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Call Me by Your Name - Ruf mich bei deinem Namen by André Aciman
17 reviews
gabi_sud's review against another edition
dark
emotional
sad
tense
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Absolutely loved the movie and wanted to love the book just as much but unfortunately I did not.
I thought it was very beautifully written, the raw and real emotions Elio felt, I could very much relate to things he was going through. However, even putting the age gap aside, the relationship between Elio and Oliver was very predatory from both sides?? The amount of times Elio had thoughts about SA’ing Oliver? And many time he acted on those thoughts, touching him without consent. The time he thought about disabling him so he could be his master?? And obviously Oliver is no better even through we don’t know his thoughts but the peach scene alone was a good indicator of how sick in the head he is as well.
I wonder how people that view this as a beautiful love story would feel if one of them was a woman?
Also what the fuck was that bathroom scene. I get loving someone that much you want to be one with them, but looking at each others fecal matter is surely not the way to do it?
I truly don’t get Elio’s fascination with Oliver who might as well been a cardboard cutout cause he has just as much personality. Elio truly only desired Oliver because he was hot cause let’s be honest here, he didn’t even know him.
I’m not gonna say I didn’t enjoy the book at all, cause I’d be lying. There were parts I absolutely loved, could totally relate to Elio and his yearning for someone he can’t have but all the good parts were overshadowed by the weird and creepy stuff. Like there was truly no need for it.
And the foot fetish was driving me absolutely insane. Like not all of us are Quentin Tarantino.
The ending, however, absolutely crushed me , it was heart wrenching and really did things for me. Not sure how I feel about there being another book though. I feel like it defeats the whole point of this one.
I thought it was very beautifully written, the raw and real emotions Elio felt, I could very much relate to things he was going through. However, even putting the age gap aside, the relationship between Elio and Oliver was very predatory from both sides?? The amount of times Elio had thoughts about SA’ing Oliver? And many time he acted on those thoughts, touching him without consent. The time he thought about disabling him so he could be his master?? And obviously Oliver is no better even through we don’t know his thoughts but the peach scene alone was a good indicator of how sick in the head he is as well.
I wonder how people that view this as a beautiful love story would feel if one of them was a woman?
Also what the fuck was that bathroom scene. I get loving someone that much you want to be one with them, but looking at each others fecal matter is surely not the way to do it?
I truly don’t get Elio’s fascination with Oliver who might as well been a cardboard cutout cause he has just as much personality. Elio truly only desired Oliver because he was hot cause let’s be honest here, he didn’t even know him.
I’m not gonna say I didn’t enjoy the book at all, cause I’d be lying. There were parts I absolutely loved, could totally relate to Elio and his yearning for someone he can’t have but all the good parts were overshadowed by the weird and creepy stuff. Like there was truly no need for it.
And the foot fetish was driving me absolutely insane. Like not all of us are Quentin Tarantino.
The ending, however, absolutely crushed me , it was heart wrenching and really did things for me. Not sure how I feel about there being another book though. I feel like it defeats the whole point of this one.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Stalking and Sexual harassment
Minor: Ableism, Child death, Racism, Terminal illness, and Vomit
sycamore22's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism
Minor: Ableism and Sexual assault
- An author at a book party says some very fetishizing things about people in Thailand, how everyone looks alike, and how he wanted to have sex with everyone. That was gross. - Elio has a thought about Oliver in a wheelchair, and how Elio would feel superior to Oliver if that were true. That was also gross. - a peach is compared to a rape victim. Did not like that image, as a survivor myself. It was a one-sentence comparison and the subject was never touched on again in the book.eloisajfletcher's review against another edition
emotional
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.25
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism, Vomit, and Antisemitism
Minor: Death of parent
jelliestars's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Sexual content
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Cancer, Racism, Toxic relationship, Xenophobia, Grief, Alcohol, and Classism
Minor: Ableism, Body shaming, Cursing, Drug use, Rape, Sexism, Terminal illness, Xenophobia, Excrement, Vomit, Antisemitism, Stalking, and Death of parent
sohma4uesugi's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
Prose like Proust. You can feel the longing on every page. Part three has some very strange moments that are either over my head or I just do not understand. It’s also the most troublesome, with racist and troublesome notes coming through from outside characters. Part four made my heart ache, but I’m an eternal softy who loves HEA.
