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Beim Leben meiner Schwester by Jodi Picoult, Klaus Timmermann, Ulrike Wasel
26 reviews
pewterwolf's review against another edition
emotional
sad
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
This is one of those books where it feels like every one has either read or know the vague outline of. And the author of this is one of those authors that I have been meaning to read for YEARS, but I keep putting off due to the Hype Monster that surround them and their novels.
this is very much not my typical go-to read.
And yet, I found this quite a compelling read. Even though it took me a few weeks to read (mainly because I was focused on other things so reading took a back seat), I kept coming back to this messy family drama and these quite unlikeable characters. Ok, mainly unlikeable is the wrong word. Flawed and selfish.
The parents are so focused on her ill child, they forget about their other children (the mother more than the father). The eldest son is forgotten and considered a disappointment by his parents so he acts out. Anna feels like she has no voice or choice, but is uncertain over her choices and Kate who wants some control over her life but is unable to due to her illness.
I think that, yes, even though these characters are really flawed and make/do quite unlikeable things, I found them really interesting to read as, yes, they are flawed and make some really questionable decisions, but you see where they are all coming from.
It’s a nice relief to have Anna’s lawyer, Campbell, and Julia, the court appointed Guardian ad litem storyline running alongside. We have Campbell who has a service dog but we don’t know where and we have Campbell and Julia having a teen romance, but Julia (and the reader) don’t know why Campbell
ended it.
So, as you guess, I did like it. I didn’t love it, but I think that’s because I was on my guard with it. You see, I knew that the movie adaptation of this was changed and, even though I haven’t seen the film, I knew what the ending was changed from so I knew where this was going so I couldn’t invest in these characters like I should have. But would I have liked this twist in the tale had I not known? I have no idea. I would be shocked and I think I would have been very annoyed/angry over it.
And yes, I was very aware that this book was trying to emotionally-manipulate me on multiply occasions.
While I’m not sure if this book deserves all the attention that it has received, I am glad I have finally got round to reading it and I do plan to read more Jodi Picoult in the coming months (I have my eye on either Nineteen Minutes, Small Great Things or A Spark of Light, but we shall see where I go next…)
this is very much not my typical go-to read.
And yet, I found this quite a compelling read. Even though it took me a few weeks to read (mainly because I was focused on other things so reading took a back seat), I kept coming back to this messy family drama and these quite unlikeable characters. Ok, mainly unlikeable is the wrong word. Flawed and selfish.
The parents are so focused on her ill child, they forget about their other children (the mother more than the father). The eldest son is forgotten and considered a disappointment by his parents so he acts out. Anna feels like she has no voice or choice, but is uncertain over her choices and Kate who wants some control over her life but is unable to due to her illness.
I think that, yes, even though these characters are really flawed and make/do quite unlikeable things, I found them really interesting to read as, yes, they are flawed and make some really questionable decisions, but you see where they are all coming from.
It’s a nice relief to have Anna’s lawyer, Campbell, and Julia, the court appointed Guardian ad litem storyline running alongside. We have Campbell who has a service dog but we don’t know where and we have Campbell and Julia having a teen romance, but Julia (and the reader) don’t know why Campbell
ended it.
So, as you guess, I did like it. I didn’t love it, but I think that’s because I was on my guard with it. You see, I knew that the movie adaptation of this was changed and, even though I haven’t seen the film, I knew what the ending was changed from so I knew where this was going so I couldn’t invest in these characters like I should have. But would I have liked this twist in the tale had I not known? I have no idea. I would be shocked and I think I would have been very annoyed/angry over it.
And yes, I was very aware that this book was trying to emotionally-manipulate me on multiply occasions.
While I’m not sure if this book deserves all the attention that it has received, I am glad I have finally got round to reading it and I do plan to read more Jodi Picoult in the coming months (I have my eye on either Nineteen Minutes, Small Great Things or A Spark of Light, but we shall see where I go next…)
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Terminal illness, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Blood, Vomit, and Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, and Suicide attempt
amydeppe's review against another edition
emotional
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
2.5
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cancer, Medical content, and Car accident
Moderate: Child death, Drug abuse, and Medical trauma
Minor: Sexual content, Vomit, Suicide attempt, and Pregnancy
elias_b's review against another edition
emotional
reflective
tense
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.0
I've always found that there exists some form of beauty in tragedy—that books which deal with inevitable tragedies are life lessons to us all, in some way or the other.
However, "My Sister's Keeper" was a let-down. Let me explain why:
1. Shifting narration: First-person POVs do a great job of bringing out a character's innermost thoughts, but it becomes a problem when there are too many POVs. Anna, Kate, Jesse, Brian, Sara, Julia, and Campbell are all interesting characters in their own right, but the shifting POVs were jarring at times and completely unnecessary.
2. The subplots: The crux of the issue is Anna's decision to go ahead with the lawsuit, so that she will not have to donate her kidney. However, the more you read, the more this fades into the background. Instead, we see glimpses of Campbell and Julia's shared history together, Jesse's troubled life, and etc.
You could argue that these subplots exist to make the characters seem more human—to establish that not everything is black-or-white, but all they did was distract me from Anna's case.
3. The ending: Hardly anything works out in our favour in the real world, and no matter what the outcome was, I expected a lose-lose situation. However, the ending made me wonder what point the author was trying to make here.
