philippafrederique's review against another edition
4.0
Review originally posted at http://eatreadexplore.wordpress.com
What initially struck me most about this book is not the controversial topic it deals with, but rather that it's very cleverly written. Almost right from the start you know what's going to happen in the story, yet it doesn't make the reading experience any less interesting. The book is about an honour killing; you know who did it, and you know who the victim is, but the author still manages to create a nice build up of tension and anticipation and we explore the background stories of the characters and their respective family histories.
The story focuses on a Turkish/Kurdish immigrant family living in London in the 1970s. The father, Adem Toprak, comes from a simple family in Istanbul and is still traumatised by his childhood because he had an abusive father, and a mother who committed suicide. His wife Pembe originally comes from a remote Kurdish village on the edge of the Euphrates, and she and her identical twin sister Jamila are the youngest in a family of eight children, all girls. Adem initially wanted to marry Jamila, but because she was already promised to someone else he eventually settled for her sister.
The Toprak family move to Hackney, and each of them have their own problems to deal with. Adem struggles with a gambling addiction and eventually leaves home. He remains absent for most of the story. Pembe is a shy woman, easily intimidated by the big scary place that is London, and she tries to hide away from it as much as she possibly can. Her eldest son Iskender, her pride and joy, is an arrogant and intimidating bully in a way that is so typical for a teenage boy. After his father leaves home he decides that this makes him head of the family, and he acts accordingly, telling his mother and sister what they can and can't do. Middle child Esma is very bright, a good student, but very insecure about her identity and what she should be like and how she should behave. Due to her brother's behaviour and her mother turning a blind eye, she is constantly reminded of how unfair life is and how much easier it would be if she'd been a boy. The youngest child, Yunus, is the only one born in London and he doesn't seem to struggle with some kind of identity crisis, at least not in the same way as his older siblings. Because of all the family problems he more or less flies under the radar for quite some time, and he prefers to spend his time hanging around with squatters in a nearby house.
The story switches narrative with each chapter, exploring both parents' pasts in Istanbul and the Kurdish village respectively, as well as family life in the 1970s and the children's lives in the 1990s, and the story is told from shifting viewpoints. Even though having multiple narrators can be confusing, I think it was really well done in this book and in my view it really helped to ensure that the whole family saga was told and nothing was left out. Most of the chapters that are set at a later date are told from Esma's point of view, so I suppose you could consider her the overarching narrator (is there even such a thing?), which helps to keep the story clear and coherent.
'My mother died twice. I promised myself I would not let her story be forgotten'.
It is quite clever how Shafak manages to capture the reader's attention for well over 300 pages, considering that we know from the start that Iskender has killed his mother in a so called “honour killing”. You wonder how a story can remain interesting when the whole question of “who did it?” has been taken out of the equation. The fact is that you don't know when or exactly how it's going to happen, so that helps to build up the tension quite nicely because you know that it can happen at any moment during the story. And also, as a reader, you don't know the exact motivation for the murder, which is something you find out as the story progresses.
There is a massive plot twist at the end which had me gasping in shock, but of course I won't tell you what it is because that would spoil the surprise. All I can say is that it's very clever, and once again I have to applaud Ms. Shafak for her inventiveness.
This story explores so many different aspects of life, so in my view it should appeal to a lot of readers. It deals with clashing cultures and struggling immigrants learning to cope with their new life, the generation gap between parents and their children, love, faith, family, and the struggles of life in general.
Elif Shafak is one of those authors whose books I buy without checking what the books is about first, because I just know they're going to be good. And once again she did not disappoint.
Would I recommend this book to others? Definitely!
What initially struck me most about this book is not the controversial topic it deals with, but rather that it's very cleverly written. Almost right from the start you know what's going to happen in the story, yet it doesn't make the reading experience any less interesting. The book is about an honour killing; you know who did it, and you know who the victim is, but the author still manages to create a nice build up of tension and anticipation and we explore the background stories of the characters and their respective family histories.
The story focuses on a Turkish/Kurdish immigrant family living in London in the 1970s. The father, Adem Toprak, comes from a simple family in Istanbul and is still traumatised by his childhood because he had an abusive father, and a mother who committed suicide. His wife Pembe originally comes from a remote Kurdish village on the edge of the Euphrates, and she and her identical twin sister Jamila are the youngest in a family of eight children, all girls. Adem initially wanted to marry Jamila, but because she was already promised to someone else he eventually settled for her sister.
