phoebebakerr's review against another edition

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3.5


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adenwatt's review against another edition

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5.0

my older cousin, who’s been sober for almost four years, lent me this book in early 2023 because she could see that i was tired of my alcoholism but unable to get sober. this book was the start of my sobriety journey.

it took 3.5 or so months to finish this book. i found it so well written and i absolutely loved it, but i was not quite ready to confront or reflect on my drinking in the way this book made me feel. i was not ready to admit that things had gotten out of control. i was not ready to admit that i was an alcoholic or that i was someone who needed to get sober. who couldn’t casually indulge the way everyone else could.

i finished this book in june of ‘23. i gave it back to my cousin. in september my lifelong childhood friend passed away, as a result of his own alcoholism. it scared me enough that i bought my own copy of this book and it’s what helped me get sober.

as the first quitlit book i’ve ever read, this book will always have a special place in my heart. i have reread it several times of the past year - every time my sobriety started to feel shaky again. i recommend it to all of my sober curious friends and i’m so thankful to my cousin for recommending it to me.

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maryehavens's review against another edition

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informative reflective medium-paced

3.5

Probably closer to 3.5 stars. 
I'm not in recovery (I have a hyper interest in alcohol addiction memoirs) so it would be interesting to hear from those that are in recovery and used this book to further that process. 

My big takeaways:
1) If you can't enjoy life or an event sober, you need to reevaluate your life.
2) If you are stuck in life, try volunteering or joining a group. 
3) Whitaker, while focused on her alcoholism for the book, had a host of other issues. I doubt any addiction is created in a vacuum so take the time to figure out the why of your problem. 

Of course, I'm speaking from a place of great privilege and this does not work for everyone. Whitaker got a little....not preachy but just listing all the things that worked for her (while acknowledging that they don't work for everyone) and that was a little monotonous. I could have done without the sexual stuff but it wasn't a book killer. 
If you need some reminders of getting out of your life rut, or you have a penchant for alcohol memoirs, I recommend this book. I can't speak to how it helps/does not help one in recovery. 

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sejpotsmom's review against another edition

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lucyisabella's review against another edition

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4.0

Insightful and empowering especially for those who feel like the “traditional route” doesn’t work for them. 

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schorlett's review against another edition

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4.0


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griernotgruyere's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

4.75


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desheebasara's review against another edition

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4.0

It was less about feminism and activism than I thought, but nonetheless took a lot from this book with me. 

It opened new ways of thinking about healing and finding one’s journey, written in a witty and honest tone.

The minutes long orgasm thing was a weird flex though haha 

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madalynn_owens's review against another edition

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I think this is a good book to pick up and slowly read, trying to read it all at once felt repetitive and difficult. I thought the book could have benefited from some serious paring down.

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arayo's review against another edition

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1.75


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