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Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture by Roxane Gay

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mimikrow's review against another edition

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4.5

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chemistryreads's review against another edition

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4.5

This book is a difficult read, which is to be expected from its description. Having different narrators was a good choice and there were many different styles of stories, which I appreciated. I wish some stories would have been in a different order, but the stories themselves were powerful. Sadly, I think most women could identify with parts of these stories, often with how we are raised as women and told how to think about sex. This book would be a good read (or listen) for anyone who knows a victim of sexual violence because it offers so many perspectives and stories. It also contains many graphic stories so it should be read with caution, as the reader should always care for their mental health first. 4.5⭐️, ⚠️

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ellsnp's review against another edition

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4.75

Methodical inclusion of a variety of voices as it pertains to sexual violence, eplxploitation, exploration, and adativity. Layered and dynamic, as well as diverse, points of view and moral compasses. The anthologies in this book provides a lot of teaching points and does a phenomenal job of rejecting mindless rumination without purpose. Life's not always fair. At one point, the palpable frustration and certainty told by one of those authors had me screaming alongside her in shock and dismay. I was reminded of just how broken and misogynistic the therapeutic world can and has been, which can lead to haphazard interactions od damaging interventions interspliced with effective/hope-giving counseling. This book was uncomfortable but really an amazing/expansive read.

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4.5

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5.0

So important. I wish I could make everyone who doesn’t understand or take rape culture seriously read this. It took me a while to get through because it is very difficult and triggering, so proceed with caution.

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4.0

Took me a long time to finish but this anthology was excellent. I especially appreciated the diversity of stories and identities included, as the collection features perspectives from trans, queer, cis women and men of different racial and ethnic backgrounds. My favorites of the bunch were Picture Perfect by Sharisse Tracey (a Black woman recounts the sexual violence she faced at the hands of her father, her mother believes her but does nothing, and the struggle to maintain the image of a perfect Black family) and Invisible Light Waves by Meredith Talusan (a woman talks about how she put up with a man who violated her consent because of her desire to feel wanted and loved, and doesn't reveal until the end that

she is trans

). Each piece is narrated by the author in the audiobook, which I thought was especially powerful.

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the_reading_italian's review against another edition

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5.0

Oh. My. Gosh. I loved it. This was a while rollercoaster - and it really showed me I wasn't alone. People deal with their trauma in all sorts of different ways (they laugh, they cry, they drink, etc.), and this book was so powerful in that it gave an example of everything. Not everyone was raped, but some of us were groped. Not everyone was groped, but some of us had our asses slapped in high school. It really goes to show just how many people have similar experience to you, just how many people you could share your story with. I would 100% recommend this. It is definitely one of my new favorites <3

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mmejiaaar's review against another edition

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4.0

this collection of voices and experiences was so much more than what i expected. hard and crude, but so filled with hope and growth. its an important book, it gives voice to the lives of people that, under the patriarchal structure, would normally go ignored. its riddled with paradoxes and the reader does not rid itself of them: how to go about your day after reading this? where do you put this knowledge? how do you keep on living knowing what this essays have told you? and yet i would rather live in this scenario, than to ask the authors to be silent. i hope that everyone that has gone through an experience like the ones described in the book sees that there is a future for them, that not everything was taken again from them in that moment, that they are still here and still able to make something beautiful with their lives.

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3.25

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4.0

This is an emotional journey of the ripple effects of sexual assault. It is both healing and triggering. Some essays reached me deeper than others but they were all reflective and shine a light on the culture we have that allows these sexual assaults to continue.

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