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avidreaderandgeekgirl's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.25
Vera was a great protagonist, her and her newfound family's fumbling was humorous but the book still had serious undertones. It was a good mix of lighthearted & emotional. I laughed and I cried.
I didn't guess the murderer until Vera figured it out, the author did a good job of disguising them with misdirection.
My biggest complaint was that the book was a bit longer than I thought it needed. I can't wait for their next adventure!
Narrator Rating: 4.75 stars
The narrator did an amazing job, I wish they'd done a full cast for this since it was told from many points of view.
Graphic: Grief
Moderate: Ableism, Bullying, Child abuse, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Racism, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Stalking, Death of parent, Murder, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Body shaming, Cancer, Chronic illness, Drug use, Fatphobia, Infertility, Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Dementia, Pregnancy, Abandonment, Alcohol, Dysphoria, and Classism
The instances of child abuse were emotional abuse of a toddler. Nothing physically or sexually abusive towards a child is mentioned.emilywemily6's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Bullying, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Murder, Gaslighting, and Abandonment
Moderate: Medical content and Grief
Minor: Child abuse, Racism, Alcohol, and Classism
axel_p's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Minor: Death, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexism, Suicidal thoughts, Toxic relationship, Grief, Stalking, Murder, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
bookishmillennial's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
Omg I need to be best friends with Jesse Q. Sutanto 😭 She is so goddamn funny and I was cracking up reading this, but what’s new?! Vera is such a clever, endearing, and fun character! Reading this was such a treat because she reminded me so much of my paternal Chinese grandma. I couldn’t help but wear the goofiest & cheesiest smile on my face as I read Vera’s curious inner thoughts & heard it in my grandma’s voice. Vera, like my grandma, is a pistol, and catches on more than others think! On the other hand, I was tearing up and in my feels towards the end of the book. JQS is so incredibly talented, and I will read whatever she writes!
We meet Vera’s four potential murder suspects: Sana, Riki, Julia & Oliver, as they stop by Vera’s Tea Shop where the murder victim was found. I absolutely adored every single one of these characters (except for the murder victim, Marshall Chen, who everyone agrees was an abusive, narcissistic, overall garbage human being), and each of their POVs (third-person limited) kept my interest piqued & more importantly, kept me guessing until the very end!
Ageism is something I don’t see talked about a lot on here, and that’s on me — my feed is *mostly* full of gen x-ers and millennials. This is a great call in for me to read more books with older main characters, and this book was a perfect example of how fascinating and hilarious they could be (rather than the master narrative telling us that being old is boring)! I recognize Jesse herself is not in her 60s but if you read Dial A For Aunties, you just *know* that she wrote those aunties and Vera with real-life aunties and moms in mind. She’s pulling this from her lived experience of being loved and cared for by these Chinese-Indonesian aunties and moms, and that dynamic seeps into the page so beautifully!
I loved this book from start to finish, and I was not expecting the ending reveal of who the killer was! I also was not expecting to read a book about finding found family later in life, and how quickly these special connections can form. This book both hurt my abs because I laughed so hard, and hurt my heart because it had me in my feelings by the end as I grew to care for all of these character!
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Grief, and Murder
Minor: Death of parent
erebus53's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.25
This book is ridiculously hilarious. I think I probably found it more so because of the people I know who are elderly Chinese migrants. I had mixed feelings as to whether I was playing into Racial stereotypes or just laughing at things that I recognise fondly from people I know. (These are the things that White Progressively minded people have to wonder at in the hope that we aren't perpetuating stupid biases against other people.. even expressing that feels awkward as all get out, but it's worth the effort.) As someone whose job used to be making advertising for Asian small-business owners, I was belly laughing at the discussion between Vera and her son, about how she "can't" to make baseless claims about her business such as it being "World Famous", when nobody had heard of it. This was a culture clash that I had personally encountered in my work, and the book had me nodding along with these various cultural quirks; Vera continually commenting on the condition of people's skin, criticises young people for being lazy, and refers to any self-trained expert as a "doctor" - I have been called Computer Doctor by Chinese workmates... it's a thing).
Vera is a character. She operates with very little filter, and a lot of energy. Her commanding presence has her drawing together all her suspe... new friends, to unravel their involvement in the life of the man who was killed. Vera's English is not quite right, and her command of modern technology is .. approximate. She bumbles her way overconfidently through a modern age of Googles and Podcasts, fairly well, and is up before dawn to make bribe.. er breakfast for the local police and the various people she hopes to befriend on her search for Justice!
Under Vera's insuppressible bluster is a story about people surviving encounters with an entitled Narcissist. Interspersed throughout the story in ways that make the emotionally fraught content a little more palatable, we have the bitterness of a son who is demonised by his manipulative twin, a wife who is gaslit and socially isolated by her derisive husband, an artist who is continually pressured and controlled by her family to the point where her self-esteem is worn down, and a guy who is making bad decisions because of financial hardship and his duty to his family. Family is a deep theme through the whole book, and we are slowly brought to the modern idea of building new families around us that are nurturing, regardless of the damage done to us by the families we are born or married into.
I didn't know whether or not to cringe at how these people were manipulated and pushed around by a strange old lady - how badly had they been treated that they were so full of self-blame and lack of assertiveness? At the same time I was also upset that I might have been in a similar position especially when I was younger. I have at times been such a bombastic force of nature that others have gone along with whatever I said because it was easier than trying to swim against the rip-tide. In some ways Vera uses the same techniques as the horrid dead man, in that she focuses intently on people, love bombs them (sometimes with tea and food) and then inserts herself into their lives, but the main thing that separates her from the nasty guy is that she tries to get people together, to help them communicate, to help people excel at what they love and value themselves for it, and to build them up rather than tearing them down. (I can relate - but it's a little embarrassing to admit).
At times it eels like this story runs quite slowly. The fear of the main characters makes them hide their true motives and so it takes some time before the backstory comes out, but it is worth the wait. Fun story.
Graphic: Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Sexism, Terminal illness, Toxic relationship, Violence, Stalking, Murder, and Gaslighting
Minor: Chronic illness and Terminal illness
imstephtacular's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Ableism, Cursing, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Death, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Death of parent, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Body shaming, Bullying, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Racism, Sexism, Violence, Blood, Vomit, Grief, Stalking, Murder, Pregnancy, and Alcohol