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juliaaa02's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Rape, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Violence, Schizophrenia/Psychosis , and Pregnancy
okiecozyreader's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.0
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In it, she mentions that many of the characters deal with coping mechanisms, and that is how she tied it together. I can tell that the epilogue made a lot of people frustrated. It didn’t really bother me; I felt like what she was trying to accomplish worked for me - and this part of her story is similar to that of one that she knew in real life. (See above video)
I listened to the audio and enjoyed the Australian accents and the book moves quickly - 73 chapters (most less than 10 minutes - so it’s hard to quit reading!)
The first chapter holds a wedding, with a member of the wedding party splattered with blood, then we go back and meet the family. The father, Stephen is a cardiologist marrying a younger woman (between his daughter’s ages), but most appalling to them - while their mother and his current wife, is suffering from dementia and recently moved to a care unit. We learn about each of their struggles (most chapters have the POV of the two daughters and the new bride) in the weeks leading up to the wedding.
This book has lots of triggers: domestic abuse, kleptomania (“strange compulsions”), eating disorders, sexual assault, loss of pregnancy, etc
Quotes
“His eyes were kind. (Another thing Heather had learned growing up was to assess people’s eyes. Kind. Mean. Lecherous. They could change quickly, so you always had to keep an eye on the eyes.)” ch 16
“Upper middle class hired people to help them pack, take away the things they didn’t need, and unpack again at the other end. In addition to paying them handsomely, Stephen had given the movers a slab of premium beer and instructed her to order pizzas for them. That had been particularly eye-opening. Heather had assumed—from movies and the like—that the more money people had, the worse they treated the staff, but she understood now that wasn’t generally the case. She also understood why. When you were comfortable, you could afford to be magnanimous. Poorer people didn’t help the movers unpack because they were tired from working two jobs. If the movers broke something, poorer people were mad, because they couldn’t afford to replace it. They didn’t order pizza or premium beer for the movers, because when was the last time someone did that for them? It was strange, seeing the world from both sides. Strange, and eye-opening. So few people got to see things from her vantage point. It seemed, to Heather, an awful shame.” Ch 19
“I just mean, don’t beat yourself up for single-handedly saving yourself with the tools you had available to you. Where I come from, that’s called survival.” Ch 29
“And yet she couldn’t shake the feeling that he wasn’t all bad. Perhaps the very worst people still had some good in them. And perhaps the very best had some bad.” Ch 66
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, and Dementia
Minor: Sexual assault and Pregnancy
quietcoastline's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Death, Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Dementia, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Murder, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism
Minor: Infertility, Excrement, and Pregnancy
allyssa_r's review against another edition
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Dementia, Abortion, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Alcohol
kerrygetsliterary's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Dementia, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Alcohol
brookerachel's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Toxic relationship, Dementia, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Sexual harassment
onmalsshelf's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
1.0
I know Sally sometimes reads one star reviews off of Goodreads on her Instagram so if that happens, well…hi.
This was one of my most anticipated releases of 2022 after how much I loved her 2021 release, The Good Sister (5 stars from me). Sadly, this was a MESS and hit me with some characterizations that did not sit well with me.
Did she just try to pull a trope out of a bag, but accidentally pulled out several and decided to go with trying to make all of them work because that’s what it seemed like.
I probably should’ve DNFed because I was getting some weird vibes just after chapter one. However, I kept going against my better judgement because I trusted her to being it back around to something I could love.
Mainly, if you: are a survivor of abuse or know of someone who is please take care of yourself while reading. Gaslighting of abuse victims abound in this one.
Second, if you have a loved one who currently has or had dementia or Alzheimer’s - just go ahead and take this one off your TBR because the way that was portrayed and used as a plot device here was disgusting. Pam deserves better than how she was portrayed.
This was predictable from the start. Throughout the book and especially the ending and the following epilogue, the perpetuation of the narrative that the things weren’t real/were being imagined? Disgusting. A slap in the face to the reader and victims.
Other things I’m so done with: the unstable female trope by way of either alcohol or gaslighting to make her seem unstable. To that point, so many plot points with the three POVs (Tully, Rachel, and Heather) were mishandled. Sally really decided to choose the ‘unreliable/crazy female narrator’ with every single female in this one.
I know this is a domestic suspense/mystery/drama, but it really seemed like a mediocre man tried to write women in a way to appease the good ole men’s club.
There are a lot of triggers since she attempted so many different tropes.
Just take care of yourself while reading this one and give your loved one with dementia a hug.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Domestic abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Miscarriage, Sexual assault, Dementia, Pregnancy, and Gaslighting
bookishaddictions's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Mental illness, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Alcoholism and Alcohol
Minor: Miscarriage and Pregnancy
deniset's review against another edition
3.5
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Dementia, Murder, Pregnancy, and Gaslighting