Reviews tagging 'Rape'

The Impatient by Djaïli Amadou Amal

26 reviews

fio_the_reader's review against another edition

emotional informative reflective fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Miscarriage and Rape

stardust_ashes's review against another edition

dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

A travers l'histoire de trois filles et jeunes femmes, nous découvrons les mariages arrangés et polygames dans la culture peule. Elles doivent faire face à de la violence physique et morale. Ce livre permet de faire découvrir la place de la femme, et la réponse qui leur est donnée à toutes leurs questions: "Munyal" - "Patience". 

C'est donc une histoire bouleversante sur les droits des femmes qui aborde de nombreux sujets difficiles. Lecture compliquée mais nécessaire. Très lourd de sens et de force.

J'ai cependant trouvé un bémol au récit. La narration est très passive: beaucoup de choses sont racontées mais pas montrées et du coup cela enlève un côté immersif. Ce livre est un moyen pour les femmes de reprendre le contrôle de leur histoire mais je trouve que cet aspect passif enlève un peu de force à l'histoire.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, and Sexual violence

bobinsbooknook's review against another edition

dark emotional sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A harrowing book and glad to have listened to it –the writing style alone captured such depth of emotion and heartache in such a short book – incredibly written.

Each of the women’s stories felt unique and broke my heart to hear about their struggles with patience – which in this context just means to be submissive to their partners abuse and emotional torment as Muslims in Cameroon – and how they intwined with one another.

The story of Hindou being beaten and abused into a state on numbness and questioned sanity was for me the most devastating.

An incredibly powerful read about, unlike anything I have read before and will be keeping an eye out for a physical copy as I can see myself reading again!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse and Misogyny

Moderate: Mental illness, Miscarriage, and Rape

hex_agon's review against another edition

dark emotional informative reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse and Rape

Moderate: Miscarriage

Minor: Suicidal thoughts

joelle_lecturechocolathe's review against another edition

dark emotional informative sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, Religious bigotry, and Gaslighting

Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Panic attacks/disorders, and Blood

Minor: Drug abuse, Hate crime, Suicidal thoughts, and Alcohol

emzireads's review against another edition

emotional tense medium-paced

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Rape and Violence

cpsawcd's review against another edition

challenging dark emotional informative sad fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Miscarriage, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, and Schizophrenia/Psychosis

themeanfrench's review against another edition

dark emotional informative sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Religious bigotry, and Gaslighting

Moderate: Alcoholism, Drug use, Infidelity, Mental illness, Miscarriage, Pedophilia, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Pregnancy, and Alcohol

careinthelibrary's review against another edition

challenging emotional sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Bullying, Confinement, Drug abuse, Incest, Infidelity, Miscarriage, Religious bigotry, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Alcohol

colourism

serendipitysbooks's review against another edition

dark emotional reflective medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

 The Impatient is a novel from Cameroon which explores the issues of polygamy and forced marriage through the experiences of three different women. The realities of not being permitted a choice in who you marry, in having your husband take another wife and being expected to welcome and train her, of arriving in a strange home and being subservient to and subject to the whims of a first wife who resents your presence, of having no rights or fallbacks if your husband becomes violent - all these and more are canvassed in this short but impactful story. The women resisted, fought back, and tried to gain agency, not always in admirable ways. But in a situation where they have no rights and no protections it is easy to see why they may have made the choices they did. A powerful read. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Rape, and Sexual violence