary.
It wasn't a cosy witchy book at all, all the magic was food and drinks and it contained some triggers that I didn't expect. There's also a lot of cheesy paragraphs that didn't need to be there - oh and the grandmother forcing the FMC to attend church also didn't sit well with me.
Overall I was disappointed in this book, I really love cosy witchy books but this one just didn't hit the mark.
Graphic: Cancer and Death
Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, and Gaslighting
Minor: Murder
wornpagesandendlesscoffey's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Cancer, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
Moderate: Murder