Reviews tagging 'Toxic relationship'

Memorial by Bryan Washington

40 reviews

joensign's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Domestic abuse, Homophobia, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, and Abandonment

Moderate: Body shaming, Fatphobia, Infidelity, and Sexual content

seventhswan's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

I can't believe this book is blurbed as funny and sexy. It is profoundly sad, not in a tragic, melodramatic way, but in the quiet, bleak sense that nothing is quite right in any of the characters' lives and nobody cares enough to try and make things better. Everyone in this book needs to attend therapy yesterday, and try sleeping with someone who truly loves them.

I liked the characters of Benson and Mike separately - I probably enjoyed reading Mike's POV slightly more than Benson's, he had a little more about him - but I was not rooting for their relationship at all. Somewhere towards the end of the book, I remembered that they'd been together five years, not five months, and was ready to scream. However, I thought they were both interesting, well-written characters, and I cared about what happened to them (certainly more than anyone in the story seemed to). 

The writing was often really beautiful and thought-provoking, and I didn't mind the lack of quotation marks, but I really struggled with 'new speaker, new line' not being followed. I had to reread several paragraphs because I'd misunderstood who was speaking, which was frustrating. 

I would say that this book was good, not that I enjoyed it. It was not a cheerful or uplifting read, despite the characters insisting they felt hopeful at the end. Other than the speech, it was well-executed, and I'd read more by Washington in the future.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child abuse, Toxic relationship, and Death of parent

Moderate: Alcoholism, Homophobia, Racism, and Sexual content

hello_lovely13's review against another edition

emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Homophobia, Infidelity, Racism, Toxic relationship, and Death of parent

Moderate: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual content, and Abandonment

Minor: Body shaming, Fatphobia, and Racial slurs

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itsheyfay's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective sad slow-paced

• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Infidelity, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Death of parent

Moderate: Cancer, Domestic abuse, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Terminal illness, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Classism

sadhbhprice's review against another edition

emotional funny reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Homophobia, Infidelity, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Grief, and Death of parent

Moderate: Domestic abuse, Racism, and Abandonment

Minor: Body shaming, Child abuse, Drug use, Fatphobia, Physical abuse, and Alcohol

maybeimali's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional reflective slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

Benson saved it. Mike ruined it. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Homophobia, Infidelity, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Grief, Death of parent, and Abandonment

Moderate: Addiction, Body shaming, Child abuse, Fatphobia, and Homophobia

emilysamsharrisreads's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

This novel felt almost poetic in its writing style, it is gorgeous. Memorial presented such the two main characters, queer men of colour in Texac, Mike and Benson as whole, flawed, loving, challenging characters grappling with grief, family separation (both in physical distance and emotional connection), and what to do when a relationship runs its course. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, and Abandonment

Moderate: Homophobia and Racism

20sidedbi's review against another edition

challenging emotional mysterious reflective slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Infidelity, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Death of parent

Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Homophobia, Infidelity, Physical abuse, Racism, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Abandonment, and Classism

alexisgarcia's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

this was very good and somehow wholesome. the ending was slightly unsatisfying to me.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cursing, Death, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Infidelity, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Abandonment, Alcohol, Injury/Injury detail, and Classism

spookyaz's review against another edition

challenging emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Death of parent