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marmaladereads's review against another edition
I love Elliott Page's work and I love him no less for having read this book, but I probably would not recommend this to other queer readers. This is an incredibly difficult, depressing, and mostly tragic story of mental illness struggle, how cruel society is towards queer and trans people, and a first hand account of why trans people have such a high rate of mental illness and suicide.
There is an incredible amount of explicit, graphic on page homophobia, transphobia, and abuse in this book.
It's highly relatable, well written, and feels incredibly true, but also made me feel sad and scared about the state of the world, and I have quite enough of that in my life already, tyvm.
Do check the content warnings before reading.
Graphic: Body shaming, Deadnaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Transphobia, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Sexual harassment, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
laughingrecord's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Bullying, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Self harm, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Medical content, Lesbophobia, Alcohol, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Blood
clarelou07's review against another edition
3.5
- The chapters feel like short stories, scattered throughout Elliot's life
- There is a lot about sex and relationships (which makes sense given Page's coming out as gay paving the way to be himself). However, there are some sex scenes from their younger years which read as sexual abuse. Beware if this is a trigger.
- As a Southern queer nonbinary person, Elliot's reflection on sexuality and gender was refreshing to read. I wish the world were kinder to exploration like this, and I'm happy Page exists publicly to share his story.
- While wanting to love this, the book was okay for me. I'm generally not a memoir person, but wanted to give this a shot.
Graphic: Addiction, Bullying, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Medical content, Medical trauma, Stalking, Car accident, Dysphoria, and Pandemic/Epidemic
cats33's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Mental illness, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Medical content, Lesbophobia, Outing, Gaslighting, Dysphoria, and Pandemic/Epidemic
Minor: Blood
sailormoony's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Panic attacks/disorders, Transphobia, Stalking, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Eating disorder and Misogyny
sorcha's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Bullying, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Transphobia, Blood, Medical content, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Dysphoria, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Child abuse, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Toxic relationship, and Religious bigotry
Minor: Deadnaming, Death, Drug use, Mental illness, Self harm, Suicidal thoughts, Excrement, Vomit, Outing, Alcohol, and Pandemic/Epidemic
lukests's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Hate crime, Homophobia, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Transphobia, Medical content, Grief, Lesbophobia, Outing, Toxic friendship, Sexual harassment, Dysphoria, and Pandemic/Epidemic
kiwichill's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Body shaming, Cursing, Deadnaming, Drug use, Homophobia, Misogyny, Self harm, Sexual content, Transphobia, Lesbophobia, Outing, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief, Gaslighting, and Alcohol
abicaro17's review against another edition
2.75
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Body shaming, Bullying, Child abuse, Confinement, Cursing, Deadnaming, Drug use, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Self harm, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, Violence, Medical content, Stalking, Lesbophobia, Outing, Gaslighting, Alcohol, and Sexual harassment
silverseaslug's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Body shaming, Sexual content, and Dysphoria
Moderate: Biphobia, Bullying, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual assault, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Transphobia, and Stalking