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theuncannydani's review against another edition
dark
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
Contains pedophilia, grooming, transphobia, homophobia and racism.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Toxic relationship, Rape, Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Homophobia, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Sexism, Alcohol, Child death, Death, Gaslighting, and Misogyny
Minor: Antisemitism and Addiction
kaadee's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
After reading other peoples reviews, I have come to a conclusion. I think itās important that this book was made because it gives a glimpse into the the thought process of the groomed. We as readers know that itās gross, uncomfortable and upsetting and while Elio also realizes this, his feelings are much different. Through Elioās thoughts, we are also being groomed by Oliver to care for their relationship (see other peoples reviews calling this an amazing love story) itās a good story, but not one about love. Itās about obsession, itās about craving an experience but ultimately itās about the power imbalances teenagers have with adults. How teenagers are easily taken advantage of and made to think they are in love. I honestly donāt think the writer wrote it to have this kind of meaning whatsoever which makes it worse for me. The deep dive into Elioās sexual thoughts was disturbing. I mean, I really didnāt need to know what a 17 year old was thinking while he was going at it into a peach. I think itās important to understand his thoughts but the amount of detail into the desires was gross. Also the writing style??? What pretentious person decided they would just add every word from the dictionary, put it into run on sentences, and then publish it? Some quotes were good but itās too much philosophy without actually making any sense. People who praise this book for the writing and the feeling that you get while reading are weird. Honestly, the writing just made me want to finish it 10x faster just so I could be done. I love the movie compared to this. Also the fetish for Jewish people, GROSS!!! The author isnāt even Jewish which I didnāt know while reading. I was weirded out but I just went along with it because maybe he was just being expressive of his faith/background BUT NO, he just fetishized Jewish people.Ā
Content Warnings
Graphic: Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Homophobia, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual assault, Stalking, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Antisemitism, Death, Death of parent, and Transphobia
gabrielleclarke05's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
reflective
relaxing
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.25
Wow.. this was gross in multiple parts.Ā Elio compared the peach to a SA victimš§ Iām glad the film cut out the problematic bits. This book just felt like the author writing down his weird fetishesĀ
The movie overall is better and this book just felt creepy and the author is a self proclaimed pedophile so take that as you will
The movie overall is better and this book just felt creepy and the author is a self proclaimed pedophile so take that as you will
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Stalking, Toxic relationship, Biphobia, Abandonment, Alcohol, Excrement, Gaslighting, Grief, Homophobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Sexual harassment, Sexism, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, Body shaming, and Sexual assault
riella_reads's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
relaxing
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.0
Ā I was bored honestly and super close to dnfing, but this was written beautifully so I'll give it that.Ā
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Emotional abuse, and Gaslighting
grayisasleep's review against another edition
emotional
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
4.25
i was around 14-15 when i first read this book and i wanted to reread it now, when iām 18 to see how my opinion has changed. i plan to do this again in my 20s. when i first read it i rated it a 5/5 easily. i thought it was the most beautiful, emotional, raw piece of writing on intimacy ever written. but i was 15.
looking back on this story now i have many mixed feelings. my love for this book was so strong that it has deepened how i feel about it now. i want to resent this bookā and i do, i just wish i did more. this is not a love story. it is a story of grooming, and it is difficult to see that because we are in elioās mind. i was so deeply infatuated with this book at 15,Ā and while rereading it i felt those feelings come back. the giddiness, the ābeautyā of this bookā of this ārelationship.ā reading this at 15 has my warped perception on it just as elioās perception of oliver was warped. i hope by my next reread in my 20s iām over it.Ā
iām not going to write a whole essay on this book because hundreds of people already have but thereās just so many problems with it. the author adds in incredibly gross scenes because he thinks he can just excuse it as ācomplete and total intimacy.ā like no dude itās just straight up gross.
the writing is what really saved this for me the second time around though. it really is the most beautifully written book iāve read in my life (thus far that is.) i need so many quotes from this book engraved into me.
but yeah, in conclusion; pretty writing but oliver is a disgusting, manipulative person and i wish more people saw this book for what it really was.Ā
looking back on this story now i have many mixed feelings. my love for this book was so strong that it has deepened how i feel about it now. i want to resent this bookā and i do, i just wish i did more. this is not a love story. it is a story of grooming, and it is difficult to see that because we are in elioās mind. i was so deeply infatuated with this book at 15,Ā and while rereading it i felt those feelings come back. the giddiness, the ābeautyā of this bookā of this ārelationship.ā reading this at 15 has my warped perception on it just as elioās perception of oliver was warped. i hope by my next reread in my 20s iām over it.Ā
iām not going to write a whole essay on this book because hundreds of people already have but thereās just so many problems with it. the author adds in incredibly gross scenes because he thinks he can just excuse it as ācomplete and total intimacy.ā like no dude itās just straight up gross.
the writing is what really saved this for me the second time around though. it really is the most beautifully written book iāve read in my life (thus far that is.) i need so many quotes from this book engraved into me.
but yeah, in conclusion; pretty writing but oliver is a disgusting, manipulative person and i wish more people saw this book for what it really was.Ā
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Gaslighting, Homophobia, and Pedophilia
Moderate: Antisemitism
Minor: Child death, Death, and Death of parent
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