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Ghosts by Dolly Alderton

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megzola's review against another edition

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emotional funny inspiring lighthearted medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0


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americattt's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

ā€œWhat would it be like, I wondered, to be seen through such adoring eyes, that they would not only capture you in a painting, but rearrange you to further exhibit who you were? I stroked the rounded ankle of where my neck met my shoulder like it was the hand of a lover and thought about being put inside a Rubikā€™s cube of someoneā€™s gaze. I couldnā€™t imagine ever being studied or known like that.ā€ Ā 

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rhii_reading's review against another edition

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emotional funny medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.75

I will never get sick of Dolly Alderton writing books about millennial women trying to navigate their way through life - itā€™s always like she is literally in my head putting my thoughts on the page.Ā 

Whilst Nina and Jamesā€™ relationship was quite compelling, I thought Ninaā€™s non romantic relationships were the best aspects of Ghosts. Her struggling friendship with Katherine and the horrible sensation of realising childhood friends are slowly drifting onto different paths is as painfully realistic and relatable as it was in Everything I Know About Love. Likewise, the role reversal in her relationship with her parents, especially her father, and the subsequent reflection of her childhood memories was some of the most emotional moments Iā€™ve ever had in a book.Ā 

When it comes to the actual romantic relationship that is supposed to be the focus of this novel, whilst it does manage to be appropriately contemporary and realistic without being overly cliche, it felt less significant and frankly interesting than everything else going on in Ninaā€™s life. In this respect it almost feels like the book was mis-marketed.Ā 

That being said, the way that Alderton writes about the trials and tribulations of dating, especially as you get older, is painfully relatable - like everything else she writes about! The characters and narration are witty without every being too cliche or on the nose. As always, a funny and touching book about juggling all the different relationships we have in life.Ā 

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alexisgarcia's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

this book came to me at perfect time in my life. dolly alderton writes some of the some realistic characters iā€™ve ever read. her characters are flawed and just so human. the themes of ghosts and self contentment are so well done. i love how the story actually revolves around the main character, rather than the main character AND the love interest. it involved the main characters whole life, her romantic relationships, friendships, family, and even her relationship with herself. i just adored this book and will read anything dolly alderton writes till the end of time <3

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passionatereader78's review against another edition

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emotional funny sad slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

Emotional read. LIFE is hard for Nina right now. She is being ghosted by Max the man she thought she could see herself married to.Ā  Her parents are having problems. She's questioning her relationship with her closest friend and her neighbor is horrible.Ā 

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thisbookrox's review

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3.0

i like dollyā€™s memoir better, she basically wrote a novel about someone just like her. her memoir is more authentic to me.
i wish lola would have gotten her happy ending

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marpaige's review against another edition

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emotional funny hopeful lighthearted reflective sad medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0


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agirlnamedellie's review against another edition

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emotional funny reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

A heartbreaking and honest reflection of family, relationships and friendships. Despite the sad moments there were some also hilarious one liners. The romance wasn't embellished like some romance novels, which I thought was really refreshing. Also loved the character of Lola and reading about the surrey group of 'mummies' was so so funny. I really felt like I grew alongside the main character on her journey throughout the novel and the relationship with her father I found really heartwarming. Really enjoyed.

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hlorgan1's review against another edition

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lighthearted slow-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? No
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

2.5

Nothing really happens in this book. It simultaneously felt very real but also unrealistic in different elements. Nice to try a different genre but it's not for me

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itsheyfay's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? It's complicated
  • Loveable characters? No
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.25

My god this wasnā€™t the book I planned to start 2023 with, but Iā€™m glad itā€™s over with because I had a hard time enjoying this. Some of the more serious parts revolving her dadā€™s dementia and her grief of growing up were well-written, but everything else felt so pompous. I get itā€™s supposed to be satirical and making social commentary, but this wasnā€™t vibing for me. I was definitely not the I tended audience for this book. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

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