ghostlyprince's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
2.5
Graphic: Outing, Racial slurs, Racism, Lesbophobia, Alcohol, and Homophobia
Moderate: Deportation, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Police brutality, and Hate crime
wrensreadingroom's review against another edition
5.0
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body shaming, Dysphoria, Vomit, Toxic friendship, Pregnancy, Police brutality, Outing, Hate crime, Grief, Abandonment, Classism, Death, Excrement, Emotional abuse, Forced institutionalization, Homophobia, Alcohol, Blood, Colonisation, Confinement, Cultural appropriation, Deportation, Sexism, Lesbophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Xenophobia, Racism, Racial slurs, Misogyny, Mental illness, Bullying, Child death, Cursing, Deadnaming, Gaslighting, War, Medical content, Violence, Sexual content, Panic attacks/disorders, Miscarriage, and Infertility
dragon_lord's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.75
Graphic: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Alcohol, and Racism
Moderate: Sexism, Misogyny, Outing, Toxic friendship, War, Abandonment, Violence, and Death
Minor: Drug use, Miscarriage, Child abuse, Excrement, and Pregnancy
nils_0's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.5
Graphic: Sexism, Abandonment, Alcohol, Drug use, Gaslighting, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Xenophobia and Deportation
calicat42's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
Graphic: Deportation, Homophobia, Sexual content, Transphobia, Body shaming, Classism, Alcohol, Colonisation, Emotional abuse, Sexism, and Abandonment
emfass's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
5.0
I also ended up loving the interludes where Lo added chapters from the point of view of Lily's parents and aunt, to give voice to the many ways immigration, racism, and living a life spanning multiple cultures affects people.
I deeply appreciate the way Malinda Lo incorporated so much research as well as inspiration from her own family to create such a realistic, respectful view into San Francisco's Chinatown in the 1950s. I also loved reading her Author's Note at the end, which gave historical context to so much of the story.
I listened to this on audio and narrator Emily Woo Zeller was wonderful.
This is going to be one of my favorite reads of 2023.
Graphic: Xenophobia, Alcohol, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Misogyny, Outing, Racial slurs, Racism, Sexism, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Abandonment, Child abuse, Police brutality, Sexual content, Deportation, Physical abuse, Sexual harassment, and War
Minor: Forced institutionalization, Miscarriage, and Body horror
tangleroot_eli's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
This isn't just "realizing you're gay and falling in love"; it's "realizing you're gay and falling in love while living in a world where everything else keeps happening."
Graphic: Lesbophobia, Sexism, Racism, Xenophobia, Homophobia, Misogyny, and Abandonment
Moderate: War, Sexual harassment, Alcohol, and Gaslighting
Minor: Pregnancy, Miscarriage, Drug use, and Gore
Red Scare/Lavender Scareclemrain's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.0
Spoiler
she was very homophobic in her approach.Spoiler
What happened to her during her raid? How did her family react?Spoiler
I wish the raid had happened earlier so we could’ve gotten more of what happened after instead of having multiple bar scenes that ultimately showed the same point.The ambition of talking about Chinese immigrants as well as the butch/queer scene of America as well as communism and America all in one novel was high. These three big ideas can coexist but in this novel they were not fully realized. There was too much going on and majority of it had no time to truly be resolved.
The ending was too rushed. The first half of the book took a while to ramp up. But I enjoyed it. It was so deeply researched and written. The intimate and realistic depiction of Lily learning about her queerness accompanied by the harsh reality of being Asian was gorgeous and relatable. But what was set up so carefully in the first part of the book did not pay off with such detail and satisfaction in the last part of the book.
Graphic: Lesbophobia, Homophobia, and Miscarriage
Moderate: Sexual content, Classism, Racism, Bullying, Hate crime, Misogyny, and Outing
Minor: Medical content, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, War, and Racial slurs
filipa_maia's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Malinda Lo created a story with so many layers that is impossible that you don't feel connected with the characters. The way Lily discovers her sexuality and her love for Kath is so well written that makes you root for them. I spent half of the story rooting for them not to be discovered and the other half just wishing that they could tell the world about their love (and also very worried about the implications of that love for them and Lily's family).
Discovering this "underground world" with Lily was very interesting and such an important and informative reading.
Graphic: Lesbophobia, Sexual content, Alcohol, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Outing and Abandonment
Minor: Miscarriage
terrestrial_river's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.75
Graphic: Homophobia and Lesbophobia
Moderate: Police brutality, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, Alcohol, Racial slurs, and Sexual content
Minor: Adult/minor relationship