creativelifeofliz's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Infidelity, Sexual content, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, and Addiction
Moderate: Grief, Pregnancy, Abortion, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Death of parent, Mental illness, Sexism, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Self harm, and Rape
oliviaburley's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
All the male characters were so aggravating. Warren and Eddie were annoying and underdeveloped, Pete was mentioned so infrequently I kept forgetting who he was. Billy was a complete prick start to finish, the narrative tried to provide a sympathetic angle for him but I hated him the entire book. Graham was tolerable until the last third of the book, but by the end I hated him as well. All of the record label/producer people were hard to keep straight.
Daisy was interesting but grating at times, and I wanted to hear more about her life: early childhood, what she’s up to now, etc. Simone was the most interesting character in the whole book and she was severely underutilized. Karen was a badass, I wish there were more Daisy/Karen moments throughout the book, it was weird how disjointed the women were from each other. I felt bad Camila put all her eggs in the Billy basket, I was waiting the whole book for her to divorce his sorry ass. The “Julia is the author” reveal did nothing for me except make it super weird her dad is going into detail with his daughter about cheating on her mom.
The interview structure worked well enough for me, and it was a quick read. This is my first TJR, will definitely be reading more in the future. I have high hopes for the TV show, as I think this story is probably better suited on screen with a soundtrack.
Graphic: Sexual violence, Drug use, Alcoholism, Sexism, Addiction, Drug abuse, Alcohol, and Sexual content
Minor: Abortion
graceneverreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Addiction and Drug abuse
Moderate: Sexual violence
kalemottison's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This book is so dense, so it feels like everything is a spoiler, so just in case:
Spoiler
I was happy that Daisy and Billy didn’t do anything more than almost kiss. I really loved Camilla, and I didn’t want her to get hurt. Her death at the end of the book is heartbreaking, and I’m a bit eh at the idea of Billy getting with Daisy, but felt at peace with it being open ended. The side characters were the best part. Some of them were fustrating and rude, and other were so lovely and wonderful! I forget so many names but I truly loved those characters.Loved that the book handles abortion, and the difference between Camilla and Karen and that they both had the chance to choose. I was listening to this on the way home from my honeymoon just after the overturn of Roe V. Wade was announced, and my husband and I were hit hard by this part. Made me cry. I wish Graham and Karen got together in the end, but I understand who they both are as people and why it wouldn’t work.
Daisy is one of my favorite characters because of how the book treats her, the back and forth is so interesting and real. She’s not perfect by any means and you get annoyed and frustrated with her, but you do with everyone! I love that the characters aren’t perfect. Her ending was amazing, everyone’s ending worked well. Simone was just a fantastic foil to Daisy.
THE ONLY THING I DIDN’T LIKE WAS THE PLOT TWIST. Billy and Camilla’s daughter being the narrator is just weird to me, I can see passed it, but I would not want to hear about all the dirty secrets my parents have. However, I’m glad Billy and Camilla raised her right, to see people at their best, even when they are telling you their worst.<\spoiler>
Well worth the listen.
Graphic: Drug use, Gaslighting, Toxic relationship, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Abortion, Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Toxic friendship, Sexism, Addiction, Abandonment, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, and Vomit
honigbieni's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Drug use, Toxic relationship, Infidelity, Addiction, Alcoholism, and Drug abuse
Moderate: Mental illness, Pregnancy, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Abortion, Terminal illness, Abandonment, Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Infidelity, and Rape
Minor: Death, Death of parent, and Chronic illness
ladybergart's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Moderate: Infidelity, Eating disorder, Sexual violence, Drug abuse, Drug use, Domestic abuse, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Addiction, Abortion, and Emotional abuse
emudds's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
good quotes (though i can def see ppl complain they may come off as too many platitudes which like yeah that's gonna happen when multiple books are positioned as retrospective tell-alls of larger-than-life celebrities):
--i think you have to have faith in people before they earn it. otherwise it's not faith, right?
--when someone's presence gives you energy, when it riles up something in you... you can turn that energy into lust or love or hate. i felt most comfortable hating her. it was my only choice.
--people say that life keeps moving, but they don't mention that it does stop sometimes, just for you. just for you and your girl.
--i don't believe in soul mates anymore and i'm not looking for anything. but if i did believe in them, i'd believe your soul mate was somebody who had all the things you didn't, that needed all the things you had. not somebody who's suffering from the same stuff you are.
--love is forgiveness and patience and faith and every once in a while, it's a gut punch. that's why it's a dangerous thing, when you go loving the wrong person.
--i thought love was bombs and tears and blood. i did not know that it was supposed to make you lighter, not heavier. i didn't know it was supposed to take only the kind of work that makes you softer.
--some people will never stop being themselves. and you think it drives you crazy but it is the very thing you will think about when they are gone. when you don't have them in your life anymore.
--no matter who you choose to go down the road with, you're gonna get hurt. that's just the nature of caring about someone. no matter who you love, they will break your heart along the way.
--life is about who is holding your hand and, i think, whose hand you commit to holding.
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, and Drug use
Minor: Sexual violence
eena's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Drug abuse, Rape, and Sexual violence
kaboom2016's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Drug abuse
Minor: Sexual assault, Sexual violence, and Sexual harassment
annieundomielf's review against another edition
2.25
Graphic: Drug use and Alcoholism
Minor: Sexual violence