traa's review
4.75
Moderate: Violence, Sexual assault, Physical abuse, Homophobia, Dysphoria, Injury/Injury detail, Racial slurs, Death, Death of parent, Cursing, Outing, Drug use, and Racism
Minor: Transphobia, Deadnaming, and Police brutality
annikamanika's review
2.75
Moderate: Death, Cursing, Dysphoria, Homophobia, Racism, and Racial slurs
Minor: Cancer
thebabybookworm's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Violence, Child abuse, Dysphoria, Classism, Transphobia, Sexual assault, Body shaming, Toxic friendship, Racism, Death, Bullying, Sexual content, Incest, Toxic relationship, Rape, Racial slurs, Homophobia, Hate crime, and Emotional abuse
achay91's review against another edition
4.75
Graphic: Homophobia, Rape, Sexual assault, Bullying, Racial slurs, and Transphobia
Moderate: Deadnaming, Death, Cancer, Drug use, and Grief
Minor: Dysphoria and Outing
kayladaila's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Dysphoria, Homophobia, Grief, Sexual content, and Incest
Moderate: Death, Sexual violence, Bullying, Racial slurs, Violence, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual assault, and Rape
Minor: Outing and Transphobia
grboph's review
5.0
Graphic: Death, Pedophilia, Racism, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Violence, Grief, Homophobia, Racial slurs, and Incest
Moderate: Chronic illness, Alcohol, Drug use, Bullying, Cursing, Deadnaming, Dysphoria, Medical content, Cancer, Outing, and Mental illness
Minor: Addiction and Injury/Injury detail
nassy's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Homophobia, Sexual assault, Chronic illness, Transphobia, Cancer, Bullying, Cursing, Death, Dysphoria, Emotional abuse, Grief, and Sexual content
lacey_wi's review
4.5
Graphic: Sexual content, Sexual assault, and Sexual harassment
Moderate: Bullying, Cultural appropriation, Hate crime, Incest, Police brutality, Racism, Alcohol, Cancer, Cursing, Death, Dysphoria, Grief, Homophobia, Outing, Sexual content, Slavery, Racial slurs, and Rape
Minor: Deadnaming, Colonisation, and Transphobia
deadeye's review against another edition
4.25
Graphic: Cursing, Deadnaming, Grief, Racial slurs, Transphobia, Hate crime, Incest, Racism, Sexual content, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Death, and Homophobia
Moderate: Dysphoria
Minor: Police brutality, Medical trauma, Misogyny, Outing, Alcohol, Drug use, and Medical content
katsbooks's review
4.5
"Navigating in a space that questions your humanity isn't really living at all. It's existing. We all deserve more than just the ability to exist."
"American history is truly the greatest fable ever written."
"Knowledge is your sharpest weapon in a world that is hell-bent on telling you stories that are simply not true."
I always feel weird rating memoirs so take my star rating with a grain of salt. The strangeness lies in giving a star rating to someone's life. Like, how can I do that? So my rating is mostly based on social content and writing style.
I loved a lot of things about this book. I really like that it is written in a way that is accessible to teenagers. It is clear and concise in it's messaging while also being personal and impactful. It also doesn't shy away from tough topics. The author often addresses the sentiment that he wants this book to serve as an example of queer, Black human existing and thriving as a full human with a lifetime of positive and negative experiences. I especially appreciated the chapters on his school experiences. As an educator, it's always good to hear students have experienced the school system.
My only major critique is that tone of the writing felt... immature? I'm not sure if that's the verbiage I want to use but I got the feeling sometimes that I was reading an essay from one of my high school students. That being said, though, it's meant for high school students so I can definitely understand if that was done on purpose.
Graphic: Dysphoria, Misogyny, Police brutality, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, and Violence
Moderate: Bullying, Deadnaming, Racial slurs, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Addiction, Cursing, Drug use, Outing, Terminal illness, Alcohol, Death, and Transphobia