pointlessmoss's review
funny
reflective
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
The lesson I learned from this: white people need to stop meddling!! And they should also stop trying to outdo one another in an imaginary competition of "Who is the least racist" (unless it's for my personal amusement).
For real though, I LOVE the writing and the story and the characters. I feel like I was reading about real people, not made-up fictional characters. Emira has my heart. I enjoyed myself the whole time and I felt so satisfied with how everything came together. So glad I picked this book up :)
Part of me wants to recommend this to everyone I know, but the other part of me knows not everyone will get invested in a slice-of-life story with this type of writing. I also want to hear what other people took away from this book! I'm curious to see what other interpretations of the story might be, and what I may have missed!
For real though, I LOVE the writing and the story and the characters. I feel like I was reading about real people, not made-up fictional characters. Emira has my heart. I enjoyed myself the whole time and I felt so satisfied with how everything came together. So glad I picked this book up :)
Part of me wants to recommend this to everyone I know, but the other part of me knows not everyone will get invested in a slice-of-life story with this type of writing. I also want to hear what other people took away from this book! I'm curious to see what other interpretations of the story might be, and what I may have missed!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racial slurs, Cursing, and Racism
Moderate: Classism, Emotional abuse, Vomit, Pregnancy, Alcohol, and Sexual content
Minor: Homophobia, Misogyny, Animal death, Bullying, Police brutality, Fatphobia, and Stalking
kaitlynmarie's review
challenging
emotional
funny
reflective
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
This was a good read! It had a lot to say while still being easy to digest. It’s not my personal favorite genre of book, but it still kept me invested and reflecting.
Spoiler
my heart is still breaking for Emira and for Briar. The way Reid wrote those characters and their dynamic felt like a punch to the gut, and I hope they’re okay. Emiras struggle to know herself in a world that’s desperate to define her was enheartening and tragic and utterly relatable. I’m so proud of her and I’m so hopeful for Briar. Fuck everyone else besides them, Zara, Shaunie, and Sefa. And seriously, fuck Alix Chamberlain
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism
Moderate: Police brutality and Racism
Minor: Racism
imaginaryisobel's review
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism
agnesg's review
challenging
funny
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racial slurs and Racism
Moderate: Vomit
dominic_t's review
challenging
dark
emotional
tense
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
This is an incredibly pointed look at white liberal racism and the emptiness of feminist brands. The characters are very vivid and well-developed; they both had really distinct voices in the story.
It's not a comfortable read. The POV characters are Alix and Emira. Alix is a wealthy white woman who has a feminist brand that reminds me of Sheryl Sandberg's "Lean In." Emira is the Black woman who babysits for her and is trying to figure out her next step in life. Alix spends a lot of the book determined to become friends with Emira, and she ends up basically stalking her. It was so uncomfortable reading chapters from her perspective while she orchestrated and manipulated situations with Emira to foster a closeness that Emira didn't want. Kiley Reid did a great job of capturing Alix's neurotic performative mindset, and she manages to humanize her. Alix does some horrible shit throughout the book, but she is presented as a human making flawed choices rather than a monster. She also does a fantastic job showing the progression of Alix's behavior; we see her boundary-stomping, manipulative behavior grow over time, and it provides a foundation for her final horrible act.
I really loved Emira. The author does a great job of capturing the in-between phase she's stuck in. She's not sure what she wants to do next, and she feels trapped by the reality of her financial situation. Her relationship with Briar, the kid she babysits, is also beautifully portrayed. The author really captures the challenge of leaving a caregiving position when you love the person you care for. She experiences the most growth in the book, and I absolutely loved seeing it.
The writing is beautiful, and the social commentary is really incisive. It's not a comfortable read, but it is one that will stay with me.
It's not a comfortable read. The POV characters are Alix and Emira. Alix is a wealthy white woman who has a feminist brand that reminds me of Sheryl Sandberg's "Lean In." Emira is the Black woman who babysits for her and is trying to figure out her next step in life. Alix spends a lot of the book determined to become friends with Emira, and she ends up basically stalking her. It was so uncomfortable reading chapters from her perspective while she orchestrated and manipulated situations with Emira to foster a closeness that Emira didn't want. Kiley Reid did a great job of capturing Alix's neurotic performative mindset, and she manages to humanize her. Alix does some horrible shit throughout the book, but she is presented as a human making flawed choices rather than a monster. She also does a fantastic job showing the progression of Alix's behavior; we see her boundary-stomping, manipulative behavior grow over time, and it provides a foundation for her final horrible act.
