Reviews tagging 'Toxic relationship'

Arthur & Teddy Are Coming Out by Ryan Love

6 reviews

aoifeprettypurplepolkadots's review against another edition

emotional funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death, Homophobia, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Outing, and Toxic friendship

writeordietrying's review against another edition

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Homophobia, Suicide, and Toxic relationship

Minor: Suicide

hayleyvem's review against another edition

emotional lighthearted reflective fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Death, Homophobia, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Grief, Lesbophobia, and Outing

Moderate: Cancer, Chronic illness, Medical content, and Death of parent

Minor: Alcohol

traceyanderson's review against another edition

challenging relaxing medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

3.75

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Cancer, Death, Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Medical content, Grief, Outing, and Toxic friendship

laurataylor's review against another edition

emotional funny medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? No

3.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Emotional abuse, Hate crime, Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Death of parent, and Alcohol

just22jess22's review against another edition

dark emotional fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? No
• Loveable characters? No
• Diverse cast of characters? No
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.0

CW: Suicide, threat of murder, homophobia, gaslighting, emotional abuse, toxic relationship, death of a parent, physical abuse, cancer, addiction, grief, abandonment of a child, abandonment of an elder. 

Are you surprised? Because honestly, I was! 

To me, “Arthur and Teddy are Coming Out” is marketed as this lighthearted, heartwarming little book about a grandpa and a grandson both coming out to their family members as being gay. I honestly don’t think this book was either heartwarming nor lighthearted in the way that the author aimed for. 

[And here is where it gets a bit spoilery – prob don’t read on if you plan to read this book….] 

A few of my biggest gripes: This beautifully composed man comes out to his family as being gay at age 79, with full acceptance and support of his ex wife. His daughter FLIPS out and refuses to talk to him for over half of the book, forcing her children (including Teddy) from talking to him also. She then kicks her son out of the house when he declares he is also gay. When she (surprise!) has a complete change of heart in the third act.. Literally no one calls her out for being a shitty human, nor does she seem to have any character growth from the whole experience. 

Teddy was my least fav character – he spends the entire book whinging about the silver spoon he has been given, yet literally every time he faces any sniff of hardship, he runs to others to fix his shit. I honestly don’t have enough words to describe how deeply problematic his romantic arc was, so I will just say that the three boys were all as horribly gaslighty as each other and they all deserve each other. 

Last thing – why is Arthur suddenly super famous and on the cover of multiple magazines/newspapers for coming out as gay? Does that seriously warrant a front page…?! The mind boggles. 

Parts of this book I liked? It was quick and easy to read, I enjoyed that it portrayed the older generation as people who still aimed to live life to the fullest and I love the message that it is never too late to chase your desires. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Emotional abuse, Homophobia, Toxic relationship, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Abandonment

Moderate: Cancer, Physical abuse, and Suicide

Minor: Drug abuse and Terminal illness