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Ein Mann namens Ove by Fredrik Backman

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bridgetkay's review against another edition

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Did not finish. Could not finish. I got more enjoyment reading the 1-star reviews for this book. 

The character is problematic as all hell and I really have no interest in a story centred on a white man who’s surrounded by people who aren’t white men as supporting characters to some kind of redemption arc. Any time I attempted to read this, it put me in a bad mood. So for self care purposes, I will not be finishing this. 

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cloud_animals's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.75


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bellsbooks's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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bitterseason's review against another edition

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emotional funny sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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nebraskanwriter's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted sad slow-paced
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  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5


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karenmariscalo's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Lovely book

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sauvageloup's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

Overall, very well-written and poignant, just hit a few personal sore points for me.

Pros:
- Ove definitely grows on the reader in a fully complete and lovable person. I was worried initially that I was going to completely dislike him in the first chapter, but though he stays totally grumpy, his generosity is enough to make him likable. His character is also helped explained by the flashbacks to his past, which were well handled and enjoyable.
- All the side characters were probably my favourite, with Parvanah, Jimmy, Rune, Anita, etc. They were all really well developed and played perfectly into Ove's narrative. Their emotions and actions made up for his suppressed emotions and passivity.
- Despite Ove being a backwards grump, the book makes it clear that that's no reason for a decent person to be homophobic or racist, or ableist either, even if he doesn't have the words for it.
- It was also satisfying how the narrative looped back round. Partly with Ove accepting the use of the internet to get back at the council bloke, and also him buying an iPad for Parvanah's daughter.

Cons:
- I found the suicidal bits very uncomfortable. Which, like, duh. But I didn't feel like they had as much gravity as they should have. Ove's POV plays everything down, but I never felt like the book validated how awful his suicidal intent was. Parvanah makes a comment once about 'we all know how terrible Ove is at dying!', making it clear she did know he was trying to kill himself and yet she never addressed it. 
- I felt like there was some fatphobia against Jimmy. Just the descriptions of him felt off.
- The book's pace was also a little slow. Which isn't really a bad thing, it suits the story and how it was told and Ove's character, but it didn't make me rush to the finish.

Overall, a very well crafted book. But it would probably hit even better with someone who wasn't me.

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rely's review against another edition

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challenging emotional funny hopeful inspiring sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

I understand the love of this book. My feelings are really complicated. I hated the first 2/3s because I hated Ove and didn't think he deserved the redemptive arc. I guess by the end it had swayed me, but I didn't love him ever, I loved the people who helped him. 

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omarickman's review against another edition

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funny hopeful fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

This book was light, fluffy, funny, and an all around a good time while also dealing with heavy concepts. The main character, Ove, is your classic grumpy old man and is written in such a way that you can't help but laugh at how he interacts with the world around him. Going back and forth between present day and flashbacks of the past, the reader gets a sense of who Ove is and why he is the way he is. Overall, a great read full of the hilarity of everyday, mundane life. I would highly recommend this book!

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madisonfrank's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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