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kelseymck's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
Moderate: Child death, Death, Emotional abuse, and War
carlaabra's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
As some other reviews have echoed: the characters weren’t as fleshed out as they could’ve been. I think the point of the book was the themes, the tragedy and the suffering. It’s not so much who the characters are or even what they do, but what happens to them, what they endure. What follows are some of my takeaways, but for a book of 700 pages these are inevitably limited.
- My favorite portion was Meggie as a child and a teenager, pre-Luke. Dane and Justine I could’ve done without, they were very one-note.
- Lengthy descriptions of places and the setting - meant nothing to me, but if you like those they’re quite frequent and well written
- There’s really not as much romance as you would expect; there’s a lot of pining, angst, and unspoken feelings instead.
- I was emotionally invested but I did not cry, probably because the characters never felt quite fully human to me
- Suffering. Suffering is paramount is this book, which is weird to say. But truly: everyone has good moments, good years, but everyone has deep pain and grief, especially in regards to their romantic partners and children. There’s a lot of death.
- The Catholic Church, her hypocrisies and her priests. We’re told of her opulence, her shameful ambivalence in WWII, her closet politics, and of course her demand for her priests to be solely hers. A demand for them to deny their physical humanity and become not-man. We see this in the struggle of two priests, the imperfect Ralph contrasting with the perfect Dane. I’m more acquainted with Protestant theology, so seeing their conception of God and how His servants should serve Him was interesting.
- The hardships of women. Our story starts in 1915 in a poor New Zealand home with a father an itinerant shearer. We follow our family as they move to a sprawling Australian homestead and become stockmen. Despite the vast improvement in the men’s lots, working for themselves and enjoying the work, the women do much the same as always: take care of the home and the kids with no complaints. Fee does this, and when old “enough” (like 8 or 9) Meggie is drafted to help her, also occasionally helping on the farm. Then fulfilling a young woman’s purpose: waiting to be married, spiting Ralph by choosing Luke and then suffering his abuse and neglect. Only Justine, born in the 30s, could escape or frankly, even wanted to. However the way the women treat their daughters versus their sons is telling, so much harsher, as if they have to prepare them for how the world will treat them.
- Greed and jealousy. Personified in Mary Carson and Luke.
- Ambition, related to greed but for things other than money. Ralph is this through and through, and it ruins him (the will, the church, his son). Frank too (to not be Paddy, to be his own man, to not tell the family of his fate). Jims and Patsy are not as extreme, with their foolhardy rush into the army. Paddy and Meggie are great foils.
- Pride and miscommunication. Fee not appreciating Paddy; Fee favoring Frank and ignoring Meggie, so wrapped up in her long-lost love and his child that she’s locked all her emotions away. Meggie repeating this verbatim with Dane and Justine when she becomes a mother. Meggie wanting to escape Ralph via another man, then not leaving Luke and returning home sooner. The Drogheda men never marrying. And Meggie, always waiting for Ralph because she can neither muster the strength to go after him or to deny him. Her one last defiance, hiding Dane — which strangely she never seems to regret
Graphic: Death and Grief
Moderate: Sexual assault and War
The section with Luke, after their marriage, contains some deeply disturbing marital rape and neglect due to selfishness on the husband’s part. Not out of cruelty per se, but just that Luke has no ability to care for anyone but himself.the_addictt's review against another edition
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
3.0
Graphic: Misogyny and Grief
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Child death, Death, Fire/Fire injury, and War
askxtine's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
4.0
Graphic: Animal death, Death, Fire/Fire injury, and War
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship
Minor: Sexual content
afroheaux's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.0
I know some people will say that this book was a product of its time and I'm sure there's some argument to be made there, but Meggie and Ralph's relationship was disturbing.
Meggie goes through so much tragedy that she clings to Ralph because he's the only consistently good thing in her life. Her parents see her infatuation with him and his with her and neither of them says anything until much later in the book. Fee doesn't comment until Meggie gave birth to Ralph's child almost a decade after their first kiss. Specialists in predators often say you should be wary of someone who wants to spend more time with your kids than you do and Ralph spent the majority of his time with Meggie. Even as he cheats the family out of their inheritance, he is hailed throughout the book as a noble man who sacrificed so much. He's a career-driven, power-hungry weirdo. When the time came in WWII to stand up against the Nazis, Ralph much preferred to stay with the status quo to maintain the status that SOLELY the money he stole from Clearys got him than to stand up for what was right.
If the book's purpose was to display how generational trauma spreads, it does a marvelous job at that. I also appreciated the realistic experiences in war. The excitement of young boys at the prospect of being the hero and getting on the battlefield and realizing you hadn't stepped onto a movie set. You can see parents' and grandparents' decisions trickle down throughout the children, having different effects. It's a testament to the failings of a traditional, conservative family structure because barely anyone is happy throughout this book at any time.
Meggie's relationship with Luke was especially disturbing. There are several detailed scenes of marital rape that are uncomfortable to read and the book does not acknowledge it as assault because Meggie doesn't know that it is. Her naivete and ignorance are frequently used against her throughout the book and it makes a woman who only knows how to love one man and that clouds all else.
If you want to see how grooming and manipulation work in slow motion and how people ignorant of the truths of life make horrible decisions, this book is an excellent case study.
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Emotional abuse, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexual violence, Violence, and War
Moderate: Child death and Death of parent
zezeki's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Plot
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.5
Moderate: Adult/minor relationship, Child death, Death, Infidelity, Grief, Fire/Fire injury, Abandonment, and War
masha__me's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Death, Misogyny, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Grief, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Pregnancy, and War
Moderate: Child abuse, Emotional abuse, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Violence, Fire/Fire injury, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Animal cruelty, Animal death, Homophobia, Infertility, Mental illness, Racism, Xenophobia, Blood, Vomit, Murder, Lesbophobia, Toxic friendship, Abandonment, and Sexual harassment
foreverinastory's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.0
CWs: Adult/minor relationship, alcohol consumption, blood, child abuse (by a teacher), death, death of parent, emotional abuse, fire/fire injury, gun violence, homophobia, infidelity, injury/injury detail, misogyny, pedophilia/grooming, pregnacy, rape specifically marital rape, religious bigotry, sexism, sexual content, toxic relationship. Moderate: war, violence, mental illness (PTSD).
Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Child abuse, Death, Emotional abuse, Gun violence, Homophobia, Infidelity, Misogyny, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexism, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Blood, Religious bigotry, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Fire/Fire injury, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Mental illness, Violence, and War
chalkletters's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.0
Graphic: Death
Moderate: Child death, Domestic abuse, Grief, Death of parent, Fire/Fire injury, War, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Animal death, Gun violence, and Pregnancy