Reviews

Why Mummy Swears by Gill Sims

christie_anne's review against another edition

Go to review page

funny lighthearted reflective medium-paced

4.0

lucyp747d4's review against another edition

Go to review page

5.0

What an outstanding read! I thoroughly enjoyed reading this and found it brightened up my day. For my full review please click the link below:

https://bookwormbloggerweb.wordpress.com/2018/09/09/sequel-september-book-1/

lainibop's review against another edition

Go to review page

funny lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

helpfulmum's review against another edition

Go to review page

2.0

admit to not having seen Gill Sim's blog or Facebook page before, so I hadn't heard of Peter and Jane and their adventures. I also hadn't read Why Mummy Drinks, which is the first book by this author. I love to laugh and am not offended by swearing, so I was really looking forward to getting stuck in to this book. Any writing which can take the mickey out of parenting in a lighthearted way is a winner for me.

Why Mummy Swears is the story of Ellen, her husband Simon and their two "precious moppets" Peter and Jane. Peter is 9 and Jane is 11 and my children are exactly the same age gap, although two years younger. The book starts with Ellen contemplating the summer holidays and what they are going to do with their time. She is also job hunting, and amazingly gets an interview for her dream job. As a mother, any job is going to be difficult to juggle the children around, but this job is full-time and you can see how that would make childcare a struggle.

Gill Sims writes about the the exasperating side of parenting incredibly well. We have all experienced the child who would only eat from the blue plate, or the children who fought over the yellow bowl every morning. In fact, I once threw all the blue plastic IKEA plates away in a fit of rage when my children fought over them for the 8th time that morning. It's good to feel that I am not the only one who occasionally has to walk out of the room, utter an expletive and walk back in with a cheery demeanour!

Frustratingly, though, I found the lead character Ellen difficult to warm to, which led to me struggling through the book a little. Why Mummy Swears grapples with some huge topics, divorce, pregnancy, not wanting children, and equality at work, but personally I feel it fails to adequately tackle inequalities in the home. It made me incredibly thankful that my husband helps out at home, and treats me as his equal. When Ellen starts her new job, she fails to mention that she has children, and once she hasn't mentioned them, it becomes increasingly difficult to blurt out the truth. Why Mummy Swears highlights the inequalities of the workplace in the fact that her colleague Lydia is treated differently because she is the only mother in the office. Her colleagues belittle Lydia and claim that she is not doing her fair share, because she has to go to school assemblies and sports days. After a showdown near the end of the book, where Lydia puts everyone in their place and proves just how hard she works, the workplace does end up a little more equal.

It's a diary style book, and I can see why other reviews have compared it to Bridget Jones' Diary. I really, really wanted to like this book, but in all honesty, I found it a little flat. It didn't make me laugh out loud. Whilst there are elements of the book which are highly relatable, as I have similar aged children to Ellen, I didn't find the household environment realistic. I found the book to be quite judgemental, and a bit painful to read at times. In fact, having read the other reviews on Amazon and Goodreads, I have ended up questioning what is wrong with me and why I don't find it funny like everyone else! I know the book is tongue in cheek, and I think possibly the fact that I couldn't warm to Ellen had a huge impact on my enjoyment of the book. It was well-written and the plot flowed nicely, making it easy to read, but the tone just didn't quite sit right with me. Gill Sims is a bestselling author and her previous book Why Mummy Drinks was the number one bestselling fiction debut hardback in 2017. Her first novel was in the Sunday Times Top 10 Bestsellers for over 23 weeks, so there are plenty of people who absolutely love her writing. I think that if you liked the previous book then you will love this one too.

lewistronb's review against another edition

Go to review page

funny lighthearted fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix

3.5

traceyyoung's review against another edition

Go to review page

4.0

Started this book at the beginning of the school holidays so the opening chapters struck a chord. Really funny book which I could absolutely relate to. Lots of laugh out loud moments. Will be checking out Why Mummy Drinks.

ravenclawlibrarybooks's review against another edition

Go to review page

5.0

I don't think I have a single bad thing to say about this book, amazingly written, with fantastic characters and a wonderfully humorous plot. I couldn't put it down. I was literally crying with laughter and this book has been added to my To Buy list.

I have added Why Mummy Drinks on to my TBR list.

I want to thank Netgalley & HarperCollins UK for the opportunity to read this ARC in exchange for my honest review.

hannargh's review against another edition

Go to review page

3.0

Just like her previous book, Gill Sims has written a hilarious, over the top, sweary view of motherhood that makes you chuckle, despair and groan.

There's no let up in any of the swearing or exasperated humour but that becomes tedious after a while, even if there are still moments of domestic hilarity.

Sims also made an attempt at pointing out the challenges a working mother faces when dealing with colleagues - however a few mumbles apologies at the end meant that she copped out of any significant message.

I also know the husband is supposed to be a funny and exasperating figure, and the wife is irrational and shouty for comic effect - but a whole novel of stereotypes gets exhausting.

*I received an ARC of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review*

odettebrethouwer's review against another edition

Go to review page

5.0

Net zo leuk en geweldig en goed als de eerste!

De humor vind ik hilarisch. Herkenbaar en soms overtrokken, maar niet onrealistisch. Juist niet. Dat is heel tof.

Maar toch zit er een diepere laag onder. Net als in deel 1 steekt die op 85% ineens de kop op, op een goede, mooie en logische manier.

Heerlijk boek weer!