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lfran13's review
- Loveable characters? No
4.0
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Child abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, and Abortion
amholt11's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Graphic: Animal death, Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Incest, Pedophilia, Rape, Self harm, Sexual violence, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Addiction, Domestic abuse, Blood, and Abortion
lifewithjoce's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Death, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Incest, Infertility, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Abortion, Murder, and Pregnancy
opalescenttreeshark's review
4.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Incest, Pedophilia, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Mental illness
d0505's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Graphic: Animal death, Emotional abuse, Incest, Infertility, Miscarriage, Rape, Self harm, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Violence, and Blood
Moderate: Bullying and Child abuse
campbelle177's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
Graphic: Child abuse, Rape, Self harm, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Suicide
literaryintersections's review
4.5
One woman is truly violated as a child, and becomes pregnant from that rape. When she tries to abort it, she hears a voice say "bear it or perish yourself" and in order to save herself, she decides to keep the child, setting off a long line of generational trauma. And the trauma isn't just physical violence. It's the trauma felt and experiences when secrets are kept. When children are chosen over other children: loved differently or not at all. Helen Jean then passes this violence and trauma onto her 4 children, who all pass it along onto their children in various ways. Until Helen Jean's grandchildren realize that they need to do whatever they can to stop this cycle of violence.
I am honestly tearing up just writing this review because it is truly a devastating book. But it made me think a lot about the little and big violences that we experience everyday from our parents, families, grandparents. And how those traumas can be passed on in quite devastating ways. "No one enters violence for the first time by committing it". It's hard not to fault Helen Jean for her various actions and mistakes. But she experienced so much violence. She was so hurt. And hurt people HURT people.
Graphic: Child abuse, Incest, Infertility, Miscarriage, and Sexual violence
Moderate: Racism and Abortion