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mo_mo92's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Body shaming, Bullying, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Misogyny, Forced institutionalization, Grief, Medical trauma, Abortion, and Pregnancy
alicialikekeys's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Body shaming, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Miscarriage, Misogyny, and Forced institutionalization
heyel's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Child abuse
Moderate: Alcoholism, Body shaming, and Abortion
bloodmaarked's review against another edition
4.0
✧ full review on my tumblr ✧
Graphic: Body shaming, Forced institutionalization, Abortion, and Gaslighting
Minor: Miscarriage
nadia_not_there's review against another edition
5.0
Coincidentally I read this book in the same week I watched episode 4 of The Penguin, which tells the story of Sofia Falcone’s gaslighting, forced institutionalisation, imprisonment and torture.
We’re not supposed to feel bad for rich powerful privileged women right?
Well, dammit, men will find a way regardless. To control, to silence, to gaslight, to abuse.
Britney is certainly not the first woman celeb in history to go through this, and indeed many women have experienced this and worse, but this story matters so much. For these themes to come through in a bestseller by someone who the tabloids (i.e. abusers of the precious right to free speech, which others in the world are denied and die for) and streaming services love to exploit could be a good way to get these issues on the table in a big way, which is difficult for the “little guy” to achieve. Britney got the chance to publish a guaranteed bestseller and used her platform to highlight lifelong patterns of these issues.
I will admit that I am not a very critical reader: I find something to like in almost everything I read, I can read almost any genre, and I tend to be especially forgiving of autobiographies/memoirs, because public figures are seldom the best writers!
Britney is not a writer. But she tells her story authentically, with much reflection and what feels like a difficult honesty. The pacing is not slow and she doesn’t really belabour any points. Where she does refer to certain chapters of her life a lot, such as her relationships with Justin & Kevin, or her father’s many flaws, it’s clearly because those affected her profoundly, and she had a lot to say that could not be said before. Tbh I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. She describes the awful things that happened to her while admitting to her own faults and apologising.
After the forced mental “treatment” and rehab, violation of privacy, denial of basic rights, after all the content made without her consent, after having no control of her life for so long, after her creativity and passion were repeatedly stifled, after tabloids provoking then exploiting her merely to keep media shareholders rich, it’s great to hear her own voice.
Moderate: Ableism, Body shaming, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, Car accident, Abortion, and Gaslighting
Minor: Chronic illness, Death, Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Cultural appropriation, and Pandemic/Epidemic
jessicaabreu's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Forced institutionalization, Medical trauma, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Abortion and Pregnancy
eamayabe's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Drug abuse, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, Medical trauma, and Gaslighting
spl2d's review against another edition
4.5
Moderate: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Car accident, Abortion, and Pregnancy
Minor: Miscarriage and Suicide
_pauline's review against another edition
4.0
also maybe she just wants certain things to stay private
Moderate: Alcoholism, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Forced institutionalization, and Abortion
Minor: Body shaming, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, and Grief
emily_schlegel's review against another edition
Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Confinement, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Forced institutionalization, Kidnapping, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Abortion
Minor: Miscarriage