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blackcatkai's review against another edition
5.0
a short memoir from Vivek Shraya about her growing up & into herself as a queer transwoman and all the internalized/societal issues shes faced involving men as well as women. she touches on tough topics but there's good things here, too. I love her writing and insights about gender itself as well as gender expression. I would definitely recommend this and will be reading more of her work in the future.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, and Sexism
Moderate: Homophobia, Racism, Sexism, Sexual content, Transphobia, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Ableism, Infidelity, Mental illness, and Suicidal thoughts
thepassivebookworm's review
5.0
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexism, and Sexual harassment
thewordsdevourer's review
4.0
the stacked reasons for the title, peppered throughout but esp in the opening pgs, are a reality slap and a harsh reminder; compounded by intersectional identities, the outlook seems ever bleak. i also very much relate to the author's view on love, self-love, and the body. im particularly impressed by her self-awareness on her own complicity thru both past and present actions as well, as it encourages us all to look back w/in ourselves and reflect on our own role, meaning there's at least a way forward.
Graphic: Transphobia
Moderate: Misogyny, Sexism, and Sexual harassment
Minor: Infidelity, Racism, and Suicidal thoughts
daphne_430's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Biphobia, Body shaming, Homophobia, Misogyny, and Transphobia
Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, and Sexism
Minor: Deadnaming and Racism
lovelynovellas's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Homophobia, Misogyny, Sexism, Sexual violence, Transphobia, Sexual harassment, and Dysphoria
solenodon's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Homophobia, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, Grief, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Mental illness, Racism, Sexual content, and Xenophobia
Minor: Hate crime, Infidelity, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Suicide
maudsmeets's review
4.5
Any ambiguity or nonconformity, especially in relation to gender, conjurers terror. This is precisely why men are afraid of me. Why women are afraid of me, too.
But your fear is not only hurting me, it's hurting you, limiting you from being everything you could be.
An informative, reflective and challenging read that combines autobiographical stories with gender theory seamlessly.
I would recommend this text to anyone. We can all learn from this and we should all learn from this, to be frank.
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Racism, Sexism, Transphobia, and Xenophobia
Moderate: Infidelity, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment
skudiklier's review
4.0
Graphic: Misogyny and Sexism
Moderate: Bullying, Infidelity, Racism, and Sexual assault
Minor: Suicidal thoughts
wenwanzhao's review
5.0
Moderate: Hate crime, Homophobia, Sexism, Sexual content, and Transphobia
words_and_coffee's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Homophobia, Misogyny, Sexism, and Transphobia
Moderate: Body shaming and Racism
Minor: Bullying