erinoco's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Homophobia, Dysphoria, and Sexual assault
errinnnn's review against another edition
1.0
Non linear narrative that was executed so terribly that you never know where abouts in time you are with Page, WAYYYYY too much talk about poo, an unbearable amount of detail about all the sex he has had and, considering Elliot Page is an actor, awful narration. The whole audiobook was read in a flat, monotone voice that made it impossible for me to get invested in what he was saying since it just sounded like one long drone. It feels cruel to critique someone’s life story so strongly but this book was in desperate need of a great editor and I think would have benefitted from a much later release date to fine tune any and all issues within it.
Graphic: Hate crime, Sexual content, Stalking, Transphobia, Bullying, Sexual harassment, Eating disorder, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Emotional abuse, Dysphoria, and Sexual assault
_unknown_bibliomaniac_'s review against another edition
3.75
Graphic: Transphobia
espressoreads's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Transphobia
makamano's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Transphobia, Homophobia, Sexual assault, and Pedophilia
roctothorpe's review against another edition
3.0
The story is delivered in short essay vignettes, jumping back and forth from childhood to adulthood to adolescence. I didn't mind the non-linear style, though it was a bit confusing to follow the time jumps in audiobook format and the overall grouping of stories did not feel cohesive or intentional.
The writing has a very "on camera" feel, and reads in parts like a tell-all celebrity magazine. There are many stories of Elliot's past romantic relationships, but these were often reduced to recountings of the immediate events with little reflection on their long-term impacts on Elliot's life. I understand that there is a delicate line to walk in protecting the privacy of his partners, but these supporting characters in the narrative felt flatly rendered and I had a difficult time keeping them apart.
As a whole, Elliot's voice in this book feels deeply personal and yet weirdly removed. There is story after story of intense homophobia and sexual assault, each as graphic and unflinching as the last. With little added introspection, it felt like we were just rushing through all these traumatic events without taking the time to process or unpack anything.
The standout sections for me were the parts about Elliot's childhood and his relationship with his narcissistic father and abusive stepmother. It was gut-wrenching to read, and they had the self reflection and personal growth I wanted more of from the other chapters.
There are a lot of valuable stories within this memoir, but the actual execution left me feeling emotionally detached. I felt that the gravity of the topics discussed deserved tighter editing and more space for reflection. Despite the criticisms I have about the narrative choices, Elliot tells a compelling story about navigating queerness in the public eye. Though we have lived dramatically different lives, I still found parts of this memoir that resonated strongly with me. Worth the read, for sure, and I'm glad that Elliot could share his journey with us.
Graphic: Eating disorder, Transphobia, and Homophobia
Moderate: Sexual assault
eicart_reads's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Gaslighting, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Dysphoria, Eating disorder, Self harm, Misogyny, Sexism, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Injury/Injury detail, Panic attacks/disorders, and Transphobia
Minor: Excrement and Stalking
There are several descriptions of non-consensual sex where he felt unable to say no or felt like he had to/should go along with it.bucklace27's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Sexual content, and Transphobia
pearlisarobot's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Sexism, Self harm, Panic attacks/disorders, Homophobia, Hate crime, Abandonment, Bullying, Stalking, Sexual assault, Child abuse, Mental illness, Medical content, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic friendship, Adult/minor relationship, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Deadnaming, Sexual harassment, Sexual content, Pandemic/Epidemic, Misogyny, Emotional abuse, Eating disorder, Lesbophobia, Dysphoria, and Cursing
Moderate: Alcohol and Drug use
Minor: Pedophilia
lqne's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Transphobia, Toxic friendship, Bullying, Child abuse, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, and Stalking
Moderate: Hate crime, Homophobia, Alcohol, Eating disorder, Lesbophobia, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Self harm, and Body shaming
Minor: Deadnaming, Blood, and Adult/minor relationship