ridern2002's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Minor: Medical content, Gaslighting, Cancer, Alcoholism, Addiction, Death of parent, Drug use, Fire/Fire injury, Misogyny, Rape, Sexism, and Terminal illness
jenniferbbookdragon's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Sexism, Bullying, Fire/Fire injury, and Stalking
Moderate: Rape, Sexual harassment, Sexual assault, Suicide attempt, and Misogyny
Minor: Cancer
mmalone's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Moderate: Rape, Medical trauma, Cancer, Fire/Fire injury, Medical content, Ableism, Bullying, Sexism, Suicide attempt, Abandonment, Addiction, Terminal illness, Death, Miscarriage, and Death of parent
bekki_f's review against another edition
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.25
Moderate: Addiction, Cancer, Sexual violence, and Sexual assault
okiecozyreader's review
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.5
I really enjoyed this look at a strong, brave female firefighter who has worked hard to prove herself when she almost attacks her old love interest. She ends up going to live with her mom (who walked out on her when she was 16) and starting over.
It is a beautiful story of forgiveness on so many levels and for almost every character in the book. Her mother leads the discussion with her with 3 points of “chipping away at forgiveness”:
“Just saying the words ‘I forgive you,’ even to yourself can be a powerful start. …
Forgiveness is about a mindset of letting go, …acknowledging to yourself that someone hurt you, and accepting that…
Then it’s about accepting that the person who hurt you is flawed, like all people are, and letting that guide you to a better, more nuanced understanding of what happened. …
And then there’s a third part… probably the hardest, that involves trying to look at the aftermath of what happened and find ways that you benefited, not just ways you were harmed.” P112
“Firefighters are, on average, very funny people. All the sorrow you absorb in that job makes you funnier. You have to balance out the pain somehow, and joking around is one of the best things about the job. There’s so much death in that world, but laughter is life.” P98
“If you play it right, your struggles might even lead you to your strengths. …
Find one person you can count on.” P45
“It’s a big deal to share your grief with other people - to give them a glimpse of the pain you carry. It connects you in a profound way.” P284
Moderate: Cancer, Death of parent, Child death, and Rape
kbucheit's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Graphic: Rape, Cancer, and Death
spellygirl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Misogyny, Sexism, Cancer, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Stalking, Terminal illness, and Abandonment
Moderate: Stalking, Grief, Rape, Sexual violence, Misogyny, Medical content, Infidelity, and Sexual assault
Minor: Alcoholism, Blood, Body shaming, Fatphobia, Infertility, Medical content, and Drug abuse
momloves2read's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Fire/Fire injury
Moderate: Bullying, Cancer, and Rape
Minor: Drug abuse
hollyk25's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Sexism
Moderate: Cancer, Vomit, Medical content, and Bullying
Minor: Rape and Drug abuse
This book was fabulous and addressed some potentially sensitive topics in a constructive, relatable way without sensationalizing suffering. There are some topics that may be sensitive to certain groups but the detail the author used surrounding those topics was not overly graphic or distasteful!cheypreston's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Moderate: Sexual harassment and Stalking
Minor: Rape, Sexual assault, Cancer, Addiction, Miscarriage, and Death of parent