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Two Girls Fat and Thin by Mary Gaitskill

3 reviews

lydiature_'s review against another edition

challenging dark reflective sad slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Strong character development? It's complicated
Loveable characters? It's complicated
Diverse cast of characters? No
Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.0

i read gaitskill’s short story “this is pleasure” in the beginning of the year and was completely blown away by it. so when i saw this book, i knew i had to give it a shot.

the writing style is unlike anything i have read this year. it’s nasty, biting, sharp & raw. and it makes sense- gaitskill explores the complexities of family and how it contributes to trauma. specifically child sexual abuse. she’s completely honest with the trauma that justine and dorothy undergo—so if child abuse and rape are sensitive topics to you, i don’t recommend this. the content is very graphic, and those detailed aspects remind me of “a little life.”

the chapters are told in alternating POVs and they (i think) were specifically designed that way. dorothy’s chapters are in first person POV and justine’s chapters are in third person POV. it makes sense. although both women have dealt with awful things in their childhood, they handle them differently. dorothy is of course traumatized but she is more transparent with her past and is willing to move forward. this is demonstrated in the end when she rescues justine from a particular (disgusting) sexual partner. the 3rd person POV choice in justine’s chapters reflect a distance. it’s not supposed to be personal. i can’t remember where but justine made a remark (to herself) about wearing a cloak in defense.

the parents in this book SUCK, full disclosure. firstly, dorothy’s father because he was an abusive creepy rapist—and a hypocrite on top of that. again—very descriptive. her mother was basically just ✨there✨ she had a feeling that her daughter was getting raped by her husband but didn’t want to say anything. women like her DISGUST me. justine’s parents were basically nonexistent and not supportive. her mother knew about the molestation because justine told her. her response made me livid.

the overall story was well-written, but extremely heavy. the only negative things i have to say: 1) the characters didn’t really feel personal to me but i can see why. they went through unbelievable pain growing up and the closed off behavior could be interpreted as a self-defense mechanism. 2) i wasn’t particularly interested in the philosophical component. i definitely see that dorothy used that to heal from her trauma but i just wasn’t interested. i did not find the ideals compelling. 3) since the book was largely about granite’s principles, i was expecting more. i thought gaitskill would delve more into granite as a person, but she didn’t. i was kinda disappointed.

i think you will like this if you loved “the lying life of adults” by elena ferrante and “a little life” by hanya yanagihara.

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irenealgi's review against another edition

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I am not one to be overly sensitive with books or to shy away from difficult themes, but I suppose I'm going through a difficult time myself and reading this book every night before bed was not doing anything to improve my mood.

It's sad, it's so dark, and there are graphic depictions of emotional and sexual abuse on children. Not just once, but recurrently, as I suspect this is a key theme in the book and the thing the two main characters have in common. I'm all for books about hard topics, but I suppose this is not the right time for me to be reading this one. A real shame, because it is absolutely well written and engaging and very well done.

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hanleest's review against another edition

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challenging dark slow-paced

Plot- or character-driven? Character
Loveable characters? No

3.75

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