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I don't think it's a bad book, but for me, this isn't the book it was marketed as being. A beautiful story of three related women, sure - but the supernatural premise underpinning the blurb just doesn't manifest very much, so I was left disappointed.

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adventurous dark hopeful inspiring medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

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emotional inspiring reflective slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Title: Butter Honey Pig Bread
Author: Francesca Ekwuyasi
Genre: Fiction
Rating: 5
Pub Date: Oct. 1 2020

T H R E E • W O R D S

Delicious • Familial • Inspiring

📖 S Y N O P S I S

Spanning three continents and many years, Butter Honey Pig Bread tells the story of mother, Kambirinachi, and her twin daughters, Kehinde and Taiye. In the wake of two life-altering experiences - the violent death of their husband and father, and a traumatic childhood experience for Kehinde, - the women drift apart. Weighed down by guilt and resentment life takes each of them in different directions. A decade later, the women reunite in Lagos and are forced to face the wounds of the past in order to move forward. This is a tale of love and loss, of grief and healing, and above all of family and forgiveness.

💭 T H O U G H T S

Butter Honey Big Bread is a beautifully written debut novel that explores our choices and their consequences, intertwining flawlessly the pleasurable roles of both food and sex in our lives. The fully fleshed out character development, the complex relationships, and the intelligent and emotive writing make this one of the most powerful books I've ever read. From the very start, the story takes you on an immersive journey, offering a fascinating glimpse into Nigerian culture and tradition, contrasted with Western culture and customs. Through alternative perspectives, this novel also explores queer identity, the long-lasting effects of sexual trauma, and a family torn apart. Although the plot is quite slow to develop, I suspect this was the intention by the supremely talented first-time author. The use of food throughout the story is something unique, and demonstrates the importance food plays in every aspect of our lives, a language of love and connection. It is certainly heavy on content, but that is what makes it a realistic and pleasurable read. Francesca Ekwuyasi has gained a fan, and I cannot wait to read what she writes next. My advice is that you don't want to miss this one!

📚 R E C O M M E N D • T O
• readers of mother/daughter relationships and family sagas
• Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie fans
• Foodies
• Book clubs

🔖 F A V O U R I T E • Q U O T E S

"She used to be much sweeter, softer, kinder, but it's impossible to go through that particular brand of hell and stay untouched."

"But one cannot abandon oneself, try try try as one might."

"The kind of kinship established due to a common sadness, shared loneliness that becomes bearable through laughter and food and the good company of one who understands."

"And that was her principal vice, wasn't it? Desiring to be entirely consumed by any and every moment that quenched the hungry howling loneliness that sat curled down down inside herself. If she could climb down the throat of an orgasm and rest, eternal, in its belly, and if she could sink into and be sealed beneath every delicious bite of every delightful thing - oh, how she would, she would, she would. But life pushes forth, persistently, the afterglow of even the most transcendent climax will fade, every tasty thing is digested and turns to shit. Mundanity is persistent. Periods must be dealt with, blood rots, dishes must be done, everything tarnishes and ends. It's just that beginnings are so seductive, the promise of possibilities."

"These alive bodies... so adept at turning even the most precious things into vices."

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? Yes
Loveable characters? Yes
Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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