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Much Ado about Nada by Uzma Jalaluddin

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onegalonelife27's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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spinesinaline's review against another edition

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hopeful mysterious slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Thanks to HarperCollins Canada for an ARC of this one. I was very intrigued in both a Toronto setting and a loose retelling of Persuasion, but it felt like it really missed the mark on the second. It is a compelling story: the main character is struggling in her career after a devastating theft by her business partner, and now has to face her ever-successful ex-beau. 
The part that really brought this down for me was the love interest. Persuasion is in part a story of young lovers separated by family and finding each other again as adults, with all the maturity that this passage of time has brought them. This book has some of that except the love interest has none of the maturity. The main character has a lot of valid reasons and feelings that her young self expresses and I wish we could’ve seen other characters validate this as well, especially around her concerns of sexist treatment. Instead, she’s made to feel wrong and somehow the villain in this relationship, with no responsibility placed on her ex/love interest. This book got so close to some real revelations but ultimately felt short in making this man some beloved fictional placeholder.

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onthesamepage's review against another edition

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emotional slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

ARC provided by the publisher through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Tropes:
second chance

Steam level: none

If you're a Muslim reader, and you get to that one point in the book that makes you go, "wait, WHAT?!", trust the author and keep reading.

Persuasion is one of my favourite Austen novels, and one of the few instances where I appreciated and rooted for a second chance romance. That's a lot to live up to, but Nada and Baz delivered. The yearning and the angst were all there. I also really liked that we got to see both of them at different stages of their lives, because it showcased their growth and gave us a lot of context for how their relationship developed. Neither of them dealt with things particularly well the first time around, which makes sense considering their age and relative maturity. While we don't get to see any changes in Baz, since the book is from Nada's perspective, we do see the impact it has had on her. In the flashbacks, Nada is a spitfire, but in the present day, she's much more timid and reserved—until she runs into Baz, and regains some of the energy she used to have. She has a lot of baggage to deal with, but she does so admirably, and I really appreciated her entire journey.

I will say that I wanted to see more of Baz and Nada's interactions, especially with regard to rekindling their romance, and their journey towards forgiving each other. I feel like a lot of it happened behind the scenes so to speak, which made this feel a little bit more general fiction than romance, in my opinion.

As usual, the author really focuses on what it means to be a practicing Muslim with a SE Asian heritage. She normalizes things like families living within the same house instead of the children moving out at a certain age, but also acknowledges the very real challenges young Muslims, who are born in diaspora, face when it comes to the clashing of their parents' ideals and culture with their own. I continue to be impressed by the way she handles these themes. 

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lettuce_read's review against another edition

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  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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reads2cope's review against another edition

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hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0

Uzma Jalaluddin has done it again!!! I couldn't put this down. It dropped my jaw to the floor, made me tingle with every emotion, and kick my feet and scream into my pillow. The main characters were all so lovable and real, and I want spinoff books for all of Nada's friends.
As a Jane Austen inspired romance, this absolutely nailed the tension and longing that made the original second chance Persuasion so great!
At the same time, the issues of bullying and family obligations were handled with so much depth it was at times hard to read and very emotional. 
The pace of this book was perfect, slowly revealing her past with Baz kept me on the edge of my seat without losing momentum in the present storyline.
My only large gripe with the book is that I wanted to see more Nada and Baz interactions, which ~yes~ is a great sign that I love the couple. However, the ending left me feeling conflicted
that they hadn't finished a deep conversation about their goals in life, making sure they were on the same page about what being together again meant. Their breakup was horrible, but also Nada was not wrong, and Sister Rusul was right to caution her to question how Baz would support Nada's dreams when he was being so flippant about her degree and their families. Baz wasn't ready to stay in one place, and Nada had different goals six years ago. If they had been able to communicate better, they might have taken life slower, going back to long-distance, and bringing their families into their lives. While the split might have been the necessary motivation for them to arrive where they ended up in this present, I wanted to see them better resolve their miscommunications of the past. A single line about them seeking the same counseling that Haleema and Zayn received would have put me more at ease, but I'll just imagine they did this on my own.
The storyline with Firdous also felt unresolved - had Baz actually considered her as a potential romantic partner? Did she realize the error of her faith in Haneef?

The Ayesha At Last easter eggs in this book were so delightful, too. Maybe it's time to reread until Jalaluddin publishes again...

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mysterymom40's review against another edition

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emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.0


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azrah786's review against another edition

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4.5

 [This review can also be found on my BLOG]

**I was provided with an ARC through Netgalley in exchange for an honest review**

CW: bullying, misogyny, ableism, divorce, depression, minor sexual content, pregnancy
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Uzma Jalaluddin’s book are such a fun time and I think this one is my favourite book by her to date.

Much Ado About Nada has us returning to the Golden Crescent neighbourhood, this time following Nada, a single woman in her late 20s who is dragged to a Muslim conference by one of her friends for a “girl’s weekend” before said friend’s wedding. However, attending the conference has her stumbling upon aspects from her past that she has been sternly avoiding. One being the root cause to the failure of her entrepreneurial project “Ask Apa” and the other being Baz, the brother-in-law to be of her friend whom Nada has a secret history with..