Anna lives in the shadow of her sister, and she spends her whole life making sacrifices for Kate. If not, her mother is convincing her to give in and do "one more thing" for Kate. As I read, I felt as though Anna was never able to become her own person. From her conception to the end, she's this safety plan just in case something happens to Kate.
And, this is where I spoil the ending:
It was a massive disservice to Anna as well as us readers when she was declared braindead from a car accident. Which, by the way, is Campbell's second one—so the man suffers from seizures ever since the first accident. Above all, it broke my heart that, just as Anna had begun to envision a future for herself, it was just ripped from her.
So, because of this, Kate receives her kidney and miraculously survives. The family moves on. I can't put my finger on it, but this ending certainly feels rushed.
It disappoints me to rate this 3.0 stars, especially since I looked forward to having a morality debate in my mind. After completing the book, all I feel is pity for Anna and a greater love for Campbell.
However, "My Sister's Keeper" was a let-down. Let me explain why:
1. Shifting narration: First-person POVs do a great job of bringing out a character's innermost thoughts, but it becomes a problem when there are too many POVs. Anna, Kate, Jesse, Brian, Sara, Julia, and Campbell are all interesting characters in their own right, but the shifting POVs were jarring at times and completely unnecessary.
2. The subplots: The crux of the issue is Anna's decision to go ahead with the lawsuit, so that she will not have to donate her kidney. However, the more you read, the more this fades into the background. Instead, we see glimpses of Campbell and Julia's shared history together, Jesse's troubled life, and etc.
You could argue that these subplots exist to make the characters seem more human—to establish that not everything is black-or-white, but all they did was distract me from Anna's case.
3. The ending: Hardly anything works out in our favour in the real world, and no matter what the outcome was, I expected a lose-lose situation. However, the ending made me wonder what point the author was trying to make here.
Anna lives in the shadow of her sister, and she spends her whole life making sacrifices for Kate. If not, her mother is convincing her to give in and do "one more thing" for Kate. As I read, I felt as though Anna was never able to become her own person. From her conception to the end, she's this safety plan just in case something happens to Kate.
And, this is where I spoil the ending:
So, because of this, Kate receives her kidney and miraculously survives. The family moves on. I can't put my finger on it, but this ending certainly feels rushed.
It disappoints me to rate this 3.0 stars, especially since I looked forward to having a morality debate in my mind. After completing the book, all I feel is pity for Anna and a greater love for Campbell.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Medical content
Moderate: Blood
Minor: Vomit
ceraunomancy's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Child death, Death, and Blood
Minor: Vomit
kaz_brekkerrr's review against another edition
dark
emotional
reflective
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.0
Content Warnings
Moderate: Child death, Chronic illness, Cursing, Medical content, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Cancer, Sexual content, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, and Vomit
caseylovett's review against another edition
emotional
sad
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.25
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cancer, Blood, and Car accident
Moderate: Suicide attempt
Minor: Vomit
zoejjj's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Okay obviously I cried like a baby I have three sisters and if I was put in a position like this I have no clue what I would’ve done!! The part where Anna is in the shower and Kate is talking to her, saying I can lose you as a sister but I couldn’t handle losing you as a friend? I was trying to do chores while listening this and was cryinggg!!
Nobody in this book is hateable. Not even Sara. She is written as an incredibly driven woman who will stop at nothing to save her daughter. Unfortunately her other kids get forgotten in the process but she regrets, she makes it right. “This is her pond but my lily pads”? Shaving her head for Kate? Honestly Jesse got the wayyyy short end of the straw but he also almost killed someone.
The ending is… so so. I wish Jodi would’ve committed to Kate dying. In the end, Anna’s choice was taken away from her AGAIN. Was the whole lawsuit pointless? Maybe! Sure it’s (possibly) realistic bc life does not care but this book isn’t meant to be realistic like that. The ending is out of left field for the topics this book is dealing with.
Nobody in this book is hateable. Not even Sara. She is written as an incredibly driven woman who will stop at nothing to save her daughter. Unfortunately her other kids get forgotten in the process but she regrets, she makes it right. “This is her pond but my lily pads”? Shaving her head for Kate? Honestly Jesse got the wayyyy short end of the straw but he also almost killed someone.
The ending is… so so.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Terminal illness, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, Suicide attempt, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Sexual content and Vomit
obsessor_of_books's review against another edition
emotional
hopeful
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Drug use, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Grief, Car accident, Suicide attempt, Fire/Fire injury, and Alcohol
green_amaryllis's review against another edition
dark
emotional
hopeful
reflective
sad
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Content Warnings
Graphic: Cancer, Child death, Death, Terminal illness, and Car accident
Moderate: Fire/Fire injury
Minor: Suicidal thoughts and Vomit
jenna_justi2004's review against another edition
adventurous
challenging
dark
funny
hopeful
informative
sad
tense
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
Wow. I spent the entirety of the book thinking I’d know how it would end because I saw the movie. I was wrong. Like violently wrong in a way that has be concerned for the author. After all that Anna did, she fucking died randomly. She finally got what she wanted and so did Kate. And then she dies bro I can’t imagine how the judge feels. Ohmygod, what if it was a drunk driver. She was always destined to give her a kidney . I can’t do this anymore.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Alcoholism, Body horror, Bullying, Cancer, Child death, Chronic illness, Cursing, Death, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Terminal illness, Blood, Vomit, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Car accident, Suicide attempt, and Alcohol