royvdb's review against another edition
2.0
288 pages, full of fluff and repetition. Peace in your heart and see the other party as a person. So don' be a dick and don't assume other people are dicks. This could've been an insightfull blog post, but it's a contrived book.
megan_wynne's review against another edition
4.0
I read this book for a class I’m taking. I really liked that it was written like a story so instead of just listing concepts, it was easier to understand since the concepts were played out amongst the characters.
This book asks the reader to look inward and dig deep about how we see ourselves and others. Do we see others as objects or as people? Are our hearts at war or at peace with others, especially those closest to us? I hope I will be able to remember what I learned from this book and apply it throughout my life.
This book asks the reader to look inward and dig deep about how we see ourselves and others. Do we see others as objects or as people? Are our hearts at war or at peace with others, especially those closest to us? I hope I will be able to remember what I learned from this book and apply it throughout my life.
jamieterv's review against another edition
4.5
I genuinely don’t know how to rate this one yet. I’m going to need a second or third read through to fully grasp and evolve from many of the concepts.
It’s definitely an exceptional book that explores the depths of human conflict and presents a path towards lasting peace. Combining storytelling and wisdom to offer practical tools and inspiring examples, it has the potential to revolutionize how we approach conflicts, both personally and within society as a whole.
The central message revolves around the concept of the "heart" and its influence on our interactions. It challenges personal biases, prejudices, and deeply held assumptions, encouraging a heart-oriented approach to conflict resolution. The book emphasizes the importance of seeing others as human beings, rather than as objects or obstacles, which is a crucial element in fostering understanding and empathy.
Moreover, the book sheds light on the damaging effects of the "box" mentality, where individuals perceive others as adversaries or threats. It elucidates how this mindset perpetuates conflicts and prevents genuine dialogue and connection. Using real-life scenarios and providing practical tools, the authors empower readers to transcend this limiting perspective and embrace the transformative power of a "heart at peace."
While "The Anatomy of Peace" presents powerful insights, it does require readers to engage in introspection and self-reflection. The concepts presented challenge deeply ingrained beliefs and demand openness to change. However, the rewards are substantial, as the book offers a roadmap for personal growth and a more peaceful existence.
I just can’t tell you how much from my current perspective. It could just be a little but I think it’s a lot. However, I do know that this is only a map and other tools are necessary to get to where it can take you. So, in lieu of my deeper understanding of the value of this book I’ll just say it’s a “should” read rather than a “must” read.
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It’s definitely an exceptional book that explores the depths of human conflict and presents a path towards lasting peace. Combining storytelling and wisdom to offer practical tools and inspiring examples, it has the potential to revolutionize how we approach conflicts, both personally and within society as a whole.
The central message revolves around the concept of the "heart" and its influence on our interactions. It challenges personal biases, prejudices, and deeply held assumptions, encouraging a heart-oriented approach to conflict resolution. The book emphasizes the importance of seeing others as human beings, rather than as objects or obstacles, which is a crucial element in fostering understanding and empathy.
Moreover, the book sheds light on the damaging effects of the "box" mentality, where individuals perceive others as adversaries or threats. It elucidates how this mindset perpetuates conflicts and prevents genuine dialogue and connection. Using real-life scenarios and providing practical tools, the authors empower readers to transcend this limiting perspective and embrace the transformative power of a "heart at peace."
While "The Anatomy of Peace" presents powerful insights, it does require readers to engage in introspection and self-reflection. The concepts presented challenge deeply ingrained beliefs and demand openness to change. However, the rewards are substantial, as the book offers a roadmap for personal growth and a more peaceful existence.
I just can’t tell you how much from my current perspective. It could just be a little but I think it’s a lot. However, I do know that this is only a map and other tools are necessary to get to where it can take you. So, in lieu of my deeper understanding of the value of this book I’ll just say it’s a “should” read rather than a “must” read.
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gadfly82's review against another edition
4.0
I read this as an ebook from the library. Very thought provoking and insightful! I am ordering a hard copy for myself to read again and to refer back to. Highly recommend.
inkdrinkermal's review against another edition
informative
inspiring
slow-paced
2.25
This teaching style doesn't really work for me. The premise felt very contrived to me, and the characters were alarmingly stereotypical based on race, culture, gender, career, and social class.
carolena_lebaron's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
3.75
bethgiven's review against another edition
3.0
Just like the parable of the prodigal son, a good general conference talk, or Alma 5, this book made me step back and recognize my own shortcomings, my own pride. And like this book’s predecessor (Leadership and Self-Deception), I really enjoyed this book’s principles, even if the structure and delivery was pretty cheesy.
Some tips to strengthen relationships (any relationship, though particularly parent/child), reframed in my own vocabulary:
- we have to set aside our own pride before anything else
- building relationships comes before correction
- teaching principles comes before correction, but you can’t teach unless you’ve invested in the relationship first
- remember to look at others as people, not just objects or, worse, obstacles
-charity never faileth - often times it invites change and at the very least it offers peace
Clean readers: this is a business book, so yeah, it’s clean, though there are a couple of hecks and darns.
Some tips to strengthen relationships (any relationship, though particularly parent/child), reframed in my own vocabulary:
- we have to set aside our own pride before anything else
- building relationships comes before correction
- teaching principles comes before correction, but you can’t teach unless you’ve invested in the relationship first
- remember to look at others as people, not just objects or, worse, obstacles
-charity never faileth - often times it invites change and at the very least it offers peace
Clean readers: this is a business book, so yeah, it’s clean, though there are a couple of hecks and darns.
jsburt's review against another edition
5.0
I gave this book a high rating more for the content than how much I liked reading it (although it was a good story and not too hard to read). I loved the concepts in this book and have already been able to put them to use in my life - at home and at work!