I really loved Emira. The author does a great job of capturing the in-between phase she's stuck in. She's not sure what she wants to do next, and she feels trapped by the reality of her financial situation. Her relationship with Briar, the kid she babysits, is also beautifully portrayed. The author really captures the challenge of leaving a caregiving position when you love the person you care for. She experiences the most growth in the book, and I absolutely loved seeing it.
The writing is beautiful, and the social commentary is really incisive. It's not a comfortable read, but it is one that will stay with me.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism, Stalking, and Racial slurs
Racial fetishism, police interactionsmatildaesandell's review
emotional
funny
hopeful
lighthearted
reflective
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
great read. I picked this one up from the library and finished half of it within a day. This book explores racism, fetishisation and almost a coming of age theme in a very delicate and palatable manner. It hasn’t been my favourite book, but it has certainly been very enjoyable.
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism
Minor: Racial slurs
juleskr02's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
tense
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
i absolutely loved the fashion in which this novel was written!! reid does a fantastic job at writing both in multiple points of view but also in third person narration. the subtle changes of how she addresses the character make it clear which experiences belong to which person within the entire novel, and i surprisingly found this writing style easy to read.
lost a bit of star-age because i’m not quite sure if i enjoyed the ending. i sort of wanted more between briar and emira, or even a better ending for kelley’s and emira’s relationship, but i could see how the ending can be appreciated. the last line of the book was beautiful.
this book tackles race and class in a way that allows you to think while being fully entertained. there was drama at every point, but also reflection and happy moments too. i think it’s so important to note that rich and upper class people do sometimes tend to ignore the ways of the world, and are many times oblivious to the fact that their upbringing impacts how they live their own lives, and how that then impacts their relationships with others who might not have as much wealth as them! any scene with briar made my heart so happy. i love to see a relationship between an inquisitive child and loving caregiver. briar being emira’s favorite aspect of her life rings so true with me, especially since my aspirations are to work with children.
i also enjoyed the lowkey plot twist that reid included, with showing the truth about alix’s past and how that relates to the present. i really think this book was paced very well!
a fantastic book!
lost a bit of star-age because i’m not quite sure if i enjoyed the ending. i sort of wanted more between briar and emira, or even a better ending for kelley’s and emira’s relationship, but i could see how the ending can be appreciated. the last line of the book was beautiful.
this book tackles race and class in a way that allows you to think while being fully entertained. there was drama at every point, but also reflection and happy moments too. i think it’s so important to note that rich and upper class people do sometimes tend to ignore the ways of the world, and are many times oblivious to the fact that their upbringing impacts how they live their own lives, and how that then impacts their relationships with others who might not have as much wealth as them! any scene with briar made my heart so happy. i love to see a relationship between an inquisitive child and loving caregiver. briar being emira’s favorite aspect of her life rings so true with me, especially since my aspirations are to work with children.
i also enjoyed the lowkey plot twist that reid included, with showing the truth about alix’s past and how that relates to the present. i really think this book was paced very well!
a fantastic book!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcohol and Racism
Minor: Classism, Cursing, and Toxic friendship
ernilyc's review against another edition
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Alcohol, Cursing, Racial slurs, Sexual content, and Fatphobia
Minor: Police brutality and Pregnancy
redhothabanero's review against another edition
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
The premise is a really interesting one with the way our society is grappling with racism from authority figures and how the videos taken are important but also invasive to the people on the receiving end of the abuse. It also spoke about white saviorism and how performative and over the top some people can be in the opposite direction. However I couldn't rate it higher because Alix's obsession with Emira is super weird. She revolved her life around Emira who was completely oblivious to how creepy Alix was being. Also, there were unnecessary comments about Alix's weight that seemed to add nothing to the story. The one that sticks to mind is something to the effect of, how could he talk to her like that when she was sitting there only six pounds above her pre-baby weight (I'm paraphrasing). Like, are you serious? Overall, I did enjoy it but these issues made me super uncomfortable.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism
Minor: Bullying
dariaedwards's review
challenging
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.75
Content Warnings
Moderate: Racism