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this was a really refreshing read and so different from what im used to. even tho i can’t relate to some experiences (excessive drinking, casual sex and being super independent) there were so many things i could relate to: body image issues, feeling lost and behind my peers and an extreme love for my friendships. the representation of friendship as a central part of life and how for dolly it was the main form of love was a beautiful thing to see. we are taught from a young age to look for romantic love (specially afab peole) but the community, the love, the care we can share from friendships is so healing and important.
the chapter on florence was beautiful but heartbreaking.

in the beginning it was a bit hard to get into, i heard so many people talking about it but i didn’t knew much about the book and the structure itself but after a bit it was easier
the emails and the recipes where a bit needless (i was so confused with the emails until i realised they were fake/exaggerated versions for “comical” relief(?)), but despite the lack of time structure it was super interesting to read and in the end you got used to it

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emotional funny hopeful informative medium-paced

4.0

I picked up this book after reading a lot of fantasy earlier in the year, and I’m definitely glad I did! EIKAL feels a lot like reading someone’s diary, kind of like Carrie Bradshaw’s musings or the vibe of Golden Girls. It’s a super engaging and relatable read, capturing the essence of personal experiences being told to you by a friend.

Despite the book's distinctly English references, which might not always work for everyone, I found them to be delightful and immersive. Alderton makes you really feel her experiences: for examples, I particularly felt a connection when Alderton described her best friend Farly growing into her relationship with her fiancée; I knew the feeling of friends growing away from you. Additionally, the parts about body image and navigating your late 20s were especially spot-on for me. The book’s focus on platonic relationships was also really refreshing and really resonated.

While some sections of the book could drag a bit, the inclusion of recipes was a nice touch that added depth and broke up chapters well. And although the insights aren't necessarily groundbreaking, they are delivered with such warmth and humor that they are truly moving.

Overall, this is a sweet and funny read. If you enjoy the introspective and humorous tones of the show mentioned above, you'll likely find this book a proper addition to your reading list.

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funny hopeful inspiring lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

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