olivia_piepmeier's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
3.5
Graphic: Xenophobia, Sexual content, Lesbophobia, and Homophobia
Moderate: Racial slurs and Toxic friendship
Minor: Deportation, Police brutality, and Sexual harassment
xjr's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Anyway, this historical sapphic love story that takes place in the 1950s is both sweet, emotional and in a way empowering. Lily truly undergoes a transformation, and the lesbian yearning is strong.
I simply wish some of the other subplots were elaborated on to make it feel a bit more satisfactory. The romance itself was well done and I enjoyed both characters, their interactions and their adorkable dream sharing.
The author's notes at the end are also all super interesting and I recommend all to read it for some history lessons and interesting anecdotes from sapphic Asian Americans that experienced the 1950s-1970s USA.
Removed details of my issues since I can't get the spoiler button to work and they're very minor issues so can't explain without spoiling lol rip.
Graphic: Homophobia, Xenophobia, Racism, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Sexual harassment and War
Minor: Miscarriage
megelizabeth's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
4.5
Graphic: War, Child abuse, and Homophobia
Moderate: Racism and Alcohol
Minor: Sexual harassment, Miscarriage, Death, Injury/Injury detail, and Death of parent
sprucewillow's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Ending was a bit lackluster but I can forgive that.
This is how I like historical fiction.
Graphic: Sexual harassment, Homophobia, Racial slurs, Sexual content, and War
Moderate: Misogyny and Toxic friendship
morenowagain's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Graphic: Outing, Homophobia, Xenophobia, Lesbophobia, Racism, Racial slurs, and Police brutality
Minor: Deportation, Sexual harassment, Hate crime, War, and Toxic friendship
sovner736's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, and Xenophobia
Moderate: War, Racism, Racial slurs, Sexual content, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Police brutality, Sexual harassment, and Miscarriage
linnea1801's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
Graphic: Misogyny, Homophobia, Racism, Toxic friendship, Lesbophobia, Outing, and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Miscarriage, Deportation, Racial slurs, and Sexual harassment
Minor: War and Forced institutionalization
emilynied's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.5
I feel kind of honored to have read the story of Lily and the forgotten story of many queer Chinese Americans during the 1900's, as Lo wrote in the Author's Note and Acknowledgments. Lily feels like a character that any queer person can relate to. She describes the quiet moments in her childhood were she felt weird or ashamed, and the moments of young adulthood where she came to the realization and fear of being different. I could see myself in her and I could see moments of my "coming of age" in her as well. That was perhaps the best part of the book - even though I'm a white American living on the East Coast in the 2000's, I can still see myself in Lily. She is such a thoughtful yet brave character and she took small and huge leaps that I as the reader cheered her on for throughout the entire story.
The end of the story felt like I was being ripped from San Francisco along with Lily. She finally accepts herself enough just for it all to go away - in a very realistic sense to, as stories like this were common for the time period - queer pride and joy being mistaken for "grooming" and "vulgarity." I honestly thought that Lily and Shirley would reconcile after their first fight but it turns out I was deceived just as Lily was...to have a friend betray you like that is devastating. The familial interactions went from comforting and homely to timid and uneasy.
I feel like the end felt inadequate after the whole story was told, but unfortunately, it's realistic. Lily couldn't have stayed without endangering herself and her family and that's the truth of being queer and Chinese in 1950s America. I'm glad Lo didn't compromise the integrity and truthfulness of the time for a "happy" ending. Overall, this was an amazing story and I'm so glad I read it.
Graphic: Racism and Homophobia
Moderate: Sexual harassment
smithreads's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Graphic: Outing, Racism, Alcohol, Sexual content, Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Sexual harassment, and Toxic friendship
Moderate: Physical abuse, Racial slurs, and Deportation
Minor: Drug use, Adult/minor relationship, Hate crime, War, Violence, Forced institutionalization, and Gaslighting
rinku's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Spoiler
everything happening is just terrible and my heart ached so much for Lily; it’s so sad how homophobic everyone is and that not even her aunt accepts herSpoiler
quite open and still sad in my opinion because Lily and Kath still have to hide their relationship. Considering the time period, I expected no happy ending from the beginning but still, it’s so sadGraphic: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Misogyny, Outing, Racism, Sexism, Sexual content, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
Moderate: Deportation, Sexual harassment, Child abuse, Miscarriage, and Police brutality
Minor: Adult/minor relationship, Colonisation, Confinement, Forced institutionalization, and Transphobia