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The Woo-Woo: How I Survived Ice Hockey, Drug Raids, Demons, and My Crazy Chinese Family by Lindsay Wong
5 reviews
iftheshoef1tz's review
challenging
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
tense
medium-paced
4.0
While I don’t think I would have liked Lindsay as a person growing up, I feel such deep empathy for her past self, and clearly she really pities her younger, deeply emotionally stunted childhood self. The complicated love she feels for her mother, despite her mother’s frequent inability to be maternal, was so poignant, and I think that is true for many people and their emotionally abusive parents. The way mental illness was described in this book was upsetting and definitely didn’t pull any punches. I felt particularly terrible for Poh-Poh: off her anti-psychotics, she was hallucinating and unable to function, but from the description of her on medication doesn’t feel much more hopeful. I hope Lindsay is doing and feeling better - her comments throughout the book make it pretty obvious she’s had some therapy and is learning to recover/work around all that trauma.
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Suicide attempt, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
zee's review
challenging
dark
medium-paced
3.5
Dark, and bitingly witty, Wong regales us with her horrifically abusive experience growing up in a disturbingly undiagnosed mentally unwell family. It is a truly chaotic experience that almost feels like fiction except that it's too caustic and surreal to be made up. The good news is, Wong survives and manages to gain a solid understanding of how wild and unhealthy her experiences were. However as a book it's very heavy, flippant, and tough to read with the cruel humour.
Graphic: Body shaming and Emotional abuse
Moderate: Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Suicide attempt, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
siobhanward's review
emotional
slow-paced
3.0
I struggle to rate memoirs low, because after all this is someone's account of their life, but this was just not a great read. It felt very much like Wong should have been describing the contents of this book to a therapist, rather than to an audience. Despite how clearly she remembers everything in the book, she seems very disconnected from all of it, which makes it feel like a total outsider telling the story, rather than someone in the middle of everything.
This made for a book that felt like a work of fiction, rather than a memoir. I'm not questioning the validity of the story at all, but Wong's disconnect from these events made it seem as though she has not fully processed things and really should be getting the help she needs (and deserves), rather than turning her story into a memoir. I'm just not sure what I'm supposed to learn from this, other than that untreated mental illness is traumatizing for the people around you and absolutely changes the outcome of your life, none of which is a revelation.
This made for a book that felt like a work of fiction, rather than a memoir. I'm not questioning the validity of the story at all, but Wong's disconnect from these events made it seem as though she has not fully processed things and really should be getting the help she needs (and deserves), rather than turning her story into a memoir. I'm just not sure what I'm supposed to learn from this, other than that untreated mental illness is traumatizing for the people around you and absolutely changes the outcome of your life, none of which is a revelation.
Graphic: Bullying, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide attempt
Moderate: Chronic illness
kingsamong's review against another edition
challenging
dark
sad
tense
medium-paced
2.25
Graphic: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Self harm, Suicide, Suicide attempt, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis
marilou's review against another edition
dark
tense
slow-paced
Graphic: Body shaming, Chronic illness, Emotional abuse, Fatphobia, Mental illness, and Suicide attempt
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