yourstrulytay's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
This was an amazing portrayal of a case that has all too often been centred on the perpetrator, who has been made out to be some handsome, brilliant mastermind, instead of the small, pathetic man who held conflated ideas of his own importance. This story is about the women whose lives he stole, specifically, but also all women who have had to dim themselves to make the men around them feel brighter, and those who have been vilified and punished for daring to outshine.
This book was viscerally satisfying to read, and I will recommend it will my whole entire being to anyone and everyone.
Moderate: Violence, Sexual harassment, Sexual assault, Outing, Toxic relationship, Stalking, Infidelity, Grief, Child abuse, Sexual violence, Mental illness, Lesbophobia, Kidnapping, Homophobia, Rape, Murder, and Misogyny
Minor: Incest and Eating disorder
imstephtacular's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
4.5
Graphic: Death, Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Violence, Sexism, Blood, Gore, Grief, Injury/Injury detail, Medical content, Misogyny, Lesbophobia, and Murder
Moderate: Sexual violence, Mental illness, Body shaming, Death of parent, Rape, Sexual assault, Panic attacks/disorders, Pregnancy, Classism, Cursing, Sexual content, Dementia, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Infidelity, Fatphobia, Sexual harassment, and Alcohol
Minor: War, Vomit, Pandemic/Epidemic, Gun violence, Racism, Kidnapping, Incest, Religious bigotry, Stalking, and Physical abuse
epinyan's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Gore, Murder, Sexual assault, Blood, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, Kidnapping, and Grief
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Forced institutionalization, Homophobia, and Lesbophobia
Minor: Dementia, Eating disorder, and Vomit
americattt's review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
‘We have more dignity than that’, I said, lifting my head with enormous effort. Never let them see you sweat, I was always saying except I could see the filmy residue my glands had deposited on the window.
‘I’ll tell you something from experience. ‘ Tina said, flexing her fingers on the wheel. ‘They will call you hysterical no matter how much dignity you have. So you might as well do whatever the hell you want.’”
A captivating read that is much needed amongst all the true-crime content that puts too much emphasis and thought on the killers and not enough on the victims and their loved ones, who should be the ones remembered and supported.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Violence, and Murder
Moderate: Death and Homophobia
porshainielsen's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.75
My opinion of true crime has shifted quite a bit in the last few years. I do not want to hear about the handsome mysterious man who murdered nameless women. I do not want to hear about the killers turbulent childhood. I want to hear about the victims and how they loved to listen to Fleetwood Mac, how they loved reading horoscopes and how they were people. This style of story telling made me quite emotional as these women could easily be myself or one of my friends. The person that this story is about killed thirty women. Yet, it is always his face in the paper or on the homescreen of your Netflix app. I also loved the narrative change of the killer being a brooding, handsome man- no, he was actually fucking annoying and prayed on the societal norm of women feeling obligated to help/entertain a man in need.
While I loved reading hearing this story told in a perspective based upon court documents and eye-witness reports, I can't help but think about how the victims feel about this portrayal. The two main characters, Ruth and Pamela, are based on real people. People who haven't or cannot confirm that these were the thoughts and feelings they were having at the time.
Graphic: Murder, Rape, and Homophobia
cassidy_rain's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
3.75
Graphic: Violence, Sexual violence, Murder, Rape, and Blood
Moderate: Forced institutionalization, Grief, Lesbophobia, and Homophobia
kimmykelly's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
Moderate: Eating disorder, Incest, Kidnapping, Blood, Death, Sexism, Grief, Misogyny, Murder, Dementia, Gore, Body horror, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Homophobia, Sexual assault, and Rape
marpaige's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Homophobia, Murder, Rape, Toxic relationship, Violence, and Injury/Injury detail
kelleywithanextrae's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
Graphic: Blood, Murder, Death, Kidnapping, Grief, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Medical content, Alcohol, Death of parent, Emotional abuse, Dementia, Injury/Injury detail, Lesbophobia, and Mental illness
Minor: Sexual assault, Homophobia, Pedophilia, Sexism, Gun violence, Eating disorder, and Lesbophobia
starrfishandcoffee's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
All of the women who were killed by that pathetic, small, insolent loser are the ones who were intelligent, had promising futures, and were robbed of a chance to fulfill their dreams.
Read this book.
Graphic: Rape and Death
Moderate: Sexual assault and Homophobia