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cj_underw's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.75
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Death of parent, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Infertility, Mental illness, Blood, Medical content, Pregnancy, and Alcohol
Minor: Cancer and Panic attacks/disorders
literarylily's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
The book itself is an intense, uncomfortable read. From the beginning of Ryle and Lily's encounters, the red flags were flying and I could feel the tension building. I'm not sure how much of it I would have picked up on going in blind, but knowing what I did I never warmed to Ryle as his love-bombing and erratic nature set me on edge.
Having the sections about Atlas worked as a good contrast, showing the gentle and quiet love he and Lily had for each other. And of course the parallels between Lily and her mother over time.
I am fortunate enough to not be able to say from firsthand experience if this was an accurate portrayal of DV, but from what I have heard from loved ones that do, it is eerily similar. It's important to remember everyone's experience with it will be different, as will the outcomes at the end.
The reason this doesn't get five stars from me is that I felt the book was a bit underdeveloped in some ways. There are characters in Lily's life that seem to flit in when convenient and disappear for hundreds of pages, for example Kate in her childhood and Devin and Lucy in her adulthood. It would have been good to have them a little more involved and see more reactions to events from people more on the outskirts of her life.
I also felt like some odd choices were made
What I didn't like was that Lily and Atlas only get back together by chance at the end. I'm guessing the fact that they only ever meet by chance (except for when Lily calls him for help) is supposed to be symbolic that fate was bringing them together, but it would have been nice to see Lily take more agency around her love life and actively find Atlas when she was ready.
Overall this was a very compelling read, slow to start but impossible to look away from by the end. I found myself so intensely rooting for Lily and hoping she gets the ending she deserves. By no means a perfect book, but a deeply personal one for Hoover that I do think is worth the read.
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Sexual violence, Violence, Medical content, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Child abuse, Suicidal thoughts, and Alcohol
Minor: Child death and Death of parent
bookworm_43's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Bullying, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Toxic relationship, Violence, Medical content, Grief, Suicide attempt, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Toxic friendship, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
rubberrosebooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Child abuse, Child death, Cursing, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, Abandonment, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
thequiltyreader's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
This book really toyed with my emotions and had me on the rollercoaster with Lily. I felt the way the book was written, explaining things aren't always easy or black and white but in fact it is possible to feel love and hate and other emotional extremes concurrently and that they aren't mutually exclusive really got me thinking (and sobbing).
To anyone that needs to hear this - just keep swimming!
Graphic: Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Sexual assault, Toxic relationship, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
burnourhistory's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? No
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Violence, Pregnancy, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Child death, Death, and Death of parent
Minor: Gun violence, Medical content, and Suicide attempt
fi_sandison's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
4.5
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Toxic relationship, and Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Sexual violence, Violence, Pregnancy, and Abandonment
Minor: Child death, Suicidal thoughts, Vomit, and Medical content
brittinyh3711's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
5.0
Moderate: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Toxic relationship, Grief, Death of parent, and Pregnancy
Minor: Infidelity, Panic attacks/disorders, Sexual content, and Medical content
cbranine's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Bullying, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, and Pregnancy
Moderate: Cursing, Rape, and Sexual assault
Minor: Medical content, Death of parent, Alcohol, and Injury/Injury detail
a22jfruscione's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Graphic: Child death, Gun violence, Physical abuse, Sexual content, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Sexual violence, Death of parent, Pregnancy, Gaslighting, and Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Cursing, Misogyny, Panic attacks/disorders, Rape, Suicidal thoughts, Blood, Medical content, and Suicide attempt