The Toprak family move to Hackney, and each of them have their own problems to deal with. Adem struggles with a gambling addiction and eventually leaves home. He remains absent for most of the story. Pembe is a shy woman, easily intimidated by the big scary place that is London, and she tries to hide away from it as much as she possibly can. Her eldest son Iskender, her pride and joy, is an arrogant and intimidating bully in a way that is so typical for a teenage boy. After his father leaves home he decides that this makes him head of the family, and he acts accordingly, telling his mother and sister what they can and can't do. Middle child Esma is very bright, a good student, but very insecure about her identity and what she should be like and how she should behave. Due to her brother's behaviour and her mother turning a blind eye, she is constantly reminded of how unfair life is and how much easier it would be if she'd been a boy. The youngest child, Yunus, is the only one born in London and he doesn't seem to struggle with some kind of identity crisis, at least not in the same way as his older siblings. Because of all the family problems he more or less flies under the radar for quite some time, and he prefers to spend his time hanging around with squatters in a nearby house.
The story switches narrative with each chapter, exploring both parents' pasts in Istanbul and the Kurdish village respectively, as well as family life in the 1970s and the children's lives in the 1990s, and the story is told from shifting viewpoints. Even though having multiple narrators can be confusing, I think it was really well done in this book and in my view it really helped to ensure that the whole family saga was told and nothing was left out. Most of the chapters that are set at a later date are told from Esma's point of view, so I suppose you could consider her the overarching narrator (is there even such a thing?), which helps to keep the story clear and coherent.
'My mother died twice. I promised myself I would not let her story be forgotten'.
It is quite clever how Shafak manages to capture the reader's attention for well over 300 pages, considering that we know from the start that Iskender has killed his mother in a so called “honour killing”. You wonder how a story can remain interesting when the whole question of “who did it?” has been taken out of the equation. The fact is that you don't know when or exactly how it's going to happen, so that helps to build up the tension quite nicely because you know that it can happen at any moment during the story. And also, as a reader, you don't know the exact motivation for the murder, which is something you find out as the story progresses.
There is a massive plot twist at the end which had me gasping in shock, but of course I won't tell you what it is because that would spoil the surprise. All I can say is that it's very clever, and once again I have to applaud Ms. Shafak for her inventiveness.
This story explores so many different aspects of life, so in my view it should appeal to a lot of readers. It deals with clashing cultures and struggling immigrants learning to cope with their new life, the generation gap between parents and their children, love, faith, family, and the struggles of life in general.
Elif Shafak is one of those authors whose books I buy without checking what the books is about first, because I just know they're going to be good. And once again she did not disappoint.
Would I recommend this book to others? Definitely!
moj8668's review against another edition
5.0
A powerful story about the influence of family and culture, the struggles of immigrants, and how humans respond when those we love break our hearts. Elif Shafak creates vivid images of places and people that allow the reader to feel as though she is experiencing the story, not just reading about it.
The story is told through the first-person perspective of one sibling, the journal entries of another sibling, and a third-person narrator. The careful combination of these perspectives creates a beautifully woven story that cannot help but touch your heart.
The story is told through the first-person perspective of one sibling, the journal entries of another sibling, and a third-person narrator. The careful combination of these perspectives creates a beautifully woven story that cannot help but touch your heart.
kylafulton's review against another edition
emotional
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
3.0
rowwansaiid's review against another edition
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
nicoleisalwaysreading's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
emotional
mysterious
reflective
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
so good!!!!!!!!! beautiful writing and an immersive plot
Content Warnings
Graphic: Suicide, Death of parent, Misogyny, Sexism, Violence, Alcoholism, Blood, Islamophobia, Grief, Racial slurs, and Xenophobia
Spoiler
THE TWISTS?????valje's review against another edition
dark
emotional
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This book wasn't a 5* because I found the beginning of it quite slow - so much so, that I almost gave up. However, I'm glad I kept going. At first, I found it difficult to differentiate between the different characters and places. However, when the story moved to London, it really picked up pace, but that's mainly due to my own ignorance. Nobody writes quite like Elif Shafak. I have loved everything she has written and will continue to work my way through her backlist. This is a family story about respect and attempting to do what is considered morally right within a cultural context and in some instances, failing and the various repurcussions. It's very thought-provoking and I loved it!
sealyon's review against another edition
4.0
I will continue to read anything that Elif Shafak writes. Her novels have such depth and grace to them. You are engaged and heartbroken at the same time. Unable to put the book down. This story is a tale of family, culture, and pride. How we are told/think we need to act vs. what we truly want. It is a heartwrenching tale of generational and cultural trauma. One that is not for the faint of heart, but one that will stay with you for weeks and months after you finish the book.
littlespacetraveler's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25