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Memorial Drive: A Daughter's Memoir by Natasha Trethewey

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challenging dark sad tense fast-paced

5.0

 I am scraped raw.

Memorial Drive is a memoir about Natasha's mother and how she was murdered by her stepfather. This book alternates from past and present POVs as Natasha recounts her first 18 years of life culminating in her mother's death. This book was emotional and hard to read. I wanted to go back in time to stop the pain that Natasha's family felt (minus the stepdad he deserves nothing).

This short book illustrates a complicated relationship between mother and daughter and several of the instances that put them on that path. But we always see how much her mother cared for her and her younger brother.

One of the most evocative parts of this memoir was that the Tretheway family had evidence that their stepfather was going to kill either the children or Natasha's mother. There are at least two if not more damning phone calls that were recorded yet the police did nothing. I don't know if it was misogyny or racism or misogynoir but I am just so devastated by this family's loss because it was so preventable had the police actually listened. Just another reason to defund and renovate the system.

Rep: Black/biracial author, Black mother, father in law with suicidal ideation and possible other mental illnesses.

CWs: Murder, Grief, death of parent, gaslighting, death, fatal shooting/gun violence, emotional and physical abuse, racism, child abuse, domestic abuse, alcohol consumption/alcoholism, toxic relationship. 

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challenging emotional slow-paced

5.0

Have you ever put a book down because you knew what was coming and you weren't ready for it?

Natasha Tretheway tells us from the start what happens in this attempt to "make sense of [her] history, to understand the tragic course upon which [her] mother's life was set and the way [her] own life has been shaped by that legacy." Her mother died at the hands of her stepfather. 

What she doesn't tell us is the journey she takes us on to get there: from exploring her childhood against the backdrop of the Civil Rights Movement, to traveling with her mother to a new city and a new family, to describing life with an abusive stepfather through the second-person narrative of an author still dissociating from the memory, to moving through the heartbreaking evidence of what was to come, until finally reaching the precipice of a story that you already know the ending of, yet somehow feel less prepared to face now than you did when you first started reading.

Tragic, honest, and written with loving grace, never once does this book apologize for the story it is telling. Tretheway never softens the manipulations of her stepfather nor does she offer mercy to the police force that so utterly failed her family.

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