Reviews with content warning for Domestic abuse - The Push

I couldn’t put this book down. I can confirm, as a mother, that the author did not shy away from the nitty gritty of being a new parent. She was also able to express a mother’s love and obsession with her new baby and I think that’s part of why this was so gut-wrenching for me. I was able to relate to that close bond. This book had me feeling tense, frustrated, and sobbing. It really takes you for a ride. I also love her writing style. It’s as if the main character, Blythe, is speaking to her husband, Fox throughout. There are a couple other relevant story lines about the effects of generational trauma. I don’t want to give too much away but there are definitely some trigger warnings for this book that I wish I had been aware of including child abuse and death.

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kirstenw13's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional mysterious tense medium-paced

Loveable characters? No

I can’t give this stars yet because I’m still processing. This book was all of my fears regarding marriage and motherhood played out. It carved my heart out of my chest and hit it with an SUV. The book was cathartic as well, there was something comforting about reading the worst scenarios I can imagine. Anyway, I can’t say I liked it but The Push will stay with me for a long time and if that isn’t the mark of a good book I’m not sure what is.

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zarakoconnor's review against another edition

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dark emotional tense slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Plot
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? No
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Wow. This book is an amazing exploration of motherhood and generational trauma. This embodies everything I fear about parenting and pregnancy and failing your children, in a horrific thrilling package. Read this in a single sitting because I had to know what happened and struggle right beside the main character through her devastating life. Amazing.

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j_pink23's review

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dark emotional mysterious sad tense medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? No
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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frozenheartv's review against another edition

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adventurous dark emotional mysterious sad medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? A mix
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

4.5 stars
🌕🌕🌕🌕🌗

No one writes about motherhood and mother-daughter relationship like Ashley Audrain. It took me a while to gather up all of the details together with the ending of the book to really got what they author wanted to tell us. The book was phenomenon. My jaw dropped after I had realized the things, and I had chills down my spine.

To get started, I would say that this book is really "heavy"; not literally, of course, but psychologically heavy. It was not a literal thriller or suspense book either. However, it gripped me from start to end, made me wanted to listen for more. It was written in the first-person point-of-view to make us felt like we were in Blythe's mind. Because of this, I felt more connected to Blythe. I felt her pain, her insecurities, her unstable mind and so on. Throughout the book, the author carefully sprinkled hints here and there for us to really understood the ending. The twist was not hard to guess but it made everything clearer and started to link with each other.

The author succeeded in portraying how trauma can pass on throughout every generations and how hard for the younger generations try to get rid of the toxic cycle.

Not only that, the author also depicts carefully and smartly the gaslighting technique that Fox did to Blythe. Blythe was clearly a victim of manipulation, abuse, neglect, trauma, maybe even mental illness and so on. Maybe I have an unpopular opinion here; I think Blythe might have internalized misogyny for treating Violet worse than Sam from the start or she just suffered from postpartum depression. "The Push" for me can mean the push that Violet did to Sam or the pushes from the society, family or Fox did to Blythe.

Parenting is difficult but I can never imagined it can be this difficult, especially for the mother. In the end, should we love our children unconditionally? How can we deal with both toxic relationship with our partner and the complicated parenthood with our children? The author leaves us readers to find out the answer within ourselves.

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caoimhe_fleming's review against another edition

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dark emotional fast-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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me_rose's review against another edition

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dark emotional tense

4.0

Fuck me up.

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