Content Warnings
Minor: Cancer, Racism, Sexual content, and Death of parent
____w____'s review against another edition
emotional
reflective
relaxing
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
one of the most beautiful things i have read. sometimes you feel differently about your world after finishing a book and stepping back into it. this one, i know, will make my life richer in how i approach desire and getting older, going through time. but also, content warnings for: power imbalance in a relationship (age -- the boy is 17 years old!), racism, transphobia. and, obviously sexual content.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Transphobia
Moderate: Racism
Minor: Rape
gabbygarcia's review against another edition
challenging
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
I don't even know how to describe this book. The prose is absolutely stunning, incandescent... though, contrary to the back page's bold declaration, I would not call this a love story lmao
I would advise readers to research this book thoroughly and read the content warnings beforehand as many descriptions are quite graphic and uncomfortable to read.
I would advise readers to research this book thoroughly and read the content warnings beforehand as many descriptions are quite graphic and uncomfortable to read.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Sexual content, and Alcohol
Moderate: Ableism, Homophobia, Racism, Blood, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Cancer, Child death, Fatphobia, Transphobia, Excrement, Antisemitism, and Death of parent
racist remarks about thai and mexican peoplezhuilings's review against another edition
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? N/A
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? N/A
0.75
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship
Moderate: Homophobia and Racism
youreawizardjerry's review against another edition
sad
tense
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
Content Warnings
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship
Minor: Homophobia, Racism, Transphobia, Vomit, and Religious bigotry
anjae's review against another edition
emotional
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
This book made me feel things, so I can’t rate it that low. But, there were so many things wrong with this book that I can’t rate it highly.
I found Elio’s obsession with and possessiveness over Oliver fascinating and thought-provoking, but it’s obvious that Aciman did not intend for it to be so. Elio and Oliver’s relationship is not a social commentary, and its problems are never discussed or seen as bad. If there had been a reflection on the age-difference, or the power plays, or the nature of Elio’s awe and worship of Oliver, then I could have rated it higher. But because the unhealthy relationship is seen as healthy, I can’t morally rate it higher.
There were also a few moments where I was genuinely disgusted and uncomfortable, namely the few paragraphs after the “peach scene” (the scene itself didn’t bother me, more so the description of the peach that followed), and the racism and fetishization of trans people by the poet towards the end.
I was also bothered by the continued mention of Elio and Oliver’s Judaism, especially because Aciman is not himself Jewish, and the mentions are always in relation to Elio’s attraction to it, making it seem like yet another fetish of Aciman.
Finally, the fact that the age and power difference between Elio and Oliver is never mentioned makes me uncomfortable. Perhaps that is intentional, by way of showing the allure of summer in Italy, but I think it is bad regardless.
The ending kept this book from being a 2 star read, though. I think it was a beautiful representation of what it means to break up; how someone can be your everything but then no longer shares your life. But unfortunately the bad in the rest of the book outweighs the good at the end.
I found Elio’s obsession with and possessiveness over Oliver fascinating and thought-provoking, but it’s obvious that Aciman did not intend for it to be so. Elio and Oliver’s relationship is not a social commentary, and its problems are never discussed or seen as bad. If there had been a reflection on the age-difference, or the power plays, or the nature of Elio’s awe and worship of Oliver, then I could have rated it higher. But because the unhealthy relationship is seen as healthy, I can’t morally rate it higher.
There were also a few moments where I was genuinely disgusted and uncomfortable, namely the few paragraphs after the “peach scene” (the scene itself didn’t bother me, more so the description of the peach that followed), and the racism and fetishization of trans people by the poet towards the end.
I was also bothered by the continued mention of Elio and Oliver’s Judaism, especially because Aciman is not himself Jewish, and the mentions are always in relation to Elio’s attraction to it, making it seem like yet another fetish of Aciman.
Finally, the fact that the age and power difference between Elio and Oliver is never mentioned makes me uncomfortable. Perhaps that is intentional, by way of showing the allure of summer in Italy, but I think it is bad regardless.
The ending kept this book from being a 2 star read, though. I think it was a beautiful representation of what it means to break up; how someone can be your everything but then no longer shares your life. But unfortunately the bad in the rest of the book outweighs the good at the end.
Content Warnings
Minor: Racism, Rape, and Transphobia