I haven’t read Austen’s Persuasion, which this is said to be a loose retelling of or Much Ado About Nothing so I can’t really say much on that side of things but I enjoyed this book so much, I genuinely couldn’t put it down.

"Sometimes I worry you've allowed your sadness to become the biggest part of you. Whatever happened in the past is why you're afraid to take any chances now."


A big thing that I love about Jalaluddin’s storytelling is just how welcoming and homely it feels. You can expect a slice of life narrative with honest Muslim and desi rep, wholesome familial relationships and friendships, humour and of course a dash of drama. Whenever I pick up one of her books I just immediately feel a part of the community within the story and thus don’t want it to end.

Nada isn’t the most likeable of characters and we see her develop a lot over the course of the story. The key themes of this book are around self-love and self-growth and allowing yourself the time to accept your past shortcomings and go through both. Which brings me to another thing that I really appreciate about Jalaluddin’s books and that is how despite how messy her protagonists are, that part of their character doesn’t involve compromising their religion.

That being said there is a moment in this book that seems like a massive red flag when you initially get to it but the timeline of the story has a part to play here so fellow Muslim readers when you get to it you’ll know it and just trust me and continue reading.

"..it bothered her that people who themselves were stereotyped and looked down upon for their appearance so easily did the same to others."


Now coming back to the romance side of things, cringy song lyrics aside the romance was really sweet. I’ve come to realise that second chance romance, in particular contexts that this book definitely fits into, may be a favourite trope of mine. The dual timeline was perfect for unravelling and piecing together Nada and Baz’s history and what actually happened. I won’t give much more away but the yearning and mystery behind everything was so absorbing.

Nada’s development wasn’t solely related to romance in the book though and I really enjoyed the other parts of the plot and moments with supporting characters too. I particularly loved to see how supportive her family was of her endeavours which isn’t always the case when it comes to daughters in desi families.

Though the ending wrapped up a bit fast this was overall a wonderfully wholesome and genuine story and as ever I can’t wait to pick up whatever Jalaluddin writes next!
Final Rating – 4.5/5 Stars 

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I have a somewhat mixed track record with Uzma Jalaluddin, and I wasn’t originally planning to request this for review – but the publisher reached out to me, and once they’d offered, I wasn’t going to say no! But having proceeded to devour the book within 24 hours, and then sit on my feelings for over a fortnight, I’m still pretty conflicted about this book.

The retelling
The first thing to say is that it’s barely a Persuasion retelling. In typical Uzma Jalaluddin fashion, it’s an extremely loose reimagining – I can see where she’s taken inspiration from Austen, but if I wasn’t looking for the connections, I probably wouldn’t have realised it was a retelling at all. Beyond being a second chance romance, the plot beats aren’t the same at all, and Nada is certainly nothing like Anne Elliot!

The heroine
I do appreciate Jalaluddin’s ability to write complex heroines, but my main feeling about Nada was just that she was messy, which is a main character type that I personally tend not to do so well with. While I did relate to some of her feelings, particularly around trying to navigate her two cultures, I mostly found her pretty unlikeable and annoying. She makes some pretty huge mistakes, both in the past and present timelines, and she just felt very immature and self-absorbed!

The romance
I also wasn’t entirely sold on the romance. While I enjoyed some of Baz and Nada’s banter, especially in the flashbacks to their original relationship, there wasn’t really much depth to their relationship beyond that. In the original Persuasion, we’re led to believe that Anne and Wentworth could have been happy if they had got married when they first wanted to. But Baz and Nada were completely wrong for each other at 21 – without spoiling anything, I was truly floored by some of the stupid decisions they made, and I absolutely cannot believe that they would have had a successful relationship if they’d stayed together at that point! And they never really discuss their relationship deeply in the present timeline either, so even though they’re both (supposedly) wiser and more mature, that doesn’t feel like enough to fix all their issues.

(That said, the overall discussion around getting married young – particularly in the context of South Asian Muslims – hit me hard and made me feel a LOT of things, so I have to give credit to the writing, even if I didn’t love the characters!)

The representation
In terms of the wider story, I always appreciate the way Uzma Jalaluddin manages to capture such a wide spectrum of ways of being Muslim (right down to her willingness to embrace the more uncommon Muslim names – among others, this book had a Bazlur Rahman, Owais, Narjis, Waqas, Firdous...) There was also zero Islamophobia or racism in this book (although a lot of Nada’s struggles have to do with navigating her South Asian-Canadian identity, it’s internal conflict rather than bigotry), which made a nice change!

However, your mileage may vary on whether you consider it halal. I would echo the reviews that say you need to stick with it at the moment where it seems to be not halal in a major way, because that does get cleared up (again, trying to avoid spoilers!) – but still, the milder moments may also stretch the boundaries of what different people consider appropriate.

So overall… I didn’t love this? But I do think a lot of that was down to personal taste, and if you like books about messy, twenty-something women who are allowed to make mistakes, it’s definitely engaging and propulsive!

(Also, this is totally irrelevant to my feelings on the book itself, but I cannot get over how misleading this title is! Every time I think about this book I'm bemused all over again that it's not a retelling of Much Ado About Nothing!)

Thank you to Atlantic Books for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. 

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emotional hopeful lighthearted reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

5.0


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