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thomasdj's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.75
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Murder, and War
Moderate: Death, Racism, and Mass/school shootings
Minor: Child death and Death of parent
daniela_is_reading's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
informative
sad
4.25
WARNING ⚠️- review comes with triggers.
SYNOPSIS and THOUGHTS:
I've read a number of war based novels over the years. Some, have been standouts and will stay with me forever. 'How we Disappeared' is one of these standouts. Jing-Jing Lee speaks of the abhorrent experience and treatment of women and children during the 3 year Japanese occupation of Singapore in WWII.
Children as young as 12 were taken from their families and forced to work in a military brothel. They called them, 'comfort women', but they were in fact sex slaves, living in poor conditions, underfed and often beaten and raped multiple times on a daily basis. Many never saw their families and friends again. They, just disappeared.
In this beautifully told but heart wrenching story we follow the life of Wang Di prior the Japanese occupation, during her 3 years at the military brothel and much later as an elderly women in search of her voice and peace after losing her beloved husband.
Also, fast forward to the year 2000, and we get to know, and love 12 year old Kevin. Kevin's frail grandmother, in her dying breath mumbles a confession to Kevin which sets a ball in motion. Kevin is determined to find answers. In doing so, it leads him straight to Wang Di, where many truths not spoken about for decades are revealed.
This is not a comfortable or light read, but I feel it's an important one. It took me a little longer to finish, as at times, I had to put it down and have a break. However, I have no regrets reading it.
Please note, prior picking this one up that it's heavy and can be triggering to some.
SYNOPSIS and THOUGHTS:
I've read a number of war based novels over the years. Some, have been standouts and will stay with me forever. 'How we Disappeared' is one of these standouts. Jing-Jing Lee speaks of the abhorrent experience and treatment of women and children during the 3 year Japanese occupation of Singapore in WWII.
Children as young as 12 were taken from their families and forced to work in a military brothel. They called them, 'comfort women', but they were in fact sex slaves, living in poor conditions, underfed and often beaten and raped multiple times on a daily basis. Many never saw their families and friends again. They, just disappeared.
In this beautifully told but heart wrenching story we follow the life of Wang Di prior the Japanese occupation, during her 3 years at the military brothel and much later as an elderly women in search of her voice and peace after losing her beloved husband.
Also, fast forward to the year 2000, and we get to know, and love 12 year old Kevin. Kevin's frail grandmother, in her dying breath mumbles a confession to Kevin which sets a ball in motion. Kevin is determined to find answers. In doing so, it leads him straight to Wang Di, where many truths not spoken about for decades are revealed.
This is not a comfortable or light read, but I feel it's an important one. It took me a little longer to finish, as at times, I had to put it down and have a break. However, I have no regrets reading it.
Please note, prior picking this one up that it's heavy and can be triggering to some.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse, Child death, Confinement, Death, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Slavery, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Murder, and War
heygerms's review against another edition
emotional
informative
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
5.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child abuse, Genocide, Hate crime, Mental illness, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Racial slurs, Racism, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, Trafficking, Grief, Abortion, and Murder