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5.0


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challenging emotional tense fast-paced

4.75

really interesting both from a memoir/experience perspective but also as a vision of Toronto activism in the 90s/00s before I was born and how different it was pre-gentrification

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adventurous challenging emotional funny hopeful informative reflective sad medium-paced

4.5

 "It all falls apart, and then it is a miracle. We don't understand it. We make the same mistakes over and over again."

A vulnerable story of abuse and fighting to carve out a path forward for oneself. Leah navigates queerness, mixed race identity, disability, poverty, immigration, complicated family history, and imperfect community to ultimately create a life full of love and possibility. 


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dark emotional reflective fast-paced

5.0


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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

4.0


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challenging dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense slow-paced

4.0

The first bunch of chapters kind of felt like the same lines and events over and over again but by the time I got to the end of this book I was so moved. This author is brilliant and this book is an example of the power she holds as a writer and visionary. 

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challenging emotional reflective slow-paced

3.25


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emotional reflective medium-paced

4.5


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courtneyfalling's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective fast-paced

4.0

This made me cry cathartically, especially near the ending. I think so many childhood trauma and recovery memoirs follow a very linear arc, describing traumatic events in detail for presumably non-traumatized but fascinated audiences, then end with an acceptance of traditional, usually heteronormative and relatively depoliticized new family life. And they rarely get into what happens if trauma follows you, continues to pop up from triggers, changes who you are or what you want to find. Instead, this memoir focused a lot on trying to build a life, on the actual, messy complexity of "healing." I want to believe that sensitive, confused, sick, radical adults exist out there and don't just die or otherwise fade out in their early to mid-twenties, and in its rawness, this was also hopeful. 

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

4